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We only got a couple more days of April The net the coupon it goes for two more days At you know at the rate that it's at at the blessing that it's at and then the next month It'll still be there, but it just will be It won't be valued as much in the value or decrease each month So you'll still be in good shape though Okay, so you get a notification about the live chat now y'all remember for the questions Make sure you put hashtag Q in front of your question. Welcome new members of the blessed tribe For those of you who become members of the blessed tribe, that's what we do here We do Q&A's every week as many as I could do To try to answer everybody personal questions in addition to the daily videos that I post today You know running around with my wife. I didn't get to do my hour video So I had to upload a shorter video today y'all forgive me for that a friend Let a guy know that I like him without my consent I would have preferred to I would have preferred him to approach me on his own if he was interested Do I look thirsty to him now slash easy target? Unfortunately, yes Unfortunately, yes your friend wrong for that But your friend probably like them to your friend and one of the reason to talk to him one of the reason to bring something up and A lot of times friends do that and so you really can't you can't trust everybody So you might have to go check your friend about that and just let her know that that's really on call for what she did Let me see. I'm looking for a question put hashtag Q in front of your question so I could see it Coach Chris. God bless you. Hi, Tony. I have my third client booked Well, we have a coach is live call soon Yeah, we'll have one in in May We have one every month Started in April so the next one to be in May. So stay tuned and Congratulations on getting third client now for those of you don't know what she talking about She's a coach on my mentor dot life and she getting booked She getting booked. I told a now you see that coach Chris you see is real I try to tell y'all my mentor dot life real y'all thought just cuz a country boy Is the founder of it that it ain't gonna be real. Hey, you better ask somebody Hey, Tony, can you speak to why some men actually marry a woman just to mistreat her? See for a lot of people in women as well marriage is not for love a lot of people marrying for society Lot of people marrying for their friends and family, but really don't want to be married But just doing it for society doing it out of tradition So that's why a lot of men mistreat their wife cuz they got married for the wrong reasons and love was not a reason that they got married Hi, Tony. Can you speak on the difference between liking someone or just the idea of them? I'd love to see a video on this topic You know, I had a video a long time ago and I deleted it I had to shoot an updated version of it, but Really what that is the difference is? Okay, okay. I see what okay. I see what old YouTube doing Okay, I see Or maybe that's another country. Okay, Australia. Okay. I see the number you Donated surrender. It was a different number on my end that YouTube showed me so I see the conversion All right, they converted Hey, surrender. God bless you. Hi, Tony. I'm in Australia. Can I join my mentor as a coach? Not yet. Hopefully in about a month coaches from other countries can join You can book a coach now being in Australia. You can book a session with a coach But to be a coach we still working that out, you know, the legalities and things like that to be world worldwide For coaches question I was answering. What was it? Oh? and I want to say I Cannot remember the name right now, but I think it was Holly or Angela or maybe that was you know, I think it was Holly, but Holly if you happen to see this God bless you God when I tell y'all was in tears a Lady name Holly forgive me if I'm saying the wrong. Okay. I said Holly a Lady name Holly Holly listen I'm just put your name on my wall the way every day I say a prayer for you because everybody give a gift everybody give a girl You know a lot of people are sending a blessing and say Tony. Thank you for your service. Thank you for what you're doing But what Holly did today ain't even gonna say the amount, but it was the most I never seen It floored me. I was in tears. You hit me I said Lord and just after the day after the the city white me out The city white me out. I mean they hit me so hard today financially the old raggedy city and and the do that and and the go through that and then the open that Cash up and see what Holly did Holly a God bless Holly showed I'm gonna tell you that I'm gonna tell you that Tasha God bless you Tasha. God bless you. Hi, Tony I've almost purchased all your courses and got my first client this Saturday Tasha the mentor. Thank you for being heaven sent. You have changed my life now y'all make sure y'all book a session with Tasha now God bless you Tasha God bless you Chrissy God bless you Tony. I am booked in a coaching session Okay In progress with my coaching certification Backtrack in a bit Nonetheless, I have been blessed and I know the Lord is with me. Thank you. Hey Thank you. Bless you. What into a life BK God bless you Two years no commitment so I blocked him He called private saying that he clearly loved me since he didn't cut me off after being intimate. Is he serious? He's not serious enough He's not serious enough. So no, he's not serious. He's not serious enough If you feel like you had to cut him off because you ain't got enough you didn't get enough commitment It's been two years and y'all to be intimate. He's not serious enough Um CC, how do I become a coach? I'm a mental health therapist already. Which courses do I need? Technically to coach like to start a website Start marketing yourself online. You don't need a course. You're a mental health therapist. You already know how to run a session so if you're a mental health therapist you got a certificate or What have you you could if you want to join my mentor that life you just have to upload a certificate a coaching certificate Your therapy certificate or what have you in a PDF or JPEG form? You could take a picture of it upload it and you could join my mentor So you could go ahead and get started Kylie God bless you God bless you baby father told his wife. I pay him to have our daughter Does he love our daughter? Or he might say that because he's upset. Are you paying now? I don't know to be honest with you. I don't know. It's just sound like you got a little crazy man Your man immature. I really I it's hard sometimes to speak grown boy knees You know grown boy ease. I have you want to pronounce it, but yeah He you can't really figure out everything grown boys do. I don't need to wreck your brain. Don't wreck your brain Lydia God bless you Tony I receive all of my books a woman's influence the introduction alone was a blessing the seeds you have sown is Coming to your own a God bless. I appreciate that Can I be a mentor at 23 is there a recommended age with people? Listen to me since I'm young. That's when I became a professional mentor So or life coach as you would call it But you you just you could put youth on there if you put youth like for example It's it's mothers coming on their hiring coaches to coach their teen daughter or their teen son So yes, it can work and again at the end of the day my mentor is only $20 a month So even if you try for three months, which is what I would say try for that's just $60 you then you then Go bro, you ain't had to cash in no 