 Hey guys, welcome back. I'd like to introduce our next speaker, Sasha Daygame. I've met Sasha once briefly, but I'm really looking forward to hearing him speak. I haven't heard him speak yet. He's a former professional comedian, so he should be in for a treat, some sort. He's also the founder of the Direct Dating Summit, a returning speaker of the 21 convention, and he's infamous for many of his YouTube videos. And he has an amazing reputation for really being able to help guys transform their fears, break through, and just start rocking it with their dating lives. So let's welcome Sasha. That was funny because for a second you were like, I'm gonna bring up Sasha Daygame and then you got real serious, you know, is there a problem? I'm like, who's got a peep with me? So I thought we didn't have to fight. Cool, how are you guys doing? That was shit. How are you guys doing? Who's ready for vagina? Let me hear you say vagina. Let me hear you say, where were the vagina? Yeah, see, I'm worried because some of you might be bisexual because that was a bit, that was a big leak, that's all right. Cool, all right, so let's get right into it. Well, I talk a lot, so I'm probably gonna go fast, cover a lot of stuff, and try and have some time for questions at the end. So let's get cracking. First of all, Sasha Daygame is a boss. I just thought I'd point that out in case anybody didn't know. Welcome to London. It's my home turf. Glad you're here. All right, so first of all I wanna go through some core mindsets. I'm presuming you all know basically what I do. I don't like clubs, they're all gay, and I just do Daygame and I do Direct, and anyone who doesn't do Direct is a pussy. That's pretty much just to catch you up real quick. All right, so core mindsets for moi. Okay? Not giving genuine compliments to women is rude. Okay, inappropriate behavior. There's a beautiful girl walking down the street, she's taking all this time to make herself look amazing, right? She's done them, maybe she goes to the gym and works out, maybe she's just a skinny bitch, nobody knows, but she goes through all this effort, she's eating good, she does her hair, and all of this kind of shit, probably spent an hour and a half doing her makeup. She looks amazing, and all you have to do to make her feel great and say, hey, you know what? You're beautiful, you look sexy, whatever. It's all you gotta do, it takes three seconds, but you, you're just gonna walk by and do nothing, aren't you? Huh? You lazy, selfish bastard, okay? Not cool, all right? It's really fucking easy, so being lazy, I don't care what the excuse is, well, maybe she won't like it. Shut the fuck up, all right? She's a woman, she looks good, tell her she looks good, okay? It's rude, it's insulting to women. It's insulting to women not to tell them how good they look. If you don't tell them how good they look, either you're gay or you're just an asshole, okay? Pick one, okay? Does that make sense? This should be your mindset, okay? Stop being an asshole, start telling girls they're fucking sexy. Does that make sense? Good. But what if she doesn't like it? Shut the fuck up, all right? Number two, start living life authentically and learn to love making women's day, okay? So, you're a man, presuming you're heterosexual, you see a beautiful girl, most natural thing in the world to tell her she looks good. It's actually inauthentic and weird to not tell her she looks good. It's not authentic, you're not being a normal man, okay? If you like women and you want to have sex with women and date them, who likes girls, put your hands up real quick, all the people like women. All right, so everyone's got your hand up. You are not being authentic if you are not approaching girls, okay? It's not natural, it's weird. Stop being a weirdo, okay? Now, again, this one, I used to talk with this for ages, I love, I mean, who does not love making women feel good? Anybody, quick, let's make some noise if you just hate making women feel good. Come on, all the, nobody, there you go, okay? It's fucking, everybody does, okay? It takes one second. I got addicted to this. I love making women feel good, not just in the bedroom, also in the bedroom, okay? But in all aspects, so by coming up to them, telling them they look fantastic, you're making them feel good. Nothing bad ever happens. I've talked about that in other speeches before, so I'm not gonna go into it. Get addicted to this. Start being authentic. Love making women's day. They'll love you for it. Okay, now, this one can be funny. Beautiful women are easier. I'm not saying necessarily if she's hot, she's just gonna lay down and yeah, take my vagina now. That's not necessarily what I'm saying. However, a lot of guys have this fucked up mindset where they think, oh, well, I'll just go for girls and aren't that hot. I know lots of guys who just will not approach the really hot girls. They'll go for girls who are like, kinda like okay or semi-cute or whatever. And I'm like, no, no, okay? Beautiful girls are way friendlier. They're way friendlier. They're way more upward. They wanna talk to you. They know they're beautiful. They're okay with it. As long as you know how to approach them and you're okay with yourself, you've got a chance, okay? It's the ugly girls that are gonna give you the most hard time. Because they're fucking ugly. No one's talking to them. They're fat. Nobody wants to be, hey, sorry, that's just how it is. So, like if you approach a girl who's like a little chubby and not really that hot and you're like, hey, you know what's going on? I wanna meet you. She's gonna be like, get the fuck away from me. What do you want from me? Because they're not used, they're gonna think you're trying to rob them or some kind of trick or some shit. They're not in a good place, okay? They're not, okay? I wish them all the best. However, it's easier to hook up with gorgeous