 fuck that let's get into it you just don't this deep no she knew me so much better she knew me so much better no incense up in his mud there's a reason these two guys win thought you knew her so much better well these two guys know her and that's why they win and you lose all the time bring your tissues cuz it ain't gonna change and news flash I'm not just talking about black women I'm talking about all women all women love these two guys oh and make no mistake they don't grow out of it so all you do to about to be but hurt and think well that's just until you know they grow up and then all of a sudden you know when they come to their senses then they'll choose me no no no no no no no no no no no see I'm about to hurt your feelings because you need to know women love these two guys always have always will and there's a reason that they love these two guys and your choices are simple either deal with it or do better let's start off with the top before we get into it let's go ahead and do this let's go heading let's go ahead and be polite it's raining up here shout out to the CIA one love FBI what's going on shout out to my homie there in Virginia just connected with a brother out Virginia looks to have a very nice tailoring haberdashery business your boy your big bro is gonna it's gonna get good it's gonna get good I love working with small I love working with a I love working with independence versus big brands because put that money in their pocket anyway let's get into it 89 people watching 27 people hit the damn like button y'all already ran up in here to see what I'm gonna talk about I'm not talking about nothing until we get to least 60 likes so shout out raining one was going on King Jay what's going on Albert the two videos that will be dropping today are how to make the woman crave you how to become her obsession how to take her how to get in her very soul get your Mortal Kombat shank song on there's a very there's a you know there's a technique to what I do and it works it works it's iron clad getting a woman to crave you to be obsessed with you to just be on her mind all day all night to where just the thought of you and she can't she can't even help herself her hand just slips in now in the thighs she closed her eyes and bites that lip and just see a lot of you cats never had that don't worry your big bro gonna help you but get the lights up get the lights up I'm gonna tell you right now they're gonna be some guys who are gonna be upset but I'm gonna tell you I don't care I don't care because my job is to tell you the truth I'm on YouTube to grow my business and I grow my business best when I tell guys the truth and let them deal with it there are two types of guys women absolutely love they go crazy over them they and this is the only real battle this is the battle at the top of the battles throughout any time in history throughout any culture throughout any race you're gonna see that at the top you're gonna see women love these two guys the first one oh we got to still get the lights up we got to go I can't go mmm oh it's smelling good I got I'm got a I got my incense burning right now this incense right here there's some house of matriarch it's called devotion Middle Eastern frankincense Murr on this nice cold day and right now I'm actually rocking my YSL St. Laurent tuxedo we've been killing them all day I didn't get a chance to really bust up my my my Maxwell smart camera that's a camera it's a camera recorded it's right here never chance to bust it out because it's been too rainy all day such hot videos got a candle going how often do you burn candles gentlemen how often do you just set your own damn mood how often do you just get your flex on a lot of your dudes man is y'all y'all y'all need to you need to listen to your big bro you need to suck you need to get your own mold together so I say on suit Saturday that's the day to get your own mold put your grown damn man on if it look good smell good get out and roll around like a damn man all right you can see the hey look at guys look look what's happening right here look at look at the dislikes you see the guys who are the dislikes them of those avatar but hurt dudes the dudes who are anti-self-improvement the dudes that just want them to I wanted to like me because I'm a good dude she does she dislikes you third she does like you black white Asian Hispanic and other they do like you you're just number three and a distant third and most of you are that way cuz you anyway let's get into it keep them going I hope to get the dislikes up to double digits because that just is a greater indication of how many guys out there just hate to hear the truth I have not even said a word yet and there are eight people who've already disliked it can't be because I said anything wrong I've got on the camera looking good smelling good talking about the same thing but the subject matter hurts the feelings of some guys so much so we're even got to ask you why are you on this channel don't hit dislike just don't come unsubscribe because it's not gonna get any easier we're in second level it's gonna only get harder playtime is over so let's get number one number one the number one guy that all women love all women everywhere no respect to a class no respect to any of that shit is the bad boy that's right is the bad boy and black community you want to call them pookie and ray ray that's what the bad boy fall in that category on the other side it would be you know it would be it would be Brad or Chad pick one it would be the guy in the leather jacket in the motorcycle with the tattoos the bad boy the bad boy is always a archetype we're talking about archetypes women love the bad boy archetype because he represents rebellion he represents actually pushing against the father and her in the men and her families control a father is going to raise his girl up to be nice prim proper respected he wants somebody to be right for his little princess and she's gonna think about the dude that just talks to her the way she