 Okay, welcome to another NARC Survivor Live video, in this one I'm going to be speaking to you about why you will never hear from the narcissist ever again, now before I get into it please hit that thumbs up button down below, it will help the youtube algorithm to get this message out there to other survivors who may need to see it, and also hit the subscribe button, click all notifications then you will be notified when I upload a video in the future, and if you would like to book a one-on-one coaching session with me just go to my website it is NARC Survivor.co.uk, now let's get into this message, why you will never hear from the narcissist ever again, because remember how things were in the beginning, they were very different back then, they manipulated you, they loved bombed you, they lured you into this thing to begin with, and then they suddenly changed, they started treating you differently, they didn't give you the same credits, love, respect and support that they did when they first targeted you, and why did that happen, why did things turn out that way, and of course the reason why is because you started to see through them, you started to realise what they were doing and what they were really about, and then at some point they just thought what's the point of wearing this mask, if you've already seen through it, you've already seen who I am, you already know exactly what I'm about, so why should I even bother, why should I even waste my time wearing this disguise, why should I go through all of our effort if you already know exactly who I am, and that is exactly how they are thinking, so they don't bother anymore, they don't wear the mask, they don't hide or conceal their true nature, and instead they just go ahead and show you exactly who they are, until they get to the point where they realise they can't manipulate you anymore, they can't exploit you, they can't get went over on you, so then they learn that the only thing they can do is pull back, and it's not always because they want to, a lot of times they may not want to do that, it's kind of as a last resort, they feel like they have no other choice, so they will withdraw from you, you won't hear from them anymore, and yes there may be a time when they were texting you all of the time, they were calling you constantly, but now when you text them, they're not responding, when you call them they're not picking up your calls, and you want to know why, because things weren't always that way, they once treated you very differently, and the reason why is because they know they can't plague you, they can't have it like they used to, like they want to, they can't have their cake and eat it too, so right now they're giving you the silent treatment, they're sulking somewhere, lurking in the shadows, but they're still watching you, because they want to see what you're up to, they want to see what you're doing, they want to see if you've moved on, they want to see if you're still suffering after everything they did to you, but it's not because they don't want to come back, it's because they know they can't, I mean you've got to look at it like this, what are they supposed to do? I mean there's a good chance they've already completely burned the bridge to where there is no way for them to get back, because when they do it, when you're dealing with a narcissist, they will typically say and do whatever they think will hurt you the most, and it gets to a point where it's like their words and their actions seem to define them, and whenever you think of them, you think of the words that they said to you, the actions, the behaviors that they committed, the state that they left you in, and how they showed no remorse, I mean you used to think of them in a very different way, in the beginning could even say that you felt them attractive, you were drawn to them, I mean physically they may have been handsome, beautiful, they acted very kind, loving, respectful towards you, when they manipulated you, they love bombed you, and that was once what you associated with them as their character, but then as time went by and they said all of these horrible things to you, they did all of these things, then that is now what you associate with them, and they know that, they know what you're thinking of them, they know that you don't approve of the things that they've said and done, they know that you think they're bad, they know that you think they're evil, so why on earth would they ever come to knock on your door ever again, why would they ever come back to you, when you already know what they're about, you've already seen all of these things that they've done, you listen to their words, and yet, and here is really like the big thing of how you know that they're not going to come back, and you won't hear of them again, it's that despite all of the things they said to you, despite all of the things they did, deep down you know that you don't deserve it, you know that you deserve better treatment, you know that you deserve more, you know that you shouldn't have been talked to in that way, you know that they never should have done those horrible things to you, and they see that as well, they know it, they know how you see yourself, they know that you value yourself more, they know that you believe that you don't deserve to be talked to and treated that way, which does not align with how they want to behave, because they want to be able to say and do whatever they want, and for people to just enable them and let them get away with it, that's why they're surrounded with other fake people