girls, because hey, they know they're gorgeous. They're okay with it. They've had easy lives. People treat them nice. There's no reason, if you're a hot 24-year-old girl and you look good and whatever, there's no reason for you to be angry at the world. Why would you be angry? Why? Everybody's always giving you whatever you want, hand and foot, okay? So for all you guys out there who are like, well, yeah, yeah, I just get nervous with hotter girls and I don't know, I just maybe one day I'll work you out. No, shut the fuck up. Start approaching girls. I'm gonna talk about this more later, but beautiful women are easier to deal with, easier to get on dates, easier to hook up with than girls that are not beautiful, okay? So stop wasting your time with non-beautiful girls. Go for the girls that you actually like. Going for what you want is sexy and makes you a boss. That's right, I spelled boss that way. One of the most attractive things you can actually, you know, characteristics you can actually have is just going for what you want, okay? This is for everything. Obviously, I'm talking about dating, but so few people actually try and get what they want. It's unbelievable. I talk about this in a bit more specifically, but in terms of women, it's super attractive just going for what you want, like literally going for it. So many guys don't go for it. They don't approach, or they'll talk to a girl, they're not clear, they don't know what they're talking about, they're not actually trying, just by really going for it. When a woman says, holy shit, this guy's really trying to hook up with me. Damn, he's not kidding. He's really, he's trying to, he's not gonna walk away without my number. He's not, I might have, fuck, this guy really likes me, okay? When you get, when you get it into a woman's head that you really are going for it, okay? That you're not afraid, that you're really going for it, you like her, you wanna be with her, that is extremely attractive, okay? Because guess what? It's showing her that you're a guy who's used to getting what you want. You've clearly got some skills with women, you believe in yourself, okay? You're being authentic, you're going for what you want. These are all attractive qualities, okay? Gotta go for what you want, okay? I see so many guys, they know what they want. They won't say it, they won't act on it. And they might tell their friends, they really like her, but I don't know. Okay? Just by going for it, you're already putting yourself in a category aside from a lot of people who completely are not, makes you a boss. Just by trying, you're a boss in my book, there's no failure. You're trying, you're doing good. So if I can go for what you want. Now, this is a big one. I've talked about this so much before, but I'll do it quickly. There's no such thing as rejection, okay? Who still really feels that they're afraid of rejection? Okay, let's see in the hands. Really? Only six guys. Wow, okay? So the rest of you are just already, huh? You're all gangsters. All right, so, a couple of mindsets for this. First of all, I just got to a point where I just don't care. I just don't care anymore. I just don't care what people think. I just approached so many girls already and had lots of success, lots of failure. I just don't care. I love myself and I don't care what people think. That takes a while to cultivate. That could take a lifetime of really working on yourself and doing all that kind of stuff and hopefully you're all on that path. You're here right now, so I'm guessing you're already on that path of just getting better and building on your core, you know, loving yourself. That's really the ideal thing you can do to not have rejection is to love the shit out of yourself. You know, like, I'm so fucking awesome. If a girl rejects me, I look at her like, she's fucking retarded. I'm just like, what is wrong with you? You're just gonna go home and do what? You're just gonna fucking jerk off or you're gonna fucking be with some douche-bad guy with no personality who's just a fucking, like, what do you do? I feel sorry for women. If they have an opportunity with me and they fuck it up, I feel really bad for them. I'm just like, oh, oh, you're retarded. Oh, that sucks. I'll give them a little hug. Like, you're a retard. Oh, that's cute. No, you'll find yourself a nice retarded guy one day. That's cool. It's not gonna be me, but that's fine. And I feel bad for them and they see that I feel bad for them and I'm just like, yeah, you fucked it up. That's fine. And that's really, you know, they fucked it up. You know, I feel bad. I still feel bad for all those girls who fucked it up. What can you do? All right, so that's why rejection doesn't exist. But furthermore, a specific mindset I want to share is a couple. First of all, I don't believe in... I just don't think rejection really exists. This is something Alan Roger Curry, a good friend of mine and one of our speakers at the summit, he gave me this example and this blew my mind. It was a couple of years ago now and so I'll share this with you directly from him. As you imagine, just for a second, there's some kind of club. There's 50 girls in that club, 50 women. They're all in there, dancing around. And I say to you, I'm going to go into that club. I'm going to give one of those women an envelope with $5,000 in it. Let's make it 5,000 pounds. Yeah. It's more money. Okay? Now, all you got to do to get that money is go into that club and walk up to every girl and say, excuse me, do you have what I'm looking for? If you walk up to one of the other 49 girls, they're just going to look at you and be like, no. And you got to ask her three times. You got to say to each girl, do you have what I'm looking for? The right girl, the third time you ask, she's going to be like, yes, I do. Pow! She gives you the money. However, all the other chicks are just going to