401k and if you want to shift gears you could shift gears Even if you was on there a whole year It's not like you just flush your life savings down the toilet That's why I made it affordable like that so you could step out there and see what God got for you Shanika God bless you six months later and a guy I'm talking to goals for weeks and then comes back with excuses What should I do? I Will keep it moving Shanika keep it moving Keep it moving probably another woman. He was dealing with I would keep it moving Lorenzo God bless you. Hi, brother Tony. So how was the progress going with the interview with mr. Chicago PD? I like the idea of being able to court and really get to know a man without the pressure for Love making would be a new experience for me. Hey, I bet it would be now That would be good now. That would be good Um, and I'm gonna interview him here soon I might wait till after this all over those so I could get a hair cut and whatnot. Can't get no cut right now Looking like wolf man Pink cat. God bless you Hey, Tony, thanks for your videos Who do you think should provide if it's men what should or shouldn't you expect by the way? Can you do videos on men? Providing pink cat. God bless you. Now. What is S. E. K. Y'all come from all over the world now. What's S. E. K. God bless you. Now. I tell you like this every situation every relationship is different in my household You know we won so technically you could say I'm providing because a lot of the businesses are come from my purpose my vision and My wife helped me carry them out. She helped me run at Swedish Corona. Okay but um, so you could technically say I'm providing because she don't have to go punch nobody clock, but At the same time she gets a paycheck too. So like today, we had to pay a big big big bill old raggedy County charge and he types is and She draw the bag on me you hit me I was like whoa girl you making that kind of money out of the company She draw the bag on me so see it go both ways so so it depends on your situation Long as you don't feel used and taking advantage of then whatever work for y'all work for y'all No fear child alike. God bless you. God bless you. I Just bought you a book for my girlfriend. I'm praying it will help her marriage your book couldn't have come out at the right time bless you and Your family couldn't have come out at a better time guessing but God bless you Thank you for doing that supporting a friend with it We need more people like you some people look at and say oh that would aim for me So I ain't gonna support it But then you have people like her who say you know what it ain't for me But I'm gonna get it for somebody who it is for God bless poor than your life That's the kind of heart right now. God bless you Land W. Just want to thank you for your short and sweet video today very powerful God bless you. Thank you They did a guy for a month at the end of the date. He leaned in for a kiss But kiss my cheek instead. I didn't hear from him for a week Then he called later as if nothing happened cut him off was I wrong? No, you weren't wrong a man come in On the first date trying to give you mono, you know or the 19 if this was here recently on the first day And then after you turn your lip so that you don't get mono or the 19 Then he cuts you off for a week and then come back You was not you were not wrong for cutting them off at all. You did the right thing Michelle bless you do men commit Up women who has kids saw a post saying men equality Men don't only Simpson Yep, Michelle type that again type that question again Take that question again, Michelle You know take your time Michelle take that question again. It sounds like it had potential But I could not make out what that was about Forgive me. Please forgive me Should I tell him happy birthday? We haven't spoken in nine days. We were together seven months. Nope Don't tell him happy birthday when you're on a break. Don't nothing don't nothing gives Only thing give is a his mama his daddy passed away If his mama his daddy passed away, you could say hey So so sorry about your loss and you could say that with a bouquet of roses from 1 a hundred flower calm That is not a ad but you could say it like that But other than that when you on a break, you don't say nothing about nothing Unless it's a loss in the family birthday. Okay, you could tell him happy belated birthday when you get his act together Hey Tony in your coaching sessions, do you? Repix before like do we send our picks before or during the session? We go over on the session on the session my clients who wonder and what what they're giving off we we go to their Facebook and Or the Instagram or their email in like three different pictures Working on rebuilding our trust, but he is verbally disrespectful I've made it clear to stop but he says he's healing. Well, listen, he cannot heal at your expense You never let a man heal at your expense if you can't learn how to talk to you then heal by yourself Play boy, get your life together and he'll then you come over here with respect, but they know You know punching bag they know, you know, let He gonna heal at your expense to where by the time he healed now you broken because of how he talked to you No, it don't work like that. Get your life together Get your life together my boy. You don't get to Beat nobody up with your words in the name of your healing. He ain't trying to heal He want to stay hurt and like to say hurt people hurt people miss him Bless you your book is amazing. Now. She put that all amazing in all caps now. I want y'all to see that She put that in all she put amazing in all caps now So that's what she said. I tried to tell y'all I Read it it brings up hurt from past relationships. I thought I was building confidence and have been focused on the word Feel like I'm moving backwards more than forward. Hey, keep reading you sales amazing And it brought that up now you're doing the work. That's what you need to do You need to bring bring up those feelings because you see you cannot heal it unless you admit That you feel it. So now you feel it. So now I keep doing the work Okay, Michelle. I see your question now Do men commit or wife up women who have kids saw a post saying quality men don't only simps Do what are your thoughts? I'll be honest with you. I'll be honest with you. This is a little too. It's a little too Hard for y'all to hear and understand When it comes to a woman having kids The number one thing that a man worrying about is how they woman look But that's that I that's hard for y'all to understand If a woman look good to that man She can have a football team and I football team. We're gonna say 11 If a woman look good to that man, she can have a football team and he gonna be right enough step that he gonna get a shirt Say step that it Simps mean like lame guys, you know chumps punks. That's what people say But that right there is what it is a man going off your look He he because really he could not care less for your kids Because what you got a real-life man curse out their own kid men abandon their own kid men Dog got mistreat. You know do wrong. They own children another man This was it man in here doing You turn your head your son and he two years old. He can't talk Because he two years old so that's what I'll be trying to tell y'all be careful when you have these men around your kid You hear me because that's what's happening to your son that can't talk yet and Probably to your daughter too might not he might just grab a ponytail She two years old she can't say nothing and he your dad is