 And it was raining and so wandering along and I'm talking to some guy about theory or something and this girl walks past One of those girls that you don't see that often what you do in Budapest actually see them every three minutes But one of those girls where you just feel like you've been shot like you're doing the Uzi dance like 80s style Yeah, and and this girl walks past and then I go back and I'm and I'm go theory theory and Sasha Just like slaps me in the face. He's like what are you doing? I'm like, yeah teaching demonstrating sex. I ran back Stop I got in front of this girl. I stopped her with my amazing intent. I said Who the fuck are you? And she's like I'm Anna and she's holding this like newspaper over here because it's raining It's this romantic scene. I said you're stunning. I have to go Tell me one tell me three things about you and she told me a month later that when I asked her that first thing She thought I was I like having sex on the table But she didn't tell me that Because I probably couldn't have handled that because men can't handle that kind of information So she said I like chocolate and reading and bars All right, that's fucking a really interesting mix. I'm gonna get your number and I'll talk to you later number run away Had to leave Budapest Continue the Euro tour return for the next Euro tour called her up I Said would you just like to meet near my place? She said yes We met outside my place. She had a bottle of warm champagne cheap champagne champagne, which we never drank we went upstairs And then we went into the bedroom and we had sex Right What did I learn from this encounter? I learned one important thing I learned that 1993 was a really good year for Hungarian gymnasts who like to dress up as Egyptian slave girls That's all I learned This was a culmination of many many years of me going out doing this and getting slaughtered on all levels so the point where a Seduction happened flawlessly and happened almost effortlessly and happened within accumulation of minutes, but I didn't learn anything from that interaction It was good, and I encourage you guys to enjoy those moments when they happen But I want to tell you about a couple of times when I really learned some severe lessons that lifted me up a notch I Mentioned this girl yesterday it in a Russian Yeah, when I was talking about when I was in bed with her and this rich dude called up and said I'll give you whatever you want Yeah How I met her was it was 2006 or seven or something like that. I had gotten into seduction formally I was really serious about this and at that time I was broke and I was on the doll for those of you who are in Internet land that means on government benefits. Yeah, thankfully Australia is a country where they will pay you to be lazy For a period of time Like I talked my Serbian girlfriends about this and like this like what did you do for these 10 years when you had no job? And I was like Well, I did whatever I wanted and the government paid me the equivalent of two months wages for you every week Because I don't know why she's just looks at me with disgust Like if I'd been born in Serbia, I would not be here doing this. Thank you. Thank you Australia good country So how do I meet this girl? I was at Centalink Which is the doll office the government benefits office internet people and I was dressed like a like Liam back in the day I had this coat that I bought in India when I was a hippie that was from Kashmir and I thought it was really cool I thought was like her like some eastern wizard thing It just looked like a sack basically with some embroidery on it. I had some tie-died pants on I had my kung fu shoes on because I was always ready and And probably some you know, retarded Indian shirt. I look like Yeah, an Indian hobo like hippie hobo and I'm waiting in line with my form with the jobs that I pretended that I saw it was looking for which I certainly wasn't and They're at the front of the queue I See this amazing figure and then I hear something which just drives me crazy, which is a Russian accent You know, I'm just I don't have to widen to my blood because I'm quarter Ukrainian or something But I hear an accent and just drives me nuts and you don't hear much of that in Australia I hear this girl and she's like no this not problem and something and she's like, you know scolding the person behind the desk and And then she just turns and sweeps out of the to walk out of the Centling office And I'm thinking at this point I'd been approaching a lot I thought I was getting kind of good and I was and I had built this identity of me as a PUA because you know In the Melbourne seduction scene people knew of me and when they saw me out. They're like All that kind of stuff and and this is part of my identity at the time and I saw this girl walk out I went fuck. That's the hottest girl I've ever seen in the flesh. So this day she's the top three or four girls that I've slept with in terms of beauty and I Saw a walk walk out. I'm like, I can't I can't I Mean in terms of bad places to approach girls you have STD clinic and employment office I don't know what's after that morgue or something. I don't know. Yeah bad places to meet girls Don't does not demonstrate high value at all. I was literally a bum and As she walked out and I'm having this feeling this this just sinking doubt and just and worthiness. I'm like fuck I'm just so not there. Yeah, and why is she in here? I don't know. Yeah And that was the moment where I had a breakthrough