look at you like, what the fuck are you talking about? Get away from me. Okay? So, of the people in this room, who would go in there and try and get that 5,000? Okay? Just about everyone. This guy's not having any of it. That guy too. I'm like, fuck that. I don't need that money. You must be rich. Right. You're my best friend now. I want to go on a boat ride. So I'm hanging with you. So why would you go in there and try and get that money? You can talk to as many girls as you want. But why would you do it? Okay. Simpler. Anyone over here? Why would you... Did you put your hand up? It would be fun, but why would you go in there and look for the money? You want the money. Okay. So, are you not worried about all the other girls who are going to... Why not? Yeah. You're never going to see them again is one reason, but be specific. Why doesn't it matter? Exactly. Fantastic. They don't have what you're looking for. Right. Those 49 chicks, they don't have what you're looking for. So if you come up to them and they don't have it and you leave, is that... Did they reject you? Is that rejection? No. Of course not. They just don't have what you're looking for. Right. So the same thing applies to women in dating. Right. If you walk up to your girl, hey, I'd like to take you home and bang the shit out of you all night. I don't want to do that. Okay. Well, maybe this girl over here does. Right. It's not a rejection. She just doesn't have what you're looking for. It's that simple. Okay. Rejection does not exist. My friend, Marcus, in his speech last year, he shared one of his mindsets, which is one of my core ones as well, which is, I don't... There's no rejection for me also because the category's kind of been replaced for me. It's either, you know, things are going to go well. I'm going to have a great interaction, have fun, get laid, make a friend, make a girlfriend, whatever. The worst things that have ever happened to me, the worst things, they've always been funny ass stories. Okay. And I've shared this before on the internet, so, I won't go into it. But, it's a great mindset as well. There's no rejection because it's either going to go great or it's going to be hilarious. That's it. Some girl attacks you, tries to kick you in the balls, you know, freaks out. That's fucking hilarious. I'll be telling that to my friends for you. This chick tried to kill me. It was awesome. Okay. It's fine. I don't care. I'll be telling the next girl I have a date with. All right. Okay. Generally speaking in life, see, guys are afraid to get what they want. They're like, well, what if I try and I fail? Guys are afraid of failure. But it's ridiculous because in reality, you're only competing with 3% of guys. 3%. Okay. In every field, I pretty much realize that in most fields, everything, every job you can imagine, most people suck. Have you noticed that? Most people suck. Most doctors suck. Most dentists suck. Most lawyers suck. Okay. Most PUA's suck. Okay. Most people just suck or they're just mediocre. Okay. Very few people are actually good at what they do. Okay. Very few people actually try to become in that top echelon. Okay. There's a story. There's this one speaker. His name eludes me, but I love the guy. I just haven't listened to his stuff in years. He gives a specific example that many years ago, there was a chain called Macy's and they basically had this thing where they were going to have a program to train people in their company to become managers. So if you're working for like seven bucks an hour or whatever, you could become a manager and then get a much higher paid job and you can manage your own store and all this kind of stuff. And they put out this program to their own employees saying, okay, look, you can come in twice a week. We'll train you for free. Maybe six hours a week. And then you go through the training and you get more money, become a manager, maybe even own a store one day. Okay. Awesome. And the entire chain actually applied, just applied to be trained for free to get better jobs and more money. 3%. 3%. Okay. So if you're actually in that 3%, you're like, yeah, I'm going to be a boss. I'm going to be awesome. I'm going to improve myself. 97% of people aren't even competing against you. Okay. So it's not that hard to get good and succeed because most people are lazy. Okay. So again, by being here, I believe you're already in the 3%. So keep that in mind. All right. Why direct? So, like many of you in this room probably, in my early years, I tried doing kind of like indirect stuff and just kind of trying to talk to girls without being clear about my intentions and what I was doing. And I suffered horribly. I suffered horribly. And today, I'm going to talk quite a bit about this. Okay. Now, I direct. It's a word you're going to see a lot from me. More authentic. Okay. You're a man. 9 times out of 10. When you see a girl that you want to talk to, why do you want to talk to her? She's hot. She's sexy. There's something about her. Nice smile. Nice tits. Nice ass. Whatever. She's fucking hot. You want to talk to her. This is the most natural thing in the world. Okay. Jesus gave us penises and them vaginas. Okay. That's the way it's meant to be. It would have been funnier two weeks ago with Jesus, but not anymore. So, it's just the most natural thing in the world. That's what you're supposed to do. Okay. All the guys I've met that are truly amazing with women that are, you know, naturals. They're not coming up with any excuses to talk to women whatsoever. They're talking to girls that are saying whatever's on their mind. They think they're sexy. They'll tell her she's sexy. They'll grab girls. They don't care. They're not afraid of anything. Okay. And it is absolutely authentic and natural for me. You know what? I want to talk to you. I want to get to know you. You're cute. You're sexy. Whatever. Who are you? Okay. Showing