 You have a propensity to give your heart well before a man is given his heart because he said a lot of words, but his actions have not corresponded with those words. It's critically important to observe the actions over a period of time to evaluate if they match the words. Is he scheduling regular time with you? Is he introducing you to family and friends? Is he integrating himself in your life or is he trying to, or is also in correspondence? Does he try to integrate you and his life and you and he in your life? Those are some really good things to be observing because the sad reality is, is men will say they want a relationship and not necessarily be capable of a relationship with you.