sorry and You sitting there and she come crying, but she can't talk yet, and that's why I tell you the only time Really when a man get what a one with kids is either he can't have kids and he really really won't kids Well, he think they're one man really look good Anybody telling you otherwise they lie until you for the likes and for the retweets and for the repost and just trying to build your confidence But what I'm here to tell you is you got to wait on the man that's for you The man that he say, you know what? I want a family and this woman look like she my wife and when he fall for you It don't matter about your kids. He's gonna love them and treat them right if he gonna love and treat you right SJ a Three-month godly courtship. I advise him early of trust issues He did everything exactly how you teach He said I was his wife and said my trust issues ran him away Said he wanted to love me from afar Well, let him do that let him go let him go on about his business and The mistake you made is telling him you got trust issues See your issues between you and God you never let somebody see you sweat Even if you got the web towel around your neck, so don't go in showing all your wounds It's like because when you first go in with a man, it's love and war. It's not it ain't all good Like it ain't y'all ain't on the same team when you first go in when you first go in you don't know him You don't know what he coming for so when you go in it's showing him all your soldier wounds All your battle scars and he's like, okay. Okay got that so now you gave him an excuse So instead of him just manning up and saying listen I don't want to be with you just because you just not the one for me And I changed my mind and I met another woman and I want to be with her But because you said that you had trust issues now he gonna hang it on that now you gonna blame it on that So now you feel and so now you living with the blame instead of him having to own up for Telling the real reason why he want to leave and my God bless your part in her life Bless him or not bless her well a guy know you're his wife just by seeing you on IG or in other words Will he immediately DM you if interested or wait to follow your post for a while to see if he should reach out? He gonna do a little bit of both he ain't gonna wait for too long But he don't have to watch your post because if he only pay he scroll back through all your posts So he'll scroll all the way through your post see everything see how many loose booty posts you got on there See if you post any boyfriends here recently or if you post them a long time ago so he gonna look through all your posts didn't gonna DM you and He don't know if he if you his wife, but he'd know if you look like what he will marry. Okay? So that's what he gonna do Lorenzo God bless you my copy of your new book is coming. I'm sure it's great Thanks for giving the knowledge that you do because most wouldn't I just feel like I owe you so much and God bless you Lorenzo, I really appreciate that that blessing What is the best way to level up level up in a professional and polished way Level up Start your business start your nonprofit Get the five ten pounds off of you been talking about you gonna get off of you It didn't don't never go to the gym everything you say you're gonna do That you haven't been doing go ahead and do it start your business write your book That's how you level up. You just got to take action You got to take action a lot of people talk about it But don't be about it when you got to go on be about it My wife been telling me she want to get the serving wage You want to lose lose this and guess what she been getting up every morning every morning going in that gym You follow on Instagram follow Sheree Gaskin on Instagram. You see her post that little watch now She heard a foot cuz she got bit by a horse fly. And so it you know, the horse fly they bite you You swell up so she had to deal with a little swelling So she didn't work out the day or yesterday But I mean she getting up and she was showing her workout the workout made me tired just reading it So I say wow you really serious about this thing. That's what you're gonna have to do You know put that action behind the words Miss China dog. Oh, God bless you. Bless you my boyfriend asked me hey, baby Babe You'll cut the app the academician on I'm gonna have sweating like him and uh Grat doll from baby. Just in case she won't start barking at me My boyfriend asked me to be in a polyamorous Relationship with two other women that are okay sharing him He's now my ex-boyfriend. I'm very hurt. Do you think the relationship will work with the two women? I'll try to see what you look like miss China dog just to see what what you don't track that hill What kind of man you attracted This follows you If I if I was you and had a man like that, I'll be trying to change everything I want to change my house style. I want to change the my foundation You hit me. I want to Was with that right there? Yes. Yes, it's something on your spirit Because that ain't he just pop up time. I know polyamorous. Okay, he came in with that spirit He was nasty from the jump. So the fact that you didn't recognize that Go ahead and see like okay what I need to work on first Then realize with him. He just trash on a stick trash on the stick, you know, and you go to the to the state fair And they sell you that trash on a stick. That's what he is and that's what you got to realize So will it work with the two women? No, and because it's gonna be like Sada bingamora They're gonna be in there burning you hit me. They're gonna be all kind of burning I remember one that came to me on Twitter talking about a polyamory Tom, I came in my wife being in a relationship with her girlfriend And it was a very pretty lady. She was a pretty lady. I say man. I say you the lost your mind I really tried not to say it to her like that, but I say sis. What's wrong with you? She said, what did you go through? What what is really? Oh if everybody knows it about it in the relationship There's nothing wrong with it. I say who told you that? Who told you that I say that's so messy that don't work that do not work Y'all is just lost and hurting and tore up from the floor Melly milk. Oh, bless you. God bless you boy. I didn't on life Hey, mr. Tony just wanted to say thank you for all you do at the age of 45 you are teaching me a lot My dad was there in the household, but never taught me these things. Thanks again. I'm growing every day God bless you TT bless you bless you poor in another life introvert and enjoy a private life with the exception of one-on-one slash small groups I Don't engage in social media best approaching marketing myself and becoming a successful life coach in a media driven world Well, one of the things with coaching is helping your clients get out of their comfort zone So what you're gonna have to do is hire a coach like myself to help you get out your comfort zone Because in order to get what you have not had you gonna have to do what you have not done I would tell you the honest truth. I do not like doing what I'm doing a lot of y'all can't but you cannot tell that I don't like doing what I'm doing I will much rather and and that's why the Lord ain't let me sell my tech companies for a billion dollars yet because when if the Lord know if if I sell My mentor that life if I sell my mentor that life attend me Y'all might not hear from me and the Lord know that that I Get it social media but I got a little my purpose and I got to be here because I know I got to show up