 I was speaking with a woman, she's about 45 years old, and she had just got out of relationship, starting to date again. And what she had said is, you know, I have, why can't I find a man who wants to take care of me? And, but I, she wants to be this strong independent person. And then she said is, and she juxtaposed that with, I know women who are very successful, they date men that are very successful, but I'm not, but her, she like serves her man. She goes to the buffet line or whatever, the event and puts his plate together and makes sure he has his drink and has all that. She was like, you know what's wrong with that? Well, but see her point of view was is, I don't, I'm a strong independent person and I don't need to do that. And, but yet here she is. She's single and she can't find a man.