 The next thing in our lives always comes out of the next you. Who you are becoming should determine what you are going to be doing. And what happens in transition is because we don't understand, I have to melt down who I've been, to let that go of all my attachment to that identity, all my ego attachment to it, all my security I got from it, all my friends that gathered around that version of me, all my mindsets that were gathered around that version of me, all that that version of me built and achieved, all the relationships that version of me built are going to be willing to let all of that go in order to move through the next version of me and whatever is destined to travel with me, whatever is a perennial plant, whatever is a perennial thing in my life, it's going to be with me in the next phase. I don't need to worry about that. When I emerge through the cocoon, whatever is to be kept will stay with me, whatever was to be lost, and we need to let that be lost by the meltdown in between.