and He ain't giving me nothing to just run away from and just retire me So you want to have that income and you want to have that other life But you got to do what it takes to have it and that mean get out your comfort zone Misty Lou God bless you eight years later when I hear a song smell certain cologne It takes me back to almost the point of tears things were wonderful. Then he ghosted me. No sex barely kiss Is it a soul tie this long after? Yep? That's what it is somebody somebody fired all the gift disappeared on my Jeff in the click on it whether you two know they Come on now you too. Yes, that's a soul time sis. That's that's what it is It's a soul time. Let me grab this here. See Pinesi. God bless your divorce and have two teenagers reading your books working on Myself watching your videos Ready to date where to begin just heard what you said about women with kids Don't begin don't begin you divorce you got two teenagers Your teenagers just live your life you reading books you working on yourself. Keep doing that. Don't worry about beginning Okay, a man gonna find you all you got to do go to the gym Go to Walmart go to Starbucks go to the mall go to your kids activities The man is gonna find you you don't have to begin you already begun keep doing what you're doing keep doing what you're doing and Misty Lou I Tell you what you're gonna have to do have you done coaching You're gonna need four to twelve sessions a coaching with what you're feeling and what you're going through and then you're gonna need to go To Tony gas in the Academy calm and get the love and relationships bundle go through all those courses Just study it like you studying for your dissertation for your master's degree and when you get that in your spirit It's gonna help you heal and grow Breanna God bless you. I've been talking to this guy for a year now on and off. We're both in college You're not on and off. I tried to walk away and cut them off because I felt like he just wanted He keeps coming back. Does he just want? um If you felt like that's all he wanted and y'all been on and off then yes, you're right That's all he won't cuz a man who want more than that not gonna be on and off y'all hold on right quick Let me see if I can find that other question that was up there that disappeared on me. Let me see Miss Diatra. Okay. I see you. I see you What is the best way to network and build a new business in a new area as a beginner? Entrepreneur right now is social media Because social media is free Because you could go networking in your fingernail be dirty or your breath got a hint on it and it just kill everything But social media nobody can smell your breath. You flash your finger real fast They can't see your nail ain't painted your nail paint chip So you social media is free if you like the talk you're not shy face Do you too? If you don't if you shy face You don't like to show your face then do Twitter do Instagram do Facebook, but you social media is free Neesa God bless you. I have heard you on rip. I have had you on repeat Poor thing alive Lord. I walked away from someone who has my heart for five years I gave him a second chance as soon as I heard he was still unsure. I Heard your voice. I am no one's option. Thank you. Hey, Neesa. God bless you now. Hey, I like to hear that though. I Like to hear that dumb somebody do the right thing You got on up out of that. You hit me. That's how you got to do it That's how you got to do it Courtney T God bless your beautiful Queens feel empowered and know your worth The world has devalued us, but we will flip it around and return to our thrones period Courtney gave y'all a word and Courtney sent a blessing in to get that word to you. Poor out of no life Lord AAW And I can't remember if that's a Euro or a pound I Get confused when I see it, but thank you for way yet God bless you. I dated a guy for two weeks and shared bodies Okay, that's a new way to put it there Okay, two weeks. Okay, two weeks. Okay, he courted me and we connected But during lockdown said he isn't ready for a relationship He wants to be friends and it's helping me next week. I've told him love making is off the table Well, like I told you the reason what happened is you gave him your body too soon and It's just so much that goes with that for one a lot of intercourse it deals with the mind and feeling each other and It's not there. So that's one thing that was wrong with it. The other thing is that It could have been a hint on it and if a man don't love you and it's a little hint in the air You know and just the summer's Eve or a honeypot or whatever you supposed to be using The pH was off, you know, if it's any little hint Okay, and it could be natural But if he don't love you, it's gonna cause a rift the problem with laying down with somebody too soon is You can have a mole on your inner thigh. You have a birthmark that he think ugly because he don't know you You see what I mean? It could be anything that goes wrong. So that's why you got to just taking Stay off your back. Okay, stay in the relationship talk and be ill and when you Take and you sleep with somebody like that and then they tell you they don't want to be with you Move on move on about you move on about your life But see learn the lessons so that this don't happen every two weeks because see that's what happened to that's another thing that a Man does see this why I try to tell y'all just like the Miranda, right? We're gonna call it the Tony, right anything you say can and will be So I try to tell y'all this like ain't nobody your friend like women always get mad and say oh Well, how was he gonna judge me? He ought to be judging himself. So you mean to tell me That he slept with me too, but he's gonna judge me for sleeping with him You what you got to realize is nobody's your friend. Don't nobody care about you when y'all just meet So when you get on your back, he judge you for that and this what I try to tell you is that If you sleep with a man in two weeks It's 52 weeks in a year So that man automatically calculate that you get in 25 bodies a year So if you 30 and he say and he give you the benefit of doubt and say she probably lost her Vagina at 18. It's been 12 years 12 times 25 is 300 right 300 so in his mind when you slept with him in two weeks You got 300 bodies to your name now He could be number two and you could have he could be number two because you desperate or lonely or Frustrated or feel like every man gonna leave if you don't get on your back. But then guess what? now you just sent the wrong message and He gonna judge you for that. So that's why I say you got to have your standards You got to have your standards. You can't worry about S.J. God bless you people get y'all get mad. Well, he did it too But hey, we all got to answer for what we do Now hold on somebody's in a sticker Now see them stickers. They don't go to the top Mary poster God bless you. How long should it take a man? Loves you to commit three months three months You might be new here three months Any cake up bless your man goes silent. Should you mirror him and do the same when he comes back? He FaceTime and text like nothing was wrong. I didn't answer either one yet If you want to be with him you need to answer the phone and check him for going silent If you don't want to be with him, then you ignore him completely But it sound like you want to be with him So when you return the energy now y'all playing mind games and when you play mind games, everybody loses So what you got to do if you want to be with him is answer him and then check him For