 I'm not sure how to pronounce that, says I have told him so often what I want and need. It was a training for me because expressing was hard for me, but I overdid it. Now he says he does the exact opposite to protest. Yeah, I mean, if you're doing it in a forceful way where you're trying to manipulate him or that. So this is what happens when you try to come from this space of force is that you end up with resistance. Whenever you're trying to manipulate someone, whenever you're trying to control someone and they feel like you're trying to control someone trying to control them, they will put up resistance, right? But if you tell them what you want and need, and then you give them the freedom, right, to do it and to make that decision and to decide that they're going to step up and take that role and do those things, then they're doing it out of choice and they're not doing it because you try to force them and prod them and manipulate them and make them do something that they didn't want to do. That's what the difference is, right? The difference is in freedom of choice. You want him to not feel obligated to do it, but you want him to do it because he loves you and he values you and he wants to keep you in his life. And that's why the power position and the space of abundance and the willingness to walk away are such important things because if you're coming from those spaces, it's not like, hey, you need to do this or else. It becomes this thing where you're like, hey, I want to feel valued and I want to feel loved and cherished and I want to feel like a priority in your life. And so if you want me to feel those ways, this is what I'd like to experience. And if he decides that he wants to be in your life because then all of a sudden it's like, oh, okay, I get it, right? And he can make a decision whether he wants to do it or not. And if he doesn't do it, then it's like, okay, well, that's your choice and you have the freedom to make a choice. And I also have the freedom to make a choice, right? And I have the freedom to decide what I want to have in my life and what is acceptable and not acceptable and how I want to be treated. And all of a sudden it's like, he'll start to feel that and he'll start to see that and he'll be like, okay, I can either go somewhere where I can continue to do what I've been doing or I can step up and start treating this woman the way that she knows that she deserves to be treated. And it'll be a decision that will be mutual and it'll be coming from a space of freedom and he'll be making that choice instead of it being this thing that you're trying to force him into and he rebels against it because he doesn't want to.