 It's really kind of funny to watch when you start playing with us. You're gonna start seeing it's like almost again the subconscious like Think she can't control she starts try being different She just realizes oh, I have to answer this and then she goes back Oh, well, I have to answer this as well and gets in and then all of a sudden you just get into this conversation And from there we can break into attraction All right commandment number seven Thou shalt use intrigue This done correctly is deadly This will almost always turn a different set around Now the problem is it's really hard to improv Entry type stuff you may want to use some routines that bank on this again only but a goody one of the most famous ones was the best friends test How does that get an open up? Why was that used right off the opener? Because it's intriguing. Have you guys took the best friends test? Do you know if you're really best friends? Well, no, but now I want to know Like what the hell is that I've never even heard of this before right it bates that chase response That's all I'm trying to do here. I don't again not about traction. It's just can I get hurt chasing? So you might want those specific routines But if you don't have them there is a way a natural way to do it every time and that is using open loops Open loops are one of the easy way to trigger that chasing switch that makes conversation just instantly easier All right, and it's a really easy way to make open loops happen All right, so let's go on the next slide command-minate Hope you saw that open loop All right I'm gonna give you some examples of how to make that happen. All right. All you have to do is cut off what you're saying Leave that intrigue there and then just move on and ideally what's gonna happen is they'll start coming back and chasing after you If anyone's used an old school routine like the cube for example You start telling all these interesting things about herself use that that cube stuff and then all the sudden You just used that you get a DD and you realize. Oh, yeah, what's going on with here? I by the way, I want to ask you something What happens? She goes, what don't know go back to it would tell me what does that mean? You never told me what it means. What was the next question? That's baking on its intrigue principle, so But again the cubes that's that's something you couldn't use till later on What's something we can use right off the bat within different girls? How can we spark it then? Some fun open loops are you do realize there's a guy here. He's been like staring at you for an hour, right? Even if the girl was literally like what nothing to do with you. She's she has to know who what guy She's instantly intrigued at this point Another one, you know You're actually really cute, but there's something about you that makes you unapproachable. I don't know if you knew this Doesn't matter how how hot she thinks she is or what they do what I have to know now What what makes me unapproachable? Why right? She's now invested It's one of the quickest ways you're gonna get from nothing to her. Okay. I need to converse with you I need to have this conversation and With that we can then move on we can then progress it and bit by bit build that compliance All right commandment number eight now shut cycle through topics. She may find interesting All right So many guys plow and they do not use this. They don't they just talk about whatever right again I could talk to a wall, but it doesn't make the wall want to talk back We need to get her to Want to be part of this to want to engage So for this we're gonna instant change interaction Sorry when this happens the interaction will instantly change. It's just a boom effect. I'll be talking about random stuff random stuff She's nodding. She's looking away. She's bored random stuff all of a sudden I see some in the hits and she steps around you know about that You've seen this Holy shit, I love that. Oh my god, like they'll light up. It's one of the freaky things So to do it though, you're going to kind of kind of leave kind of be changing topics blind You're not really gonna know where it's going The only way to know which topics might hit or what might not is a just no bunch of topics that women find interesting and be Elicit the girl you're talking to how is she dressed? How does she talk? What's her look? What's her vibe like? Right? What kind of girl am I dealing with? If you go out a lot enough times you can literally tell a girl's personality before you even approach I could see a girl. I'll know if she's gonna be really receptive She's gonna be rude if she's gonna be a rocker chick I could just I know this girl's personality about like 90% success rate I can just call it is you're gonna get an intuition for this Ideally what you want to happen have happened is as you're saying to these topics and one hits You're gonna want to be something that you have in common If you realize all friendships are based on commonalities It's how we can vibe so easily off with one another We're all here. We have one great commonality. Don't we? We want to get better with women. We want to better our dating lives If anybody comes up to talk to me, they're not gonna come up and be like so do that basketball game the other night Yeah, did you see the score? No way it's gonna come up to like all right, so do I'm working on this approach, right? But I don't really have a good transition off. I was wondering what you're thinking about this Like no anyone who comes and talks to each other You're gonna talk about game because we all know that's a commonality and through that commonality. We can become friends It's easy. It's easy to go off of right So we want to stop start with the girl because vibing talking just becomes Insanely easy again and it's something we both like What happens if we don't have that what happens if I hit a topic that this girl loves and she's Well into invest now, but I don't know anything about it. Don't fear if this happens. We can then use curiosity All we have to do is show that I am curious about this thing. You're interested in I want to learn more Tell me more about it and we get her talking a lot of times keep in mind a girl's favorite topic is going to be herself That's why most of the time when I'm talking to women. I'm keeping the interaction on them I'm keeping about either them myself or us together. I'm not just going to factual information has nothing to do with us It's not stimulating Here's a key point though Remember once she's engaged don't become our girlfriend a lot of guys get too trigger happy with us They're trying about indifference your girls like giving him anything They're cycling the three different topics and then all of a sudden they find one that hits and then they'll spend the next two Hours talking about this thing. They don't care about it means nothing Once you get in the friendly vibe with the girl and the indifference is over you have to break out of it You can't go from indifference to her just being all attracted and wanting you but you can take that extra step indifference to okay I like talking to this guy. I can talk about whatever to now. I'm teasing you playing around with you sparkly attraction So you have to break out of that and now I'm gonna give you a few female-friendly themes So one would include outdoor activities That I've honestly found the hotter the girl or the sorry the higher quality of the girl The more she likes outdoor type of activities whether it's scuba diving whether it's hiking or running Whether it's the beach, you know, I'm from Florida. We always love the beach beach on life Anything you could talk about those topics the better a party life the best clubs out what upcoming concerts are going on Favorite music and you know the best drinks, whatever other things pop culture I Really great. This is actually this actually hit in the girl. I used about two or three weeks ago Where I was battling this indifferent I was throwing random stuff out there And then all of a sudden I just brought up the bachelorette The pop culture is really flew open. They started role-playing which we're gonna give each other a rose all this stuff Lucky I knew about it because one of my roommates is a girl and she's always playing the bachelorette So I just started watching it you got another girly stuff that's going on pop culture Another thing going on right now fifty shades of gray You don't talk to any girl. They're basically reading it one out of two girls is reading fifty shades of gray