that authentic, natural, interest in a woman is normal. Okay. And it's very strange to on purpose try and not show that you like a girl. To try and, you know, to on purpose hide your intention. It's weird. You know. If I want something from you, if I want you to pass me a fucking can of coke, I'll be like, yo, I was wondering, that can of coke doesn't really look, might fall over where it is. Can you just maybe pass that over here and we'll, and then later be like, actually I wanted to drink the coke. And that's why I had you. No, I'm just going to fucking, just pass me the fucking coke, dude. You know, like, most of you guys are already naturally being direct. But then when it comes to women, we're all fucking pussies. Okay. Doesn't make sense. Way more natural. Way more authentic. Next point. Saves time and psychological energy. Who here has ever spoke to a girl for half an hour and then you find out, oh, whoops, she's got a boyfriend. Okay. I want to kill myself every time that happens. I literally want to jump on. I'm like, why the fuck was I talking to you? I want to have sex with you and you've got a boyfriend or you're fucking, you're not interested. What the fuck is this? Okay. I hate it. I want, I've actually wanted to punch girls in the face because I'm clearly flirting with them for like half an hour. They're like, yeah, I'm married. Why would you be here for half an hour? I guess I shouldn't open with the Starbucks opener. All right. So, saves time. Okay. Time is our most precious commodity. Okay. We are, I know a lot of you guys are young guys. We're all going to fucking die. Okay. We're all dead. As soon as you're born, it's a fucking death sentence. Okay. There's only one thing more valuable than everything. Then your sex drive, then money, everything. It's time. Once your time is gone, it's gone. That's it. You have X amount of days on this planet. Hopefully, the world is coming to an end. So, your time is your most important thing. Right? So, I hate wasting my time. You know, like I'm 33 now. I'm getting older and older. I don't want to waste any time. Okay. Every minute, I want to be doing something. I want to be having a good time. You know, I want to be either working or being productive or enjoying myself. I don't want to just waste fucking time. Nothing angers me more than wasting my time with girls. If a girl's not interested, cool. Just tell me I'm interested. Okay. Every minute or two, you're fucking sexy. I want to get to know you. I'll start hitting on her. I'll let her know my intention. If she's not interested, she's going to say, no, I don't like you. I have a boyfriend. Whatever. Cool. Awesome. High five. Great. We met. Big hug. See you later. Okay. Or, hey, maybe you're cool. We can be friends. Maybe. She's really awesome. That's possible. Okay. Saves you a lot of psychological energy. That's huge. Everything is connected. You're wasting a huge amount of energy, and it's extremely counterproductive. Okay. Do not waste your psychological energy. All right. Get more action. You actually get more action. Okay. Anyone guess why you'll get more action being direct? Just being clear about what you want. Nobody? Wow. What's that? Yep. Yep. That's absolutely. Okay. If you're actually saving more time, you can meet more girls. Absolutely. But just as importantly, if you're actually asking for exactly what you want, there's a chance you might actually get it. It's really that simple. You're asking her, hey, I like some pussy. Some girls are like, all right, yeah, no, horny, you can have some pussy. Cool. Instead of, hey, so do you know where the, yeah, I was just kind of lost. Can you help me? Who knows? Yeah. Of course, of course it's more awkward. Yeah. Because you're just you're just faffing around. I was just saying that, less awkwardness. Absolutely. Okay. Pow. Oh. Oh, yeah. This is a huge one. Okay. When you're direct and authentic and honest, you end up with women who are actually into you. Okay. Who wants to be with a girl? Who likes them for who they are? Anybody? Yes. Okay. So when you're inauthentic, you use any kind of premise, you know, maybe you're using routine, whatever it is you're doing, but if you're not really just being like, hey, you don't want to like it when it gets to know you, if you're being inauthentic, you're going to ask girls, whatever you're doing, you're going to end up with a chick who doesn't really like you. She likes what you represented. Maybe it was your car. Maybe it was, you know, pretending you had a certain type of personality trait that you don't have, whatever it was. Ultimately, this is why a lot of guys just don't have girlfriends. They just end up like having one-night stands and all this kind of stuff because they're not projecting who they are. They're projecting, you know, a bunch of bullshit to get girls and you'll get girls who fall for that kind of stuff. Hey, you know, I do have a Lamborghini or hey, let's do this routine but you're not that interesting. You don't drive a Lamborghini. Okay? So yeah, you'll hook up with some chick and you'll never see her again because you're not that person you're representing. Okay? So by being direct, you're essentially, you're being authentic. Okay? So you're going to end up with chicks who actually like you for who you are. That's the most important thing. You get to a point eventually where you don't really have to try to get women like, if you're just cool being yourself and you're just having a good time and you're just jumbling around just being you, girls are going to sense that, hey, this guy's just fucking cool automatically and you don't have to do jack shit. Imagine just sitting at home and girls just want to see you. Fantastic. Without using escort services. Let me just put that out there. Escorts are not your friend. By the way, this is my second ever PowerPoint presentation. It's awesome, isn't