going silent so he know that's off the limit now somebody sent a tie and it Somebody said don't mind me just tired and I saw you now, but it didn't deleted you I got to read faster now y'all know y'all got to forgive me y'all know I answer these questions Thoroughly so I'll be answering a question in the next one. Somebody sent a blessing it disappear Pretty J. Marie God bless you. Don't mind me. Just tired. Thank you for all the advice at 34 and after two kids I finally found my crown again. God bless you Blessing SJ. I said bless you. I saw you in them bless you Catherine are men actually able to remove emotions from That there Yes He can remove him in his mind and think he removed him meaning he could lie down with you and not care anything for you and Move on with his life and after a certain amount of time not even remember you that you have existed if it happened You know quickly, but does he have a soul tie still? Yes, he does He can't he can't run from a soul tie now because that's gonna happen with or without his permission How can a man be so savage with two amazing parents now see pressure that right there is A good question How can a man be so savage with two amazing parents? So what that tells you is That for one his parents wasn't that amazing? They was there they provided they took care of stuff But they did not talk to him and teach him how to be a man how to treat a woman It was not ingrained in him. It was not talked to him verbatim. So that's for one They was amazing at providing keep a roof over his head, but they didn't talk to him enough. Okay, then two What you have to realize is On the other part what this means is that this man was a Lot of this is innate for a lot of men it's innate So it's it's he is In by nature he's hunting and he's looking for women and He think he just saw and is why oh to not realizing he's not counting the damage that's being done The hearts that he hurt in the hearts that he breaking so that that plays into it as well Let me see her now married He has a so-called female friend He talks to her Two or three hours every day before he gets home. I asked him to end the friendship, but he didn't he said he wants us to work But he acts like he can't let go Sherita. Yeah. Yeah Yes, oh with it's over with Sherita. It's over with Once he talked to a woman like that. It's over with he really not gonna get the picture until you at the door Yeah, it's a wrap for you. Sherita. I hate to tell you that though Yeah, he he loved her he got love for her But then when he get her he won't be able to handle the reality of her He'll become sorry just like he's sorry for you He'll end up being sorry just for her but because she over there the grass look green so she get she his vacation she get all the good she get all the sunshine and you get all the rain and So really he's stupid and he's immature and he's unlearned and he's untrained. He's untaught and He need to be slapped with both sides of the hand by the Lord himself But because the Lord don't physically do that the only way he's gonna learn is when he see your back walking out the door And he gonna chase you. He may chase you. He may chase you and beg you And if you give him another chance that that got to be the last chance you give him But you probably gonna need some coaching through that through that period Cocoa God bless you definitely will stay off my back now After sleep with my boyfriend before he left my house He said he needed that quick energy for his drive home. I felt used Yeah, yeah, that's what you are you would use now He did use you for that, you know quick energy I would have gave him a monster energy drink or gave him a sedger they put that caffeine in his bloodline, but You got on your bike So, you know like what you say learn from it and keep going learn from it and keep going See love God bless you God bless a little part in our life Lord Whatever you got do get a blessing to a little part in our life see love you didn't you didn't bless my old kind of blessing Catherine Lord, can you explain soul ties what it means? I do have a video on it And it's probably a lot of different definitions out there But when you think of soul ties really like a spiritual bond It's when you lie down with somebody and then you can have a soul tie Which is an emotional bond without ever lying down with somebody But when you lie down with somebody it is Consummate it is stronger and so it's like a spiritual bond, but it's also a physical Bond and when I say bond I don't mean necessarily a good bond because it could be a toxic bond If y'all are not in love and y'all are not married in that soul tie would be a toxic bond so it's several different types and versions of it, but really it's that feeling of How your brain responds to this person and your brain is Addicted to or tied to the release that it gets from that person And so when you lie down with them and then of course you give them a piece of your spirit and you take a piece of their spirit So that's really why it's so hard and why we see so many questions about the X It's because of that That tie that we that we call a soul tie somebody made it up. I didn't make up the term soul tie Thank you. It probably was The Bible really made it up, but somebody put a term on it The term soul ties not in a Bible, but when the Bible's talks about when you Fornicate you not only sin against God, but you sin against your own body So that's really why it's so dangerous Shannon born God bless you sending blessings to you and yours. Thanks for all you do a thank you poor out in our life, Lord I Look for my current husband for 23 years after we dated as teens I honestly thought he was my soulmate now after four years of marriage. I feel he's a narcissist should I still put forth effort It sounds like you did what a lot of women do and that is you fell in love with the idea of love You fell in love with the idea of love but not love So you went back chasing a feeling that you had as a youth before you even knew what love and a relationship was So that feeling that you had was not even real so now you got the adult version of that child you used to know and He totally different He totally different and so That's where you were romanticizing in your mind about what you thought you felt and what we felt It realizes that the brain always remembers things better than they actually happen because the brain is Self-soothing and trying to heal and feel those voice in your life So a lot of time we forget Everything what it was and we just remember how we think we felt and so that's really what happened right there Ariana Brown God bless you. No question. Just want to say thank you for all you do I hope my sisters are watching this right now. God bless you and your family Tony. Hey, thank you, Ariana Well a Christian man Want a 37 year old woman that doesn't want to give birth but may want to foster a kid Well, they don't have nothing to do with religion It just has to do with does he want to see his own seed? See a lot of men want to see his own seed come To fruition he want to sow his seed and then reap his harvest. You see what I mean So whether he Christian Muslim Buddhist atheist Atnostic, it really doesn't matter the kids does he want to see his seed and see this the thing now Now you got to ask yourself why you don't want to give birth, but then you'll want to have So it's like if it's different if you can't give birth But if you can give birth, but yet you'll choose and get somebody else child because he's somebody else child That was abandoned by the parent