needs to be talked to and and and screwed the way she needs to be screwed shout out to Alan Roger Curry when he talked about I met this judge one time from this upper bourgeoisie family and couldn't figure out why his daughter love this street dude hey man he said he fucks he fucks me the way I need to be you can't like it or not this is at the crux of the pookie ray ray argument because women love bad boys women love bad boys I could give you all the psychological reasons but that's just the truth the rebellion the danger all of it and here's the thing you can lie to yourself and think that that changes some point in life it doesn't it doesn't they just stop talking about it as much there's never a place where women get to like well I went through my bad boy phase and now I want mr. Rogers no that shit that they tell you guys they tell you that so you won't feel guilty and won't feel inadequate trying to measure up to the dude she's really thinking about why you on top of her doing the best you can shut the front door that is the truth the unvarnished truth they tell you that you're acceptable while she's thinking about the guy she really won't while you land on top of her doing the best you can but you get that missionary position you get you know the transactional you know kind of stuff and I talked about a video today to how to fix this shit because everybody can't be a bad boy everybody can't be a bad boy because you don't want to you don't want to take penitentiary chances you don't want to you don't you or to law and order and I'm not judging see this is amoral and pragmatic I don't care if you like it everybody can't be the bad boy you don't want to take those risks and that's cold the bad boy is always going to be one of the top bad boy think about even back when we had the quintessential all-america show happy days who was the most successful character on there fans a even in that idyllic lily white washed America Richie Potsie the Cunningham's Joni Chachi you know all-american Al's burger shop and bebop and poodle skirts and I let who comes up the leather jacket wearing motorcycle riding knock on the door jukebox work looks at a girl come on I mean just go back and look at 1970s and look at how look at how cool how much of a dumb game Fonzie was running Fonzie was running a dumb game in the 70s Fonz was the shit bad boy that character existed because they knew women would gravitate towards and here's the thing of the nine of you guys who hit dislike here's what you here's the problem here's what it is why you did dislike because you like them too you like them too because they do the shit that you don't have balls enough to do oh watch the dislikes go up watch it again you like the bad boys too because they have the balls to do shit that you don't have that you don't have the balls to do you wish you could be like them you wish you could stand up and say man fuck you we're not gonna take it you wish you could do it but you just can't you know people are disapproved of me and look I'm not just see look it jumped again see watch look look and keep going I don't want to be like him I don't want to be a bad boy I like being Captain America in the Boy Scout because Captain America always wins no he doesn't that's some shit they put on movies to sell you goober's a ticket like it or not bad boys are archetype for all women and it's not just black women all women you know what happens the teenage bad boys different than 20 something bad boys different than 30 something 40 something 50 something but the bad boys stays the bad boy Johnny Depp's character that bad boy you you can become a corporate raider a pirate see that bad boy can go from high school to Wall Street and he still has that killer instinct that shark thing and he eats up and women love them now here's the thing somebody had to say it I'm gonna tell you that's what it is but there's another guy that women love again as an archetype and they love this guy just as universally even the women that say they don't and this guy is going to be the more controversial of the ones because this is the guy women actually say they don't dig as much as they really do they'll come out of their mouth and say oh I don't like guys like that see the most women will agree out front yeah I like bad boys because we know it's much socially acceptable but this other guy they'll come out now like I mean you know some women like him but I don't like him as much you know I like my guy different one and you know what that one is it's the pretty boy yep the pretty boy the bad boy and the pretty boy now when I say pretty boy I'm not talking about delicate features fingernails get that shit out of your head I'm talking about what somebody some people call the jawline Jeremy Meeks remember that dude the guy who had to print the went from the mug shot to being a kept man the jawline with the eyes the pretty boy pretty boys there will be women like I don't like a guy that's that I don't like a guy that's pretty I like I got his rugged face now you can be guys are like man get bullshit and I love it and see and this is one the guys didn't have a problem with it because most men will accept the bad boy because he's a he's masculine and he you know when you say pretty boy it pisses a lot of rockface niggas off because a lot of rockface dudes off because they can't be the pretty boy because a pretty boy is a face guy Don Draper Brad Pitt Leonardo DiCaprio see a lot of times they'll try to paint the pretty boy is some kind of effeminate weakling and that ain't it not even by a long shot that's what a lot of dudes who really hate on this dude this archetype try to paint him ass and that's cool he's still gonna fuck your bitch cuz women like bad boys and pretty boys let me give you an example in the black community how many of you guys went to college if you went to college type me in the chat room type me in the chat room me if you went to college type me me me me me me me me me and I'm rockface dudes get mad at the pretty boys