 The fourth thing we want to talk about is showing some enthusiasm and some excitement for being there Everyone wants to be your first choice They want to be the reason you walked up to them to talk to them So when it comes to showing enthusiasm or excitement treat the stranger like your best friend You would never walk up to your best friend and be like hey, man. How's it going? You having fun tonight? Low energy no enthusiasm instead when we walk up to our friends are like hey, how's your night going right? We share that energy and enthusiasm and inevitably it engages people and that is the important key here when you show that Attention and enthusiasm for the other person they show more interest in you they become attracted to yeah that act of reciprocity With enthusiasm connects people so we want to bring the enthusiasm right from the start now There's a caveat here because a lot of times people get enthusiasm Confused with energy movement, which is not what we're talking about We want excitement in your voice in your body language in your facial expression So the other person knows you're excited and happy to be there