could be coming in your life with demons and This Christian man that you got you could be be be bringing demons into your marriage Because of what's in this her child that come from somebody else That maybe needed a single woman or a single man Who don't have to answer to nobody or build with nobody to be able to pray them demons up off on I was just watching my show American greed last night and The man is it's on the demand. It was a man who was in Miami pretending to be a rich oil sheik or something like that and from the royal family over there on the other side of the world and the man was Adopted and I say man. I bet his adopted parents Did not know what they was raising and he took millions of dollars from people Scammed them and I thought about that because my wife always told me about that She say, you know, you got to be careful that when if you're gonna adopt that you are prayerful Because you got to make sure that your spirit Can deal with whatever spirits coming with this child and some don't don't match Now all the children need love But it might not be your love And so that's what you that's what you got to think about when When kids in the picture and you asking somebody else to love you and marry you and And put up with what you want to bring in ET God bless you made it on here Why do men keep Trying you it is so exhausting to keep Keeping them in a boyfriend's place when they keep wanting husband privileges a Man is bullheaded a man is and women have proven to be naive and gullible Overtime so if a man met ten women and It's hard to hear but I'm just giving y'all the real if a man met ten women nine of them was naive and What I mean by that is women were Created to be there with a man So what women are doing is you going and you dropping your guards a lot of women drop their guards with a man To be his real But don't realize not every man is looking for a real to help him breathe easier a lot of men looking for a Floor mat and so you go in and you drop your guard before knowing what you dealing with and so a man sees that Nine out of ten times. So then finally when he get to a woman That's a real woman. He keep trying you like a baser Because he's so used to dealing with women that he just run right through and You just got to show him you different Marquita. God bless you. God bless part in our life I'm 30 and recently hit a roadblock in life. I rekindle the flame with an axe I ended up pregnant and he went ghost. My son is almost to how do I heal and move on? Because our desire to be married That's a lesson. That's a huge huge lesson. You got a blessing in your son You got to see your son as a blessing and you got to get the lesson and what you're gonna have to do now Share this lesson with some other women share that lesson with some other women because you rekindle the flame Okay, still are going in line. You a new candle you went to rekindle the old flame and Then it was with a X. That's your ex for a reason Then you went in the fornication Then you went in the unprotected for the case So see it's a lot of things that went on right there that you got to turn into a lesson And now the way that you're going to heal is you got to go through it and you got to get them painful Revelations them painful lessons. You got this set responsibility where you need to accept responsibility You got to identify what he did wrong what you saw him do wrong Learned a lesson from it. So you recognize it the next time you see it and as you getting that new knowledge and you healing in that way That's how you're gonna grow Kiara God bless you Interests of each other for two years Recently he lost a loved one said we should be friends Because of bad assumption I made about another woman should I cut off now or Be there as a friend go and cut them off Don't cut them off. You know be there as a friend meaning You could send him a car and some flowers for the loved one that he lost but don't move on with your life Gonna move on with your life because when a man take and relegate you you need to leave the league Okay, don't don't stay in a man lead after you didn't got relegated Sunshine God bless you God bless you is is it a relationship if a guy is sleeping with you for over a year But nothing else transpires no dates just very strong connection. He denies there was ever anything between us to another woman No, that's not a relationship. That's a situation show. That's not a relationship. That's a situation show That's friends with benefits and remember there are no Benefits to being friends with benefits There are benefits to being friends But there are no benefits to being friends with benefits So that's where you know you slipped up you played yourself get the lesson and move on by your life Jessica daily chick-chack God bless you. Do you have advice to the married couple who sexual attraction is off-key? In example, if the husband is in the mood, the wife may not be in the mood or vice versa Yes For a situation like that, whoever not in the mood got to get in the mood Could the Bible say a wife body belongs to the husband and the husband body belongs to the wife So that happened all the time, you know in marriages it happened It's very common because people just energetic at different times of the day Everybody got their different zones. So my wife she very energetic during the day. I'm pretty chill low-key You know, so I'm cool. My energy come at night One lady I was coaching told me that's depends on the time of day that you were born that most people are more Energetic around the time that they was born. I don't know if that's true or not, but I'm energetic at night My wife her head here go the pillow Okay, this the pillow this her head and I'm sitting over there She showed me a meme the other day of a man. It's like an old funny-looking man and it was like Something about me in the daytime. I'm I'm tired me at one o'clock in the morning and the man And beat boss and doing all this stuff because that's how I be late at night Y'all see how I'm on here now when I get off here a lot of times she be Jackie and ready to close them eyes. So guess what we got to find our zone We got to find our time where both of us is on and that's what a married couple got to do You got to sacrifice. Let me see y'all hold on y'all hold on now. Let me see Rob John God bless you. Hey Tony just wanted to say thank you for your messages and keep doing what you do and may the Lord Bless you for your work in this world. Hey, God bless you. God bless you Rob John God bless you now Mecca Morgan God bless you During the argument husband told me he had to learn to love me and he felt rushed to marry me He just agreed to it He don't want to look bad. So he's doing things to make me divorce him We have three kids hurt That's a deep window Mecca If you got three kids and you got a husband y'all take care of them three kids Somewhere in that you might be able to find a few dollars for a coaching session You're gonna need to talk to a professional on that one Mecca You're gonna need to talk to a professional and listen if he trying to sabotage the relationship and he doing things to make you Divorce him all that got to get aired out. Ain't no ain't no I'm filing for divorce And you caused it and I'm finna take it on the chin with the community Like it's me. No The community gonna know I'm gonna be on Facebook Unfortunately due to irreconcilable differences with my husband acting out of control and being a different person than who I married and Continuously trying to sabotage the relationship according to section 