and they'll be the main ones I mean you don't need to be a pretty boy you motherfucking look like Like the thing, what you gonna tell me? Shut up. Okay. Well, if you went to college, you know the divine nine. Let's talk about the fraternities. I gotta give all five. But the one, when I went to school, it was the Alpha's, the Sigma's. The Iodas weren't on our yard, but let's mention them. But then there was the Kappa and the Q's. There was the Noobs and the Q's. I'm a Noop. I'm a Kappa. The smallest chapters on any yard were always the Kappa's and the Q's. We were diametrically opposed. The Q's were the big muscle bound, you know, a green mound, Michael Clarke Duncan looking D. Groves. Gonna get some comb bread. You know, the big old swole up dude. Walking around with the big old Mega Brando, walking with the gold boots and they are. A Q's. Five, five, I got the Q's. That's Q's. A Q's. Q's. Q's. Q's. Q's. Swettin' and shit with the Boons farm sweat goin' everywhere, Jerry Curl Jules lookin' like a bunch of full force motherfuckers. You look so good. Jumpin' and sweatin'. Barkin' at bitches. Rrrrrrrrr. You know, ew yeah. And the Scran to push it away. The Q's got much play on a yard. Cause they was a big old swole up dude. They played middle line backer. They didn't even play positions. They weren't even out there. The Q's were so big and bad, even the thug dudes like, don't fuck with them. That's what they were. But then you know, who will come in? Who will come in? It will be the, it will be the noobs. The noobs will come in and they'll be like, ah man, I don't like them. You're all pretty boys. That's what would happen, man. The Q's will go from atomic dog and all this shit. And then we will roll up in there. And women will just go, ah! We'll come in through the suspenders and the bow tie, rows, pull out that cane and just start on that smooth outward R&B tip. And the Q's will be over there sweatin' and shit, lookin' like slaves at noon day. And we just, yeah. Roses are red, violets are blue, and there's anything. But you know what? There was mad respect between the Q's and the noobs. Always. Everywhere I went, mad respect. Every Q I ever met. What's up, noob? And noobs only call each other noobs. And let me tell you something. You know what the respect was? Rodney, you should say Rodney. That's a Q named Rodney. He's like, you know what? I don't like them other motherfuckers. I don't like them sygms. I don't like them alphas. And they know I owe this like, but I always have respect for you noobs. He's like, we come through and we gorilla the pussy. We come in and we just come in, we gonna bark and take it and gorilla it. You cool motherfuckers come in smooth with that shit. Which I'll lay them down just like we do. Cause you have both predators. Look, man, the pretty boy and the bad boy are always on top. Somebody tell me I'm lying. Oh man, we didn't shimmy. Now that shimmy shit ain't my generation. We asked, I used to, you know, Cain, I'm gonna tell you, man, I have twirled my cane into mo- Look here, man, shout to Ron Wills. He talks about, you can get a blowjob off some shoes. Man, I'm gonna tell you, I have got on the, I've done more step shows, that smooth shit and bitches just thought it, it was the closest of being a damn rock star. Pretty boy, bad boy. You know what? Even when I was at school, I saw this play out because dudes would hate on the cues. Cause they were bad boys, but they still got their books done. You know, a lot of the cues that went to school were the medical doctors now. A lot of noobs are like in finance, the bad boy and the pretty boy. And no matter if it's on the yard or in the hood or in the suburbs or in Chinatown or Vato Velo, you know whatever the fuck is always the same. The bad boy and the pretty boy, it never changes. They're always at the top. So this whole select, non-select kind of shit. Look here, man. Most guys, guys need to, if you red pill, you need to understand something. Shout out to the late date, late, great, Patrice O'Neill is always your fault. And you weren't her first pick. We are old enough. We family, we family. We're not back in our young days. I mean, maybe clink still, clink, clink and all that. Maybe they still young enough, Rick can still go find one. But most of us, we're not back that far in our history in our journey to where you can actually be the one that left the imprint. So you got to become the upgrade. So you need to damn sure watch the video I'm dropping, talking about how to make her crave you, be obsessed with you. See, if you understand the whole classic man versus the pookie and ray ray argument, this is the great battle. The pretty boy versus the bad boy. Because what do the pretty boy and the bad boy have in common? They're assholes. They're both assholes. The pretty boy is the smooth asshole. The bad boy is the real asshole or more authentic, hardcore. How do you want to put it? Unvarnished, unedited. See, I could never be a bad boy, but I was born to be a pretty boy. That smooth asshole shit. And you can learn how to be an asshole too. So you can't get even with your past. Can't do that. But you can make sure your future's bright and understand something. Therefore women, they love these two dudes. And if you're not one of these two dudes, understand something. Whether she likes bad boys or pretty boys, that's up to her. They probably like some both. They're one and two respectively with all women. And then the other guys come third. So I use sex as we're talking about it. If you've never had a woman get down on her knees and service you, if it's always been, you sitting on the couch or laying in a bed, if she's never submitted to you like that, if you've only had missionary, trans-actionary sex to where you got to take out the dinner and then you get something. I don't want to give all the good shit out of the video away. But women, when they crave you, when they're obsessed with you, when they look dude, it's a different life. And see, you guys can miss me with this bullshit