it? It's like cheating. You know, you can't forget what to say. It's all on the board. Love it. All right. You get more respect. This is a huge one. Okay? Women respect a man who has the balls to say what he thinks and wants. Okay? And he liked some of them and he just was always opposed to you. And I just, I flipped on him one day. I was like, dude, what do you want to have? Do you want to have 30 female friends that you hang out with and don't have sex with? Or would you rather hit on them all? Some of them will get angry and then you'll, you'll filter it down to three female friends who you're sleeping with. And he went, yeah, actually I wouldn't mind that. That's exactly what happened. He just started going around hitting on all these girls. You know what? It's about time we hooked up. You're sexy, I'm sexy. Let's do this. Come over for a back rub. Let's get magical. Okay? And what happened was a lot of them were like, no, I'm not interested in that, but cool. He ended up hooking up with about three of them. Okay? But then what's interesting is the hottest girl. This is amazing. This goes with what I was saying before. I love this. The hottest girl in the social circle who's literally one of the hottest girls in his school, she said to him, no, I'm not, I'm not interested in hooking up with you, but I do appreciate your honesty. And she started treating him completely differently than before. She started treating him like a boss. Every time there was an argument between, like one day he got into an argument with another one of her friends. Even though he was being a dick and was wrong, the hot girl who he hit on took his side. Okay? And all the other girls in the social circle started treating him with more respect because she treated him with more respect. So suddenly they're like, well, he must be fucking cool now. And all he did was be like, you know what? I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you. And she was like, nope. Yeah, that's all that happened. He's like, yeah, I'm gonna fuck you. She's like, no, we're not. But at the same time, more respect. Okay? Just for being honest and saying what was on your mind. Fucking awesome. I love that. All right. Develop your self-esteem. Okay? You're going for what you want. You're doing all these things. You just feel better about yourself. You're not being a slimy, little fucking maneuvering. Like, hey, let's, yeah. Let's go to my house. I've got a iguana I want to show you. Yeah. What? Oh, you don't want to have, oh, sorry. Well, there wasn't a iguana, but it's sick right now. It's in the hospital. No. Okay? Develop your self-esteem. This is really important. There's your self-esteem. Again, it's for your whole life. Right? You're always, it's either growing or being. Okay? So by being direct and honest and authentic, you respect yourself. I look in the mirror and I think, yes, that's a sexy man. I love him. Okay? I haven't done anything evil or wrong. Don't manipulate people. Therefore, I feel pretty good about myself. I look in the mirror in the morning and I go, yes, if I was a chick, I would marry the, I would fuck the shit out of myself. Look at that man. He's delicious. Okay? So self-esteem, very important. Now, this is great. No angry girls and more girlfriends. Okay? Because, I'm honest with all the girls pretty much about my intention and also about the fact that I'm seeing other girls if I'm doing that and honest with the whole thing, there's no angry girls ever. There's no chicks out there who are like, that's fucking Sasha. He's an asshole. I hate him. I can't believe I let him put his penis in my vagina. There's no chicks out there like that at all. Okay? One of my girlfriends, I was with her for a while and I asked her. I said, you know, I basically, you know, we ended it and we decided to be friends or whatever. I said, okay, I'm over at school. We can hang out as friends. And we met up and I said, hey, you know, you were a little bit pissy there before. Basically, she wanted to be like, you know, monogamous and I, I didn't want, I couldn't do that. And I said, how come, you know, why are you, you know, two weeks by you're totally cool and hang out with friends? And she said, yeah, I thought about it and I couldn't think of a reason to be angry with you because you were open with friends. You totally never did anything that, you know, would have me angry. I went, yeah, cool, that was it. And that's exactly what happens with other dudes. Other guys will lie or pretend they want to be chicks, you know, boyfriend or all this kind of shit and then they'll have sex with them and then dump them and girls, of course they're going to be pissed off. She thought you were offering one thing and you didn't and you broke your word and you lied or manipulated her or did whatever and so, again, so a lot of the girls I was up with and even though some of them have boyfriends and whatever, we're still friends, you know, just yesterday, I got into town, you know, saw one of my girls, she's with this other guy now but, you know, we hung out, it was fun, we got to catch up and it's great. Like, it's great to be able to hang out with chicks, you know, get female opinions on stuff. Hey, you know, it's easy to talk to girls when there's two cute girls hanging around you, seriously, very easy. They'll go over there and poke girls and bring them over or whatever, doesn't matter. You're socially-proofed, it's awesome. Female friends, you will have lots of them. If you don't lie, be honest and authentic, the more you have, the better. People run entire, you know, things where all they do is have female friends and they just go and, you know, get other girls. So that's good. Now, is it because I put the word pussy up on the screen? Look, it's my presentation. I can swear in my thing if I want to. Just because I'm using PowerPoint does not mean I will not swear. Come