 So today, I want to dive into the conversation about attraction and yet I'm not going to go down the road of where we typically focus on attraction. It seems today to me that relationships are often driven by the physical attraction to people experience in the very early stages of dating-mating relating. And because of this hyper focus on the physical, there's this belief that there's actually going to be a successful relationship at the other end of this physical attraction. Sadly, men and women are seem to be almost equally driven by lust and limerence. That's right, lust and limerence. And the reason why I know this is think about it.