saying, why do we always have to talk about this in the black community? It ain't black. I've been in many of your country club, many of your boardroom on a yacht in chamber of commerce meetings and rotary club. And men talk about the same thing everywhere. We just do it with our different flair here. There's barbershop talk everywhere. And nowhere on planet earth have I been to where pretty boy and bad boy were number one and two. Number three is everything else. Now, can you level up from there? You can damn show can, but that's what you need to watch the video I'm driving for. Because here's the thing. You can say what the hell you want. The why we always talk about women, why women because women are the way we keep score, fighting and fucking. I don't see a lot of you dudes disingenuous on YouTube. You always want to talk about, why do we talk, why does it always come down to women? If you were as successful as you said you were, you wouldn't be on this motherfucking anyway. Did I say that out loud? Erase that, erase that, cut that, cut that, cut that. I didn't mean that. Yeah, I did. If you was really as successful as you were in making all the money and doing all the shit, you would not be on these YouTube streets and these YouTube chat rooms doing this YouTube shit. Unless you was like me running a YouTube business, it's disingenuous. You, a lot of guys are on here because there's something missing. And we gotta get real about it. We gotta get real about it. And the whole thing, we don't want it to come down to the women in sex because you can't control it. Because women in sex have been the source of rejection and pain for so many of you guys because you've never actually done the work to figure it out. See, a lot of us can actually go to school and say, I want to make a better grade. We can into the real world and go build and all this other kind of stuff, but it's the conquering of that woman is the conquest that is before all men. It's the riot of passage. And see, because so many of us didn't have fathers, strong fathers growing up, we think it's not that important. How are you gonna come from a single mother life? How are you gonna come, ask yourself, coming from a single mother like most of us? And if you've never got this information again, how are you gonna talk to the guys who've already done it and say how important it is? You can't be no in-sale midtown, near in-sale, got a trick dude to get some quality ass and tell me anything about this shit. None of it. You can't tell me anything unless you've been where I've been. Now see, anyway, get back here. Pop the brakes, pop the brakes. Bad boy, pretty boy. Women just come with the package. They can decide to have one and be with them for the rest of their lives or be a ladies man, all their lives. But it's their choice. And you know, getting down well, I don't know any man, I've never met a man who had access to the quantity and quality of woman he could want and he chose not to have any of them. So it's easy to disdain the things you cannot have. Well, I don't really wanna talk to those dudes. I'm only dealing with 80% of men out here that 30% who are ready to buy understand self-improvement, that journey and just looking for the right teacher. And they're like, this is what I've been looking for. And then that 50% of guys who can actually be persuaded, like, you know what, I didn't know that was like that. Okay, I knew something was wrong, but I didn't quite get it. But now that I see, yeah. But that diehard 20% who think they're dangerous because they're so anti, what you can plainly see in your face. You wanna debate all day and argue and shit about? No, have at it, knock yourself out. Because this is a constant, bad boys, pretty boys, bad boys, pretty boys. And here's the thing, the pretty boys and the bad boys don't really have beef. We crack on each other, we laugh at each other. But at the end of the day, there's respect because we both know what it is. Now, see, understand something. I'm not defining what pretty boy is. And I'm not defining what bad boy is, but you know it. You know it when you see it, just like women do. Which, now the question is, what do you wanna fall at in the hierarchy of the ranking? This is where self-improvement becomes so important because you don't have the stomach to be the bad boy. And you may not have had the looks to be the pretty boy. Well, that's what self-improvement comes in. You can move up the ranking, move up the hierarchy and get whatever it is out there you want. If you want something on a higher shelf, you're gonna have to go to a higher level. If you want something on a lower shelf, stay in this kind of range, that's what you do. All right, let's go ahead. Let's see what's in the chat room. Ha, he's a big disguise. I've been called a pretty boy a few times. I was called an A-hole today. Yeah, man, be a smooth asshole. Look here, man. And that's a journey. You gotta learn how to be a smooth asshole. A smooth asshole is, where's that video? Okay, so the video I dropped today was how to make her leave her wanting, how to make a woman crave you or become obsessed with you. I did something else, I forgot. But I'm gonna tell you the other video. Let me see. About the asshole thing. The asshole thing is, oh, so you wanna be select. See, when you're a smooth asshole, you can make a woman shut up and like it. Say that again. You can make a woman shut up and like it. There are women who watch these channels, maybe on this channel right now, who can't stand a lot of the shit that I say. Probably like, who is this cocky arrogant? Well, I don't agree with that. Or when I say something, but you know what? They're still here. If you've ever actually been with a woman who has that sassy kind of attitude or whatever, and you can shut her down with that smooth asshole by just saying, shut up, bitch. But say it in a way where you ain't like Patrice O'Neill, how you call every woman a bitch, shut up, bitch. Bitch, chill out. Or she's like, call me a bitch, but