 So here's the bottom line You know it didn't used to be just a hundred years ago if you wanted to get laid you had to get married and getting married You made a vow with someone So what's so wrong with being more intentional instead of Cavalier ambivalent or uncertain these days? It's just listen Realistically speaking there's gonna be guys that will agree to it and bail But I will tell you it's about having a deeper conversation instead of this stupid You know dysfunctional way people are dating today because it's like walking into that stadium I spoke of and trying to figure out your soulmate out of a hundred thousand people as I shared before By weeding people out. It's much easier to see who's more aligned to who you are and what you want