3 verse 17 through 19 in the book Of John, I will be releasing myself from this marriage I'm gonna be on Facebook just like that You're not feeling right off in the sunset with my name in the dirt when you the one sabotage the relationship So if you got to go tell your whole Truth out the door on the way out the door and I ain't no ain't no riding off Scott free with your hands clean like you did nothing. Oh, no, but if the community Got to know about this Chris now hold on somebody sent my blessing, but I got to get these ones because they'll disappear on me if husband apologized But sweeps things under the rug and never change How do you address or correct? That respectfully he's prone to yelling if husband apologizes But sweep things under the rug and he never changes. How do you address or correct that respectfully? He's prone to yelling Well, I'll tell you this You don't have to really sit down remember why I tell you about the Liam Neeson voice You don't have to sit down and really talk to him. Let him really feel you and He prone to yelling, but you can't let the yelling change you can't yet let the yelling scare you if he want to jump froggy Boys in blue 9-1-1 on speed dial So don't let the yelling phase you let them yell. Okay. And like I was saying We're gonna need to he wanted yet. Okay. Like I was saying, are you done yet? Are you done yelling? You just got to stay in the kitchen. It's gonna get hot. You got to stay there and let them know You ain't scared on Alayna. See God bless you. God bless you now pull out in our life. Bless us. Bless the Lord Thank you, Alayna Hey Tony, here's my ties to truly bless you for all your videos and books They absolutely confirm most of my suspicions with an X as well as Enlightened me on new knowledge about men and my feminine work. What should I say a woman's influence? Stay blessed God bless you Why don't I like Atlanta had to show up? And so what now? And Mecca God bless you. I answer Mecca. Let me see this one here Lisa God bless I joined the tribe in March Watching your videos and lives. I'm learning daily I'm 47 have stopped getting on my back and cutting off soul ties. What course or book should I start with? Hmm. That's that's a good one. Now you cutting off soul ties. Why I take it you Read the soul tie course or you took the soul tie course if not do that one And then make sure you read Mrs. Right. I got a book called Mrs. Right and Then of course a woman's influence now this is just one of the realest ones The realest books out on rope is Mrs. Right and a woman's influence Ironically both of them got purple and white covers Did not plan that hold on now Took me to God bless you. Thank you. Thank you Keep it up. Hey, God bless you now. Let me see her and it K Couple when I call him back. How do I address his silence? Now y'all really be want me to spell it out. Don't you y'all really be want me to spell it out So now when you call when he when he called you back wait, let him call again when he called you again. Hello I'm doing all right. How are you? Okay, well, what happened to you the other day see you get right on into it What happened to you the other day when you said you were gonna call and then you disappeared? Mmm. Mmm. I see Well, listen I'll tell you like this. I really don't have time for the games so if you're gonna be in my life then be in my life and If you don't want to be in my life then be out of my life because I don't have time to sit and wait around Y'all want me to spell it out. That's what that's how you got to do it. Just like that. Remember in the Liam Neeson voice You just got to get get right on to it and be real Chris God bless it. Just wanted to contribute keep on doing God's word a bless your part in our life Lord Dorothy God bless you now. God bless you y'all ain't sending no questions up there. Dr. B God bless your part in our life I'm praying blessings over y'all. When is the right time? To tell a guy I'm dating that I have clinical anxiety Last time I told a guy too early and it seemed like he was using it against me He played games and say I'm overthinking Well, that's not something you have to tell a guy, you know, that's not because that's not contagious You see what I mean now If it's something to where it will cause you to stab somebody then that's something that you have to tell him but It probably don't It probably ain't that light on sound like that So it's different if it's something that he could catch from you or If you have children something that come with you but clinical anxiety, you know That's not something that you have to tell him. That's something you working on with your therapist That's something that is between you and God because remember like I tell you anything you tell a man It's gonna be used against you. It's gonna be used against nine out of ten times So understand that and know what's necessary to tell a man Okay, you got a life altering issue of Blood meaning in your bloodstream you have contracted something that he can contract from you That's a conversation that you will have You know, maybe at the three-month mark, maybe at the six-month mark, maybe at the 30 day That's up to you. That's personal on you Depending on how you build but if it's something that he cannot contract from you then That's between you and a good Lord Travestial God bless you now Blessings Tony my daughter's 22 and 24 and I are on the self-love University together It has made our bond stronger. Hey, God bless. I like to hear that now. I like to hear that Thank you for getting them young ladies in there. Thank you for doing that. That's what we need more of they own the self-love journey together. Hey God bless you Oh Now I got 20% and I forgot my battery was a little slim tonight So I got it. I got to get going now. I got about another six minutes here Let me see what I could see I got about six minutes on here The niche Latrelle God bless you. Can you tell me how long is the coaching course? I Believe it's six to nine hours. So it's or it could be less than that But it just depends up to your work rate Some people sit down and dedicate a whole Saturday and they get through it And then they just continue to refresh as they go with the textbook, you know because it's a textbook on there that you could read and There's some people take their time and they do one lesson a week and it may take them nine or ten weeks So it's totally up to you. So you could finish it in a full day's work and it's very simple So it's not rocket science. It's not like becoming a therapist or a counselor It's not like you got to remember all this stuff and take this long test because remember Coach certification is not required to become a coach. It's required to be a coach on my mentor dot life Because we want excellence on my mentor dot life But you could go open up your offer downtown without a coaching service case Can't nobody stop you can't nobody stop because it's not regulated by the government Marry pose of God bless you do any men put looks as a lesser priority I'm sure he out there. I'm sure he out there, but he probably lying But I'm sure he out there, but I have not met him. I have not met him Now only time men don't worry about looks is when you got money If you got money, then he not worried about your looks, but he worried about looks men are visual Men are visual creatures. So he worried about looks and women are too women are too and a lot of time The only time women don't worry about looks is when a man got money. That's typically the one thing that gets you out of Being attractive to the person