then they shut the fuck up and like it. Women despise noodle-back weak dudes. And the pretty boy and the bad boy know something and they let women know it also that they are up here. I know women talk about, you know, I'm the prize and all that other kind of stuff. And I've even had women on this channel talking about the prize. I let them say whatever the hell they want to. Cause I know the truth. I'm here. I'm up here. Because at the end of the day, if there's a knock on the door or if there's a bear outside, I got to go kill this shit. You can say, all the fuck you want to. I have one woman hear me roar. When there's a bump in the house, I got to go do it. If there's some shit fall apart here and you on my team, I got to take care of it. And I'm gonna tell you, one of the chicks that I'm dating is a rabid, rabid feminist. But she's that way out there. Not around me, she ain't. Look, think of George Carville and Marley Madeline. See, y'all pay her too much attention to what the fuck women say. Men, talk shows on mute. Shut, shut, no, they're not the worst. They're the worst if you don't know how to deal with them. You have to deal, you have to learn the woman you deal with. Do yourself a favor. Talk shows on mute. Turn down what she says. Watch what she does. And women will tell you what they like. Bad boys, pretty boys, for whatever reason. But here's the two things. Both guys are hella confident. Both vines, both guys are arrogant. Got a lot of attitude, borderline arrogant, toxic masculinity, infectious masculinity. Both don't really take any shit. Both have options and both have no problem checking abroad and both make women deliver something. Both of these guys do not just exchange, they're non-sexual, time for a woman to say, no, you gotta break yourself. This is where you can listen to the pimping. I know some of y'all don't wanna hear it, but the pimping has something, if you've never actually, I'm gonna give this one away. I don't know how many of you guys actually, how to know if you're select. I'll give you this. You know you're select if a woman actually spends real money on you. Often. Somebody, I don't mean she bought, she went to Starbucks and got you a coffee. I don't mean it was your birthday and she bought you a shirt. I mean, it's just Tuesday and she know you like some boots, so she bought them. Just because, first time this shit ever happened to me, I didn't know what the hell happened. That is a damn sure sign for being select when women actually break themselves for you. Because women, by their nature, are a sexual, I mean, are selfish creatures. So ask yourself a question. If you got a woman who's a seven, eight, nine, most of us will never see a dime, but let's just throw them in there, seven, eight, nine, 10, and the inbox on Instagram, Facebook is full, the email is full, the text is full, with dudes trying to thirst after them. I drink your bath water. I'll pay you a rent, I'll tie your shoes, and she's getting offers everywhere. Cartier necklaces and air mares, bags, and filling the fucking blank. This dinner, that trip, whatever, and she's actually breaking herself. Hey, I know you like New York OO, and I love the way you smell when you wear that. I thought I'd buy you a gallon of this shit. Thanks. Okay, I'll see you later. The last part was the fucking key. It wasn't a gallon of New York OO, it was, here's your shit, because I know you like it, see you later. Because this ain't your appointed time. And actually leave, that is reserved for select guys. And here's the good side, you can have it too. You can have all the things that come along with being select, if you're willing to do the work, and if you're not willing to do the work, cool. But understand, there is a whole, understand the woman that you dig, the women that you want, the women of your dreams, they have a bad boy or a pretty boy that they will go the extra mile for, but they expect you to drive miles for them. See, this is why I don't understand, see self-improvement is, it's the biggest hack to the game, because the other way you gotta put in all the work, all the effort, all the non, gotta give up all your non sexual attention for her sexual attention, you gotta, and then at the end of the day, you're getting transactional and everything with her. And as soon as she can find what she really wants, she's gonna dump you. Versus, if you do it the other way and you put yourself in demand, self-improvement is the best damn investment there is. So, this is Patreon stuff, yeah? Well, I had to do a follow up to this because some guys actually came out when I talked about, is there a case for marriage? And I meant what I said, look here, man, there's a well-rounded dude, you have to be able to hold opposing thoughts in your head and still be having a conversation. There is a case for marriage, if you're looking to raise kids and do that. And this channel is not gonna say, is it channel for men, but it's not a woman hating thing. This is where women talk about this stuff. You heard it on a ladies panel. So, instead of sitting around as guys arguing and backing forth and all this vacillating, just look at what women do. Because here's the thing, the evidence often does not comport with our logic. You're like, why would they do that? I don't care why they did it. I mean, I do because I have to study this shit. But at the end of the day, the fact of the matter is they did it. What if Patrice O'Neal would talk about it? You can't blame them, they just do shit. And honestly, I accepted that about female nature long ago before I even heard this because Patrice O'Neal's like, they like what they like. You're not gonna win an argument on logic with an emotional creature. Why even try? And resenting the fact that they like what they like does work for you. Well, she shouldn't like a bad boy. She shouldn't like a pretty boy. Okay, she shouldn't like him. She should like me better. Like the do not comment section. Fuck you, Kevin Samuels. She should like me for who I