on. Now, you're entitled to pussy. A lot of guys think they have to do shit to get pussy. It's ridiculous. I have to do this or make this money. It's fucking retarded. Just accept right now, you should be getting laid right now. Unless you're a serial killer or you've done some horrible shit or you cut women's ears off and send it to people in the mail or some shit, you are entitled to pussy right now. You don't have to do anything. Right now, you have a penis, that's enough. You're a decent person, that's enough. You don't have to do shit. So stop getting that. I'm not sure, yes, you should all be getting laid tonight. If you're not, work on it. Everybody should be all the time. There's nothing, there's no fucking test. There's no exam. You're all, it's it. You're entitled right now. All these ridiculous reasons. Well, maybe if I just know, you don't have to do that either. Everybody say, I deserve pussy on three. One, two, three. I deserve pussy. That was horrible. That's a bunch of guys who don't think they deserve pussy. On three, one, two, three. I deserve pussy. And could the neighbors hear us right now? Make me feel, make me feel you want some fucking, that you deserve vagina. One, two, three. I deserve pussy. There we go. That's what I'm talking about. These two guys stand up. See, they're going to get laid soon because they stood up. They believe that shit. All right. Now, fearless. Start living fearlessly. Start picking some shit you're terrified of and go do it. You have to be fearless. Fear is the number one thing that keeps you the fuck down. It's horrible. I hate it. I got over my fear by going out and just talking to the hottest girl I could find for years all the time. That helped a lot. Some people go skydiving. Actually, one of our students recently, I was like, dude, you're too nice. You're too much of a sweetheart. Go jump out of a plane. He did. He jumped out of a fucking plane. He feels better now. Make it a habit. Find some shit you're afraid of. Go do it. If that means talking to lots of girls, do that as well. Being fearless. Fucking awesome. If you're terrified, you're not going to be direct. You're not going to be authentic. You're not going to tell girls you want to fucking stick your dick in their mouth. It's going to hold you back. Work on your fearlessness. Clear about your intent. This is like top thing ever. Be clear. Always. Girls need to know that you want to hook up with them. You want to fuck them. Just by them knowing for sure 100% you're going to fuck them, that might get you late. Even if a girl's like, well, I'm not sure about a lot. At the end of the day, sometimes girls are horny. If something happens to their, whatever guy they're sort of hooking up with or whatever, or one day they're super horny, or millions of reasons, but if you're absolutely clear, like, you know what, I really want to fuck the shit out of you. If you don't want to do that, that's fine, but you know what? Here's my number. I'm there for you. If you want to get the shit fucked out of you, I'm here for you. Just by being abundantly clear, I really like you. I want to hook up with you. That will get you late. Just on its own. Without any game or anything. You know what? I want to put my dick in your pussy. That's what needs to happen here. That in itself can be enough. Be clear about your intent. Tell her. You like her? Tell her you like her. You want to fuck her in the mouth? You can tell her that if you want to. You want to go on a date? Great. You want to just go out and go on a date and maybe get to know her or get a cup of coffee? Great. Tell her that. Be clear about what you want. Tell her. She's not psychic. Girls are not psychic. They don't know. Some girls will just run away from you because they might think you might talk to a girl for a while and be like, let's get a drink. Do you want to be your boyfriend? Do you want to just fuck her in the ass a couple of times? What do you want? They don't know. So literally girls will flake on you because they're like, well, yeah, I kind of like them. But girls might be thinking, I just want to fuck a guy for a couple of weeks or have a fuck buddy. And I think this guy might want to be my boyfriend. I don't want that. So they won't call you because they think maybe you want to be their boyfriend when really they just want to get fucked in the ass twice a week. So you're going to miss out. So be clear. If you want to date her, say, hey, I'd like to get to know your sweetheart. Let's meet up sometime in exchange orgasms. You and me would look good naked together. Let's do that. Make it. Let them know. That's what I want. I want to get naked. But be clear about your intent. It'll get you laid just that. Unapologetic. You can never apologize. Never apologize. Hey, you're fucking sexy. I'd like to hook up with you. What? How did you say? I'm really sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. You're a fucking pussy. You're done. You ever apologize for your intentions? You're a fucking pussy. Never apologize. You've got nothing to apologize for. Obviously, if you accidentally killed her cat, that's different. Then you're very sorry. But never apologize for your sexual intent or for being a man. It's retarded. You're supposed to try and have sex with her. That's your job. Act without hesitation. Real man, direct. The three-second rule is bullshit. Three seconds is way too long to think about doing something. Hey, I wonder if I should talk to you. I'm not sure. I don't think. Too long. You see a hot girl? Go. Start walking right away. Immediately. Don't even worry about what you're going to say. Just get your ass over there and talk to her. Zero seconds. I live by this. A man that knows what he wants. Self-explanatory. But great mindset. Girls can accuse me of all kinds of stuff. You're too aggressive. You're an asshole. At least I'm honest and I know what I