 All right, total non sequitur question is watching porn cheating so You know, I'm not an expert on porn, but I do believe that it's Look at you have to define what cheating is. Is it, you know, penis and vagina intercourse or is it masturbation and fast? Fantasizing the reality is is men and women Fantasize when they masturbate, okay? Women do it men men typically need visual stimulation women do it in their head But if you masturbate and if you fantasize even if it's not about your partner, you know Is that cheating or even if it's you know, if it's if it's not your partner is that cheating? So my question is Why do people use porn? Well, I think are actually the danger of porn Let me talk about the danger of porn and what I think is the danger of porn and I don't use it anymore is that It desensitizes you too much masturbation Desensitizes you I mean, I mean guys who over map I think there is a level of over masturbation and you know It's fine to have a release once a week, but I think as you get older that can wear on you I mean it makes it harder and harder to orgasm inside of a woman if you're Masturbating too heavily. That's just my perception on it. But do I think it's cheating? No, I don't consider that true cheating because the reality is is we're gonna sometimes people fantasize about others while they're having sex with you Is that cheating? I don't know and I'm not here to judge What's most important if you want to have a healthy sex like here You want to have a healthy sex like sex life together? Read this book making love all the time and read this book Intimate communion by this is by Barbara DeAngelis This is by David data. These are two great books to shift your sex life When you learn how to make love all the time and really connect with your partner at a true emotional level Are you willing to do that? Hit that like button? All right. Thank you Great question