am. Point blank period. Where in is that ever happened? Fighting and fucking. The old rules have always been there. The point in time in history where a lot of guys, this whole make marriage or relationships great again, I don't know where their time in history was. Look, man, go back to, there's always been alpha fucks, beta bucks. There's always been select, non-select. There's always been pretty boy, bad boy and the rest of the guys. It's always been there. The only thing is, as you get older, women get better at hiding it. I'm gonna tell you some shit right now. The only thing that happens is we get older, women get better at hiding it. When they're younger, they're more wild and free and open. They don't care to hide as much, but as they get older, they start seeing how society takes it. Women, women does shit that women will take to their grave. They will never tell anybody, anything. Women's ability to deceive and keep secrets far exceed ours. They are some darsidious shit about this. It's actually admirable if we could use it. Maybe it's good that we don't have that power. But women, when it's all said and done, they will tell you, yeah. I married, I love my husband. I have sat with women who love their husband. Just coming back from her side, dude. I have seen it myself. Wasn't a husband, was a boyfriend, but I'm sitting back. All right, let's, story time. Okay, a young calf was out there doing this. I was out there, I was out in Houston just running a muck. I was in my twenties. And there was this chick we're gonna call her Lisa. Lisa was, oh, she was bad. Ooh, she was bad. Dudes wanted to holler at her, but she had a thing for me. But I knew Lisa had a boyfriend in California. And see, as far as I'm concerned, I don't respect long distance relationships. See, my aunt told me this long time ago. I grew up being this guy who'd be like, all right, Joshua, you know, I like old girl, but she's dating, but she says she's dating Joshua. Or I think old girl's cute, but she's dating, she's, oh, okay, Chesterfield. You don't have to do anything, dude. You don't have to go anywhere with a made-up story. You can go bye-bye and I'ma use Chesterfield. See, a nigga with the name Chesterfield Archibald III, you know this dude's dick look like the Sahara. And he comes to, anyway, I like old girl, but that's Chesterfield's girl. My aunt told me, he's like, look here son, you are single until you're married. A woman says she has a boyfriend. She's dating someone, a boyfriend, doesn't matter. You're single. So if you wait until you find a woman, and she told me, you wait until you find a woman who's single, you're always gonna be alone. Women always got somebody. This is a woman that told me that. She freed me up because I felt bad. I was like, what? He's like, yeah, you can't wait. He's like, look man, you like pretty women. A pretty woman's always gonna have a boyfriend and several guys floating around her. You just gotta shoot your shot and let her pick because look, she may be the one for you. And if you don't shoot your shot, that means some other man could be with your woman. And I was like, you know what? She logically right. So I didn't respect long distance relationship. I wouldn't mess it anybody's wife because that's a vow thing. But boyfriend, girlfriend, if you don't bother you, don't bother me. So anyway, we're in Houston, her boyfriend's in California. I'm like, all right, you're at my house. Apparently they ain't that damn serious. She's a sentient being. Hell, anyway, we end up getting it in. A long prolonged, you know, it wasn't no going out and dining and dancing. No, it was just straight up come over. We getting it in. It was the summertime in Houston. It was hot, sweaty, sticky, 12 play kind of sex shit going on. Actually, Shy was playing in the background. Shy in a portrait, some damn mint condition. This is the back of the day of calling cards. And I remember after we would just, I mean, we would, I mean, we would get, I'm not gonna give you the details. We did shit that I'm like, God, damn, you nasty. My girl, whoo. Yes. This kind of shit you'd only see on porn. I'm like, wow. And she was good too. I mean, she was really, really good. Really good. I was like, wow, not only are you willing, you're good at this. Anyway, can I use your phone? I'm like, all right, get on my phone. Diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy. Back in the day of the calling cards, you know, you had to dial that 25 digit code then the 10 digit phone number. Diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy. Diddy, diddy, diddy, diddy. Click, click, click. Hello, hey baby. I'm sitting there and dig still glistening. And I had all. I'm like, I'm standing outside in this summer breeze outside, Dick's dick listening. She, cause she had a page and she got page and she calls him up, hey baby. And I'm like, baby. But I was curious. I'm like, okay. Hey, uh-huh. Yeah, I miss you too. Dude, I had never seen this before. Now understand, we just did some savage fucking. And this woman in under five minutes picked up the phone and went into a Hollywood performance. Yeah, honey. Uh-huh, yeah, I do too. And I'm like, I listen to your big role. I'm like, I believe what she's saying. I believe it. So part of me was like, this is fantastic. She's doing some fantastic acting. But then the savage part of me said, no, you didn't. What makes you think you can do this in front of me? So I politely put her ass back in the book. She's on the phone. I walk over and I walk in front of her, still swinging. Next thing I know, she starts to pleasure me while she's on the phone. Mm-hmm. I'm like, but she's getting off on this. How do I know she's getting off on it? She's got one, she's got one, she has a phone here and a hand between her leg, doing her thing. I'm like, okay. Understand, I'd never seen anything like this before, but I wanted to see where this goes. This is the whole thing about being open to exploration and everything else. This is why the bad boy wins more often