you trying to be with and look beauties in the box out of the holder Okay, so I'm handsome to somebody to my wife and then I'm ugly to somebody else You know if women and call me short You know and I'm about six foot tall You sure But in him a wife feel She two inches shorter than me and obviously I'm tall enough for her. So see beauty in the eye of a holder Promote breathe God bless your thoughts on adult industry workers and God, okay Thoughts on the dope industry workers and God God love you God love God loves those in the adult industry and He made you are his child or She or he or the child and he may be waiting on you to come all the way home And he can't help you turn your mess into your message. He can allow you to Turn your pain into purpose You can be used in the kingdom To go and reach those who may be in that industry who are hurting and broken and lost and Want to weigh out But now is God in it? No, it's God blessing it. No Are you covered by God if you pray unto him? You may very well be graced and covered you won't be blessed But you may be spared because on the other side of it the Lord knows that You could work in the kingdom and help help people Find deliverance So what I would be trying to do if I was somebody in that industry I'd be trying to get out of it as fast as possible and just trust God on the other side of it Geo God bless you. Just a small token of my gratitude. Good night. Hey, God bless you. No Hey, hey, I just want to thank y'all. I'm getting on off him a minute. So Hey, it's some a couple y'all gay 99 dollars on them God bless you everybody if you gay 99 cent God bless you Fitness mom popped in here and I just said I'll finna go fitness mom says she gonna send a blessing get the question off for somebody Coach Chris friend stated that she won't leave Her cheating husband because God doesn't like divorce They had two kids and ten years together before marriage is isn't it possible? It was never a union from God. Well, if she believed in God so much The Bible says that that the covenant broke when the man cheat so they ain't even married no more They ain't even married they married by paper, but they ain't even under God union no more God ain't Blessing nothing they got going on because he didn't broke the covenant now and he has not repented now He break the covenant and he repents and he changes and he becomes a new man God forgives and throws the sin into the seal for giftfulness But if he's still wallowing in his sin, they ain't got God blessing She she's just hanging on out of fear of the unknown She hanging on out of fear for starting over and and not finding what she would call love. That's why she hanging on Which of your books should I let my 13 year old read now when I'm Nacocha now when I'm you could read them all and then as her mama you put it in 13 year old language But she ain't ready for my books because my books too adult, you know, too real she ain't dealing with nothing I'm talking about in the books Fitness mom God bless you now fit it mom keep listening. Okay Why do men use your pain against you just curious? Because men are created for combat men are created for war men are are created You got to realize what men do for a living what you think the men doing over in the mother countries in in the US Oh, I mean what you think they over there doing they over there on the roof Looking through a scope Putting some through somebody brain. You see what I mean men wired differently Men is not wired just for love a man. I learned how to love, but that's that's totally different Hey, God bless if I miss your question on here. Please forgive me Keely Crawford God bless you now God bless you. Hey Tony couldn't help but bless you before you go I'm glad you gave that love to 99 Kia. Please. Thank you. Yeah, I'm glad you hitting with that 2499 And stuff you be doing somebody inside a buzzer beat up there Cherise God bless you. I miss so many of those in the chat now. Shayna God bless you Shayna Poor thing I like what in our life every time I'm able to catch your live chat So I'm going to bless you you have done so much for me. God bless you and your family What y'all gonna have me in tears? I got to get on over here. This light shining in my eyes. I'm being teared up Y'all don't do me like that. I say I got to go numb phone back cut off on me now fine mom God bless And fine mom change screen change screen ain't fine mom So my wife out there listening and she think I'm off the alive and I'm in here talking about fine mom She that is looking like a satellite dish Hi, TG. I just logged on not too sure if you've answered this, but I'm still healing From a situation she'll I'm doing the work. However, I'm extremely interested in becoming a life coach Do I need coaching first thoughts? If you can afford coaching it won't hurt you It won't hurt you if you can afford coaching then do it because it might just take a session just to talk through it With the likes of myself or another coach from my mentor dot life if you can't afford coaching then Go ahead about your business. Go ahead and become a coach because helping somebody else You also gonna be helping yourself because you're gonna be talking to yourself Now y'all still sending blessings now So go ahead and take your life coach certification. It's on Tony gasses academy calm and The coupon code is my mentor The coupon code is my mentor Ariana Brown God bless you. I don't know if I already saw you and said that but God bless you Tiffany McLean. Hey Tony. Can you do a video on a man coming back out of love verse ego? All right, that's a good video topic if I have my pen on my write it down. Okay, let me write that down Okay Man Coming back out of ego. That's a good top of the I might do that tomorrow if I remember I Sit right here in front of this piece of paper and don't even look down Hey, thank you for that Tiffany Eternal faith God bless you God bless you not a nine I Really appreciate y'all y'all sending them payments in and told y'all 10 minutes ago don't do that But I really appreciate you thank you for everybody for the support. It means more to me Then you know I'll be sitting over here. Just shake my head trying not to cry and I just I really appreciate you and What's the mar tomorrow wins tonight? I think we got a bonus Q&A tomorrow if the Lord give me the energy if I'm able I'll be here and for the moderators in the chat. Thank you Y'all keep putting that no more questions no more questions But y'all like the um the usher the usherboard and I really appreciate y'all all five of you Glenn rocks and caramel kisses and share and Mama tish and to Bella. I hope I ain't forget nobody but I really appreciate y'all for that support And thank you for that cash up. You sent me and what was a young lady named that sent me that cash up? Holly I'ma tell y'all Holly a god bless. I'm praying over you when I hang up off of this hill live I'm finna say a real prayer for you Holly cuz that was a stretch I know everybody sent a blessing, but what Holly did that had to be a stretch unless Holly a million now Okay, well Holly sent me. I'm telling y'all CD blesses on here Holly. I Said this a minute. This is a secret me now This uh mark Zuckerberg why I Mean just that that and I'm waiting on the right me back and say oh my goodness. I added an extra zero I didn't mean to do that. I said Lord come on now Holly bless me like that Danny s. God bless you now. Hey y'all I got to go let me hang up cuz y'all keep sending me blessing him Let me hang up. Hey God bless. I got to go. Hey y'all take y'all talk tomorrow