want. I've said that so many times. At least I know what I want. I'm not flaky. Great mindset. I tell those girls' faces. I'm a dick. But I know what I want. OK. More of these mindsets will be on our forum. So do check that out. There will be millions of people there. Tell them what stuff I'll be in there. So it's just that URL. Mindsets. All right. Apparently, I've got less time than I thought. So let's see which of these I want to cover. All right. I'll do this real quick. So say it with your eyes. OK. My buddy James Marshall is really excellent at this. Also, he's excellent at making me look sexy. Pow! I stole his shirt. This is his shirt. So say it with your eyes. Right. Staring at a girl. Intense eye contact. The most powerful thing you can do. She can feel it. She knows you're molesting her in your head. And that's beautiful. OK. Really powerful. Say exactly what's on your mind. A lot of guys are really masking what's on it. If something pops in your head it's probably the right thing to say. OK. Go for it. Go with your instincts. OK. Again, if she gets angry she goes, well, I can't believe you said that on my tits. You go, hey, put yourself on the line too. This is great about direct. Put yourself on the fucking line. This has gotten me laid before. I've just said to women, look, I've said this is a great one. I like you, but I don't think you like me. See you later. I've had girls literally grab me, like, no, no, no, wait. And then just take me to their house and fuck me. Just because I made it really clear. I like you. I don't think you like me. OK. If you don't like me I'll walk away. Totally fine. Hey, if you don't want to give me your number that's cool. I'm just going to go. I can take it. OK. Putting it on the line. I like you. Do you like me or not? OK. Because it shows you're willing to walk away and that willingness to walk away is extremely powerful. Just that on its own, the fact that you're OK just saying, hey, if you don't like me at school, you're being that honest about it. That will get you laid on its own. It's very powerful. All right. So I'm going to go through these quick. These will get you laid. They're my day game rules. I'm going to go them quick because we're running low on time. Smile. If you don't smile, you could be a robber or a creepy and you'll scare girls. Learn to fucking smile. It's really easy. Hi, how are you doing? That easy. Smile first impression. If you're not smiling, that's probably the number one problem guys have. They don't fucking smile. Start smiling. Preframe. Very easy. If you run up to girls and you're just immediately like, hey, you're fucking hot. They're like, what the fuck's happening? They'll panic and they'll run away. There's a reason I do that in the videos because it fucking works. Come up to girls and say, hey, relax. I'm not crazy. However, you look fucking sexy. I want to meet you. I do those on the internet. You can see them all. Start doing that. My friend Marcus invented those as far as I can tell. Now, you like? Yep. I said that already. I'm emphasizing that always because it's really important. Run. Run. I hate. There's a really hot girl. Oh, I'm going to talk to her. Oh, she got. Oh, all right. Yeah. Do you know how fucking sad that is? The whole point about direct is you're okay with what you want. You know what you want. Run. When you see a hot girl, run your ass over there. What are you fucking 59? The only time this has been a problem is if in America when I taught boot camps my students were fat and they couldn't run. That happened before. They're literally like, oh, you're fucking, all right, you're fat, fair enough. Join the fucking gym. But you guys can do this. Not that many of you were fat in here. Maybe just one or two. So run after girls. It's powerful. You see what you want. Go for it. Don't fucking walk. If you walk, someone else is going to get her. Her phone's going to ring. She's hot. She's in demand. Get your ass over there and get in front of her and talk to her. Walking is fucking gay. Stop it. Just run. If you're directing, you know what you want. Why would you be? I'm not sure. Be fucking persistent. I've got on film me reopening girls seven times before they stop. Seven. Hey, I want to talk to you. No. It's me again. No. Hi. I'm just going to keep doing this until you stop and tell me your name. Hey, guess who? Sasha again. What's going on? I think we should have a baby. Just be persistent. If you really like her, fucking go after her. Girls will test you. They're testing to see if you're a fucking pussy. You stop a girl. She walks off. That doesn't mean she doesn't like you. That means she wants to see if you really like her. Get your fucking ass over there and reopen her. What's the matter with you? Again, only if a girl gives me a really firm like eye contact just goes, no. She gives me a firm, no. Then I'll be like, all right, fair enough. But if she looks back or any of that shit, get your ass over there and reopen. Don't be a fucking pussy. All right. Said this before. Only go for hotties. Stop approaching girls that aren't hot. Girls can tell if you like them. She's not hot. You don't find her attractive. Don't talk to her. If you want to be friends, sure, go make friends with her. But that's not why we're here. Only go for girls that are really, really attractive. Because guess what? You'll end up fucking girls that are really attractive because you're only talking to really attractive girls. You'll get used to it. It'll become normal. Your reality will be talking to beautiful girls. Is that not what we're all here for? Stop going for girls that you're not attracted to. It doesn't mean she has to be a supermodel. But as long as you feel like, you know what? It could be anything. You could be a tit man. You could be an ass man. It could be her smile. Whatever. But if you're attracted to her, awesome. Get your ass in