because bad boy will be like whatever. I had to learn this stuff. So I'm like, she's on the phone with the dude, playing with herself, it's like, okay. I'm like, he can't hear this because she wasn't making any slurping sounds or whatever. But I'm like, so I was like, well, that's what you're gonna do. And I figured maybe they'd get off the phone after a couple of minutes, maybe she just, no, no, no. She had a full conversation with this dude. So I'm like, well, if you're gonna go there for less, and I wanted to see how far she was gonna take it. So I was like, okay. Got her back up in the position, arch that back, face that direction. And I dropped this shit down off on her drawers. And I went, mm, I'm like, did you just, why this nigga on the phone? I'm telling you this, so you understand something. I said, I believed her when I heard her on the phone. If I was that, I think of myself, that dude believed everything she said. And I've been that dude on the other end of the line before, cause I had long distance relationships. I'm not telling you some shit. I have not been, I've been punked. I've been cheated on. I've had this shit happen to me before. So don't be looking at me like I'm some damn villain. This happened to me too. And it's probably, and it's happening to you too. If you think it ain't, you just don't know about it. If you believe what they're saying, if you're not her bad boy or her pretty boy, if you're not her imprint. So anyway, I'm just kind of sliding in there with shy in the background. Do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do. And H-Town knocking boots and stuff like that. And I was just kind of, but you know, after a while, cause you on the second session, you go longer too. But after a while, I'm like, I'm just kind of like, no, no, no. And she had this long hair back. And this is no weave stuff. So I can wrap that up. Do, do, do, do, do, do. And she, anyway, long story short. Okay. I gotta call you back. All right, baby. I love you. I miss you. Oh yeah. Yeah. Okay. Bye. Click. I'm like, Lisa taught me a lot. She taught me a lot, but she taught me a lot that night. And I like, after broke her off and did whatever, I said, Lisa, real talk. I had just broke up with my girlfriend who I really dug. So I was in that place where she was just, she was a great sex partner. And I was like, you know, for the longest, I just didn't even, I was attracted to you and that sexual tension was there, but you had a man and I just got, and I was like, you know, but I just said, fuck it. You made yourself available. And we decided to just do this thing. But you told him you love him. And she's like, I do. I love John. What? I love John. I love him. We're getting married. What? Yes, we're getting married. We're going to get married. He's coming up here next week and we're going ring shopping. I'm like, but we just have freaky circus PT Barnum kind of sex. He's like, yes. And I love every minute of it. But I love him. I love your sex, but I love him. I had a choice to make. I could have either just said that's an anomaly. She was crazy. She was lying or I could let my life or I could run, play the tapes back in my life and go back over the times that I've been John and realized that there was something different when I got around my woman. Something was quite off. It seemed like somebody then, like the three little put the, you know, somebody's been sleeping in my bed. This, this part you know, see, dude, you, if you've ever had a woman, if you've ever thought the woman she don't, she has, you know when somebody has been in your porridge. I've been on both sides. And I said, it's all in the game. I didn't make her do what she wanted. I didn't make her do anything. She's single and look here, man, they are married. They are married. Last time I checked, they were married. John was freaking rich. I was not. John was a really solid dude from what she used to tell me, but this went on for months until I actually moved to another side of Houston. This kind of cut it off. But I had a lesson to learn. I've been on both sides of that phone, but I vowed I was like, never again. So I stopped having long distance relationships at that point. If we're not close enough to where I can see you, you don't get a title. Maybe date you from out of town. If you come in town, we get no titles. Cause I've been played. Yes. And I remember whatever, when what made it set in for me is when I went back and played the tapes and I was like, okay, that's why I didn't get the phone call back. That's why she got the phone. So I started to really realize, I was like, look here, man, women's sexual nature is just like us. She enjoyed that shit. She, I was having my fun, but she was having more fun because she was on the phone with this dude, pleasure in this dude, and just in her own little, I'm like, wow. Who really was, take the story of the way you want to. I was her pretty boy. I was her smooth asshole. I talked to her, I talked the right shit to her. I wasn't John, who was all snuggly kissing. And here's the thing. This woman would try to be like, I love you, you're so cute. I'm like, bitch, shut up. I was never gonna break frame. I never broke frame with her. Okay, I didn't want a relationship with her, but even at that, she was trying to get me to become John. What am I telling you? Bad boy, pretty boy. You can level up, you can become more select, but understand something. You cannot get mad at women for being what they are. If you're not her upgrade, like Tony Maciel says, no one's safe. Women love two kinds of guys, the pretty boy and the bad boy. Are you either one of them? If you're not, you've got some work to do if you plan on dealing with them. The easiest thing you can do is go in there and get your body right. Drop down, do the push-ups, sit-ups, get your mask, get the back, get your arms, get your image together. I'm gonna tell you, you can do more with your body and your fragrance and the way you smell. Watch the video I'm dropping. Probably 10 