 What's good Josh your boy Ross back here again with another video, so I wanted to Talk about this meme I saw earlier today on Instagram Fighting a dude because your girl cheated and then they got a picture obviously a goofy Not gonna lie to you. I agree with this. I Regree that anyone any guy that finds out that their girl is cheating on them with another guy You shouldn't be trying to fight the guy it makes you look like a goofy in fact you should be pressing Your your girl like what's going on here, and I don't I don't want to get into anything domestic I don't think guys should be putting their hands on women if they found out they you know They cheated on them. No Send her to the streets where she belongs I never understood why guys would be so quick to fight other guys like oh you smashing my girl So now I got to fight you. No, that's just what guys do like in a lot of situations I God could be just chilling in a you know He flirt with a chick out and about The chick may not even tell him that he's in a relation like she's in a relationship So you know saying he's just thinking it's fair game not even really you know Taking the consideration that oh, maybe maybe she take him, you know, she's telling me she's single All right cool And he's just doing what guys are naturally gonna do if they find someone attractive that's interested in them in the opposite sex They just gonna see what it's about So I don't get why other guys would get mad because another guy is smashing a chick unless Unless this is the special caveat here Unless that person is like close to you. They're a close friend a close family member Then I can understand why you want to put hands on them I don't I wouldn't consider that person a a goofy in that sense because it's like it's someone you trust it And they miss him with your girl. Yeah, both of them definitely for the streets But you know one of them they may have to catch the fade, you know, definitely, um It's just one of those things where I just I never understood that and I think I've had this conversation with the homie dub Shout out to dub. I've had the car conversation with him and he's all he has that same sense And he's like why get mad at the dude. These are dudes are just gonna do what you know What we naturally do get mad at the chick She's the one that's stepping out of bounds, you know saying but I think it comes down to an ego thing I think this is more of an ego thing when a guy Finds out his girl's cheating on him. It's like an ego thing where it's like well now. I gotta fight you, you know And it's it's it's like but why though? Why even go through that? Why are we fighting over a chick that's clearly for the streets Why are we fighting for? Why are we fighting over her? Why are we fighting about her? I want y'all to understand a lot of stuff that happens Especially a lot of violence that happens between men A lot of a time It's over a woman It's over a woman or like money But a lot of times it's over a woman And it just be like for what what's the point of us killing each other over this chick That's gonna get smashed by somebody else while we both long gone. What's the point in that? Huh, that doesn't make sense to me and Same applies here. If you find your girl cheating on you with another guy, you really don't even know that person Don't get mad at the guy. It's alright man. Hey shit Hey, you just doing doing what you supposed to be doing You are If you in a situation and chick throwing it on you you supposed to you know, see what's up Even if the guy knows That the chick is in a relationship Still don't get mad at him Well, I mean it's messed up and common as a bitch So what goes around comes around but still don't get mad at him You wouldn't know why because it's still up to the woman to and either accept that Or deny that it's still up to the woman your girl to like now. I'm good. I got a boyfriend No, I'm not gonna do that if she goes along with it. That's on her Kick it to the curb send her back to the streets. That's all you can do So, yeah, this meme even though it's funny. It's actually accurate There's a lot of guys that was still up there try to kill somebody because another guy just out here having a good time You know I'm saying so and uh, you know, it's just one of those things where I just want my fellas my kings out here to understand find your girl cheating on her cheating on you Keep her moving man Fun fact your boy has been cheated on before. Yep Uh, I want to say I was like a sophomore in college and I kind of knew something was up We didn't stay in the same area like I was at prayer view and she was uh In another undisclosed location. I'm not gonna say it but she wasn't too far from me But we didn't stay in the same area. So, you know, when we was able to see each other We was able to see each other, but we hadn't seen each other in a while I knew something was up and she actually told me, you know, I'm saying that You know, she had cheated on me or whatever she was messing with somebody else Or what not after I kind of picked up on some signs and I wouldn't even matter to do I never even met the dude. Don't even know the dude's name. You know what I'm saying? I was more so upset with her because I was like, damn that's kind of fucked up But the point I'm trying to make here my energy my upsetness wasn't even Focused on the dude It was mainly focused on what she did and how things played out And that's what I want us fellas to understand, man Don't be ready to shoot and kill the dude that may end up smashing one of your chicks or your girlfriend Kick her to the curb, you know what I'm saying? Don't even worry about it And then those special situations where you're dealing with a shady family member or like a Or or a friend that ends up doing something like that to you I wouldn't even even entertain it because I know a lot of guys would be really ready to box I wouldn't even stoop down to that level They both were the streets Now you know how much of a family member they were to you how much of a friend they were to you and keep the moving Because at the end of the day life is short life is too short to be wasting our time Killing each other over nonsense You feel me when there's plenty of other women out there that won't cheat on you that won't have you looking stupid There's a lot of more women out there than men in the world Statistically, so you're bound to find someone that's going to treat you right and do you well And when you do you ain't even got to worry about it So it's a funny meme, but it has a message behind it And I wanted to deliver it to you guys because you know, I like to switch it up from time to time And I like to you know try to give y'all some insightful stuff So if you're one of those guys That have gotten mad at a dude and was ready to fight him because he was smashing your chick Don't be a goofy do better be better But comment down below. Let me know if you guys have ever been in that situation And how did you handle that situation? But I appreciate all the love and support row 260k. Appreciate y'all kicking in with me And I'll see y'all on the next one. Peace