just like them, people who are very low standards, people who will accept anything, in terms of their conduct and behavior, people who don't care about the way that they talk about other people, people who don't care that they swear, they curse, people who don't care that they are immoral and corrupt, but that was never you, you did care about all of those things, you don't like it when people yell and scream, you don't like it when people curse, you don't like their toxic and dysfunctional behaviors, you weren't willing to accept any of that, but they want to be around people who will accept it, and of course that's never going to be you, and they know that and that is why you will never hear from them ever again, they're just going to leave you alone, I mean in some situations it may trigger them, they may feel rejected and abandoned, and they may desire to punish you and take revenge to where they may try to start a smear campaign against you, and if that's how it is in your situation you do need to be very careful, but speaking about why you will never hear from them ever again, it's because you don't approve of them, you don't like the way that they behave, the way that they conduct themselves inappropriately, you don't approve of it, you think it's wrong, all of these other fake people around them, they may not think it's wrong, or they may not really care, they don't hold an ass to say it's accountable, they don't make them feel bad about themselves, so they can get on fine with them, but not with you, because you disapprove of it, and just by being in your presence they feel bad about themselves, and they don't want to feel that way anymore, they want to feel good about themselves despite the things that they say, despite the things that they do, they want people to validate the illusion, and you're not going to do that because you're a truth teller, you stand for the truth, and you're about more healthier dynamics, so they're not going to be able to act that way with you, they're not going to be able to get that past you, because you're not willing to accept it, you want more, you deserve more, and it's because you have that self-esteem, you have that self-respect to know that you do not deserve to be talked to in that way, you do not deserve to be treated like that, and you understand that what you do deserve is to be treated with love, acceptance, and respect, three things you're never going to get from a narcissist, they're never going to be that way with you, yeah they can fake it for a certain amount of time in the beginning, and that's often what leaves you holding on, thinking that that's who they really are, or that maybe at some point in time that false character will come back, when that's not who they are, all of those horrible things they said and did, that's what aligns more with their true character, I'm seeing 190 live viewers and only 19 thumbs ups, so if this message has been helping you so far, please do hit the thumbs up button down below to show your support, thank you, but yeah I'm sure some of you, you clicked onto this video, you saw the title, why you will never hear from the narcissist ever again, and you may be thinking to yourself, what if it's me, you doubt yourself, you blame yourself, you assume that you must have done something wrong, you didn't really do anything wrong at all, it may have seemed wrong in their eyes, because they don't value people, they don't respect boundaries, they view you as an extent to them, so they feel like they should be able to say and do whatever they want, whenever they want to do it, and you should just tolerate and accept it, if you've got a problem with it, it's because there's a problem with you, not because it has anything to do with them, because their minds, they're perfect, they're superior, they're grandiose, so they can do whatever they want, they can say whatever they like to you, and you've just got to put up with it, you've got to deal with it, and that's just how they think, that's just how things are with them, and that's how it's only ever going to be, no narcissist is ever going to be accepting, polite and respectful, consistently over a long period of time, they're always going to act out in some way, you're going to see that anger, you're going to see the rage, you're going to see the passive aggression, you're going to get the insults, the put downs, the temper tantrums, the disrespect, the insults, they're going to degrade you, humiliate you in public, they're going to do all of those things, because that is just how narcissists behave, and yet you, you couldn't put up with it, you couldn't tolerate the toxic and dysfunctional behaviors, so then they learn that they can't get away with those behaviors around you, so then what do they do, they just ignore you, they forget about you, they just think you're stupid, you're weird, or in some ways at some level they may kind of respect you, they recognize they can't get went over on you, they can't get past you, so then they've got no choice but to take it somewhere else, because that's all that they can really do, they can't be that way with you anymore, and that's really good, because when you don't hear from them anymore, that means that you have defeated them, you've successfully set strong boundaries, maybe you've got that support as well, so now they've learned, they can't do that with you anymore, they can't treat you that way, so then they have no choice but to leave you alone, they accept their defeat, anyway that's all 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