 So in the Yellow Emperor's basic questions, which is a 5,000-year-old Chinese text, the Emperor one day asks, how do I make sure that I don't come too soon, that I don't ejaculate too soon? And his advisor says to him, he says, Your Majesty, this is a matter of the mind. Imagine if you are in battle and you're sitting on a horse, but the reins of the horse have become rotten. And so you can't control the horse in that way. But control it, you must, because if the horse runs away directly in front of you is a deep precipice. If you fall in there, you know that it will be certain death. Now, knowing this, you will make sure that you control the horse somehow. Using your mental, your emotional, your physical abilities, you will make sure that that horse does not get away from you. In life, if you think something's important to you, you will make an effort for it. And the more important you think it is, the more of an effort you will make. For most people, coming too soon is simply a matter of the mind. We've never been taught that sex or our intimate life is important enough for us to make any kind of effort for it. So when you find that you are in the middle of having sex and you're about to come, you know that controlling it is going to take a hell of a lot of effort. But coming at that point is just going to be so easy. And so that's what most people tend to do. You know, pleasure is a learned skill. Nothing is beyond your capacity. All you need is the desire to try.