 I know you're tired of hearing this question but please bear with me. I know you said the vagina doesn't become loose but is there any way that your partner can tell if you have had sex before like any way at all? Yes you're right I am exhausted from answering this question. We tackle this question so often I just don't know what it will take to get through to people but okay let's see if we can respond to this. Whether there's any way that your partner can tell whether you've had sex before or not. I'm trying to really give this some thought and the only thing that I can come up with is maybe your comfort levels. So if you've never had sex before you're going to be a lot more awkward about it because let's face it the only way that we actually find out about sex is either through what our friends tell us or through watching porn and we know that none of that is anything like what real sex looks like. So when you first have sex your body really doesn't know what to expect you're going to be a lot more uncomfortable in yourself whereas if you've had sex before your body knows what to expect so maybe you'll be a little bit more comfortable the next time that you're having sex and as far as I can see that is literally the only difference your vagina does not become loose.