a.m. in the morning, I gotta get it edited. More, you can do more with your, because that's only so much you can do with your face. I mean, you can put on frames and have a beard or whatever, but you can do more with your body. And then, man, you really are gonna have to get your game together. Even Coach Redfield, shout out to Coach Redfield. He dropped the video that I always talk about. He told guys to go take speech classes. You need to learn how to talk to people, speak in public. Some of you guys, man, as soon as you open your mouth, hey, how you doing? What? Hi, how are you? No, no, no, no. There are no bad boys with a nasal voice like this. If you, I'm a bad boy. No, you're not. No, you're not. Click this like. There it is right there. Click it. No, you're not. If you gotta walk around getting close up on the mic, to get into your lower vocal tone, that's what you do. Oh, all right, more on this. I didn't make the rules, man. I didn't make the rules. And a lot of times when you guys hear us talking about this shit and you don't like it, it's kind of like we're the horse with a dog whisperer, the horse whisperer. A lot of Alan, Alan is telling you stuff that he's learned or had to witness or wrong. See Boogie, young clinks, clinks. What's your, what's that boy named? Clinks. Is it clink scales? Clink scales to find clink. Is he here? Stuff on here? I don't know. Is he here? Clink scales. Okay, clink scales. Okay. Sorry, bro. Look, man. You got guys out here putting you up on gang. You know, shout out to Ivy Kingdom, Book of Alphoronomy. We don't make women. We did not make the rules. We did not make female nature. We are just interpreting it for you. You can do whatever the fuck you wanna do with it. Y'all can sit out here and debate the shit till cows come home. But you're not gonna change it. You damn sure not gonna argue or debate it. It's like, why fight it? Female nature is water flowing downhill. Go with the flow. There's somebody for everybody. Here's the thing. If you become a pretty boy, bad boy, goddamn. You be almost like Neo up in this month. If you're a pretty boy, bad boy and actually get your business acumen, your business sense together and all this other kind of stuff, man. The more things in your up, the more arrows in your quiver, the better. Because when I was a pretty boy and I was still real, I told you about the summer, I grew nine inches. Well, I was always the same weight from 10th grade till about 24 years old. When I went from 174 pounds to 198 pounds and put on some muscle and had a chest and some trot, when I put on a masculine physique, I saw how women lost their shit. It was as impactful as when I grew that nine inches. So I'm telling you what I've seen. I've grown from five foot one to five foot 10 in three months. Then in one summer, I went from 174, 176 to 198, 196 plus some ice. I was in the gym four hours a day, four days a week. Chest, trice, bice. I told you the story about the first time I took a jacket off and the black feminist at the call center and she was just like, I had never been a muscular dude, but I'm gonna tell you, women respond to that kind of shit. I didn't make them this way. When Alan talks about using those vocal tones, getting up in the woman's left ear, you know, talking about sliding his dick and her sweet red pussy. And the women respond, look, man, we didn't make them. We don't, we can just tell you what we seen. And if you don't like it, you don't like it. But here's the thing. The smart ones out there will say, God damn, I got some, I got some cheat codes. Now I can, I can power up, become one punch man. You know, what did he say? He became able to knock one out one punch by doing a hundred push ups, a hundred sit ups and a brisk 10 K run or some shit, whatever it is. Anyway, that's the self improvement portion of it. All this red pill knowledge and all this other kind of shit is meaningless if you ain't doing it out there. Hashtag show you work, Negroes. If you're not doing it out there, if you've got nothing to show for it, what's the point of having all the knowledge? Whether it's one was dating multiples, whatever, that's the point. These young thundercats are gonna be, whoo, man. This is gonna be the sum of improvement, man. I wanted to see these young thundercats go out and leave high school or college and come back in the fall. Ooh, wee, to be a late teenager right now with all this red pill information going on, man. Lord have mercy. The college campuses should not be a safe place. It should be a young feeling, yipping around, yipping around the college campuses. Double bag it, though, fellas. They'll be making up babies. Y'all should be running a serious, serious, serious level game on the yard while still doing every damn thing you needed to do. Hey, that story was epic, right? All right. All right, guys, that's it. I just had to get that out here. The bad boy, the pretty boy, or tops with anyone. If you think I'm lying, if you don't agree, ask women in your life. Ask them. There's some women who like bad boys more. There's some women who like pretty boys more. And here's the thing. You probably go hear more women say bad boys because pretty boys, sometimes women don't like pretty boys. They say that. And as a guy who's always been a pretty boy, I've heard women, I don't like pretty boys. I don't like pretty boys. You know, he always dressed this way and I don't want a guy who's gonna be in the mirror more than me and a pretty boy's in the mirror all that time. I'm not talking about no dainty, femme, metro thingy. No, no. No, no. That's not what I'm talking about. You talking about the dudes that ultimately are just two sides of the asshole game. Asshole game works. You want to be a high value asshole. High value smooth asshole, correction. High value smooth asshole. Because we got a lot of high value assholes right now but the smooth ain't there. Smooth is the key. Butter. Smooth. Smooth. It's what you need to get your smooth. This is for the coolin' you. Smooth. Big bro, out.