there. But don't talk to her if you're not attracted to her. Stop it. No jerking off. Stop jerking off. I know you're giggling. Stop it. It's horrible. What are you doing? It's a waste of energy. It drains you. It kills your motivation. Don't jerk off. Go out there and fucking approach girls. They'll see it in your eyes that you're fucking hungry and you want to eat them. And they'll get turned on and you'll get laid more. Don't fucking jerk off. Simple. Simple rule. I know all of you are doing it. All right. Put your hands up right now. Who's jerking off? Come on. There you go. See that? That's good. I like that honesty. It's everybody. All right. Now. This is good. Avoid the POA mindset. POA mindset. They're like, yeah, you have to plow. You got to keep trying. No, you don't. Stop plowing. Plowing is fucking stupid. If a girl doesn't like you, leave her the fuck alone. She doesn't want to be your friend. She doesn't want to fuck you. Go away. Leave her alone. There's a difference between a girl's flirting with you and maybe she's interested or she's not interested. Do not waste your time with girls who are not interested in you. Believe me, if they're looking away, they're avoiding your questions and they're not saying shit. They don't want to talk to you. Move on. Stop wasting your time. Girls don't want you to plow. You're just wasting your time. Stop it. That's the whole POA thing. The other thing is, POA mindset is like, you'll open a girl and then you'll just run away immediately. You'll open her. Oh, I don't think she likes me and you leave. Don't do that either. Just because you can talk to another 50 girls doesn't mean you should. It's a stupid habit. Really, take an interest. Try and get to know her and see if there's a connection. If she doesn't like you, don't fucking plow. That's all I'm saying. Let me just emphasize because I think I was going to do this later. Try and see if you can get a genuine connection. When you talk to girls, really look for that genuine connection. See if there's something there. Is there something there? Do you really like her? Is there something that she likes about you? Try and figure it out. If there's really nothing there and she's not interested, get the fuck out of there. Don't waste your time. One thing I want to teach you guys I think I have time for and that's it. The three musts. This is the one thing. If you just do this one thing, this will get you laid a lot. This one thing. There's only three things you have to do in every interaction to genuinely have a real shot of hooking up with a girl. Really simple. Genuine compliment. You must let her know that you're attracted to her. Very simple. It could be anything. She doesn't know what it is. She has to know you find her sexy. That's one. Second thing. You must pull the trigger. Pull the trigger means actually asking her if you're in the daytime asking her out. Let's get a coffee now. Let's go bowling. Whatever the fuck it is, you've got to ask her out. That might mean if you're in a bar it might mean like pulling her into the bathroom and having sex with her or taking her home with you. Whatever pulling the trigger is you have to actually make that decisive move that means you're going to move things forward. That's number two. Number three, curiosity. If you really want to succeed with women you must show and take a genuine curiosity in women. What is their passion? What makes them tick? What do they love? What do they hate? Who are they? What's their plan? If they had a million dollars what would they do? If a girl really feels you're genuinely curious about her and you really want to get to know her that is the most powerful thing. That will get you laid on its own. Especially with these other two ingredients. Here's what's funky. I've come up with one magic sentence that puts all these ingredients together in one sentence. If you just memorize the sentence you'll generally not fuck it up. Can anyone guess what the sentence is? All those three ingredients. Anybody? Okay, I'll tell you. Sometimes I make students suffer and I make them guess and I make fun of them. So, really easy. You're gorgeous. We need coffee. Any variation of that? You're sexy. Let's get coffee. Whatever. You're telling her she's hot. You're gorgeous. You're pulling the trigger. Let's get coffee. You're asking her out. And the third one coffee sitting in front of somebody talking implies that you're curious about them. That you want to get to know them. If you weren't curious you wouldn't be saying, hey, let's sit there and talk. So, that one sentence. You're sexy. Let's get coffee. Right there. You've done it. You've asked her out. You've told her she's fucking hot. You're trying to get to know her. So, when you're in interaction you don't know where to take it. You don't know what to do. Maybe it was okay. And you're freezing up. Just go, you know what you are fucking gorgeous. Let's get coffee. What are you doing right now? That's simple. Not difficult. We'll get you laid. Can't believe you guys didn't even take a guess at the sentence. I believe I'm out of time. This is my slide for whoring myself. I have to put that in there because normally I don't do this. I'm available for coaching. That's my website. You haven't seen it. You can find me and the world's best direct dating coaches on directdatingsummit.com. We'll all be in there writing our reports and stuff we've done and crazy stuff and they'll be exclusive videos. So, check me out there because I'll be there typing away like a dork when I'm not hitting on girls. I hope this has been beneficial for you guys. I want to thank Anthony for putting this together as an event organizer myself. It's a lot of fucking work and hassle for a very little bit of money. So, big up to him and all the people that made this shit possible and thank you guys for coming out. I love you all. See you next time.