 What's going on everybody so let me know in the chat window if you can see me So I'm gonna be looking down intermittently. Let me get this little centered Cool. So we got three people watching. Let's see if we can get some more people on here I'm basically just gonna talk about whatever you guys want to talk to so I might make this a regular thing Where I do YouTube lives, but I'm kind of testing it out and seeing what works Can you guys hear me though? What's up, Will Phillips? How you guys doing? Hey Bikes, hike. I've seen you comment on a lot of my stuff. Great to see you Perfect. All right. Well, this time is yours. You guys can ask me whatever questions you want to ask me Whatever questions you want to talk about is totally up to you. So I'm gonna just go to the The comments that you guys left for the last thing and we'll just start there We'll just start there. So if you guys have any questions, just let them rip It's going good. It's going good. A lot of changes have been happening actually In the business and in my personal life as well, too So Cool. All right. All right. So I'm looking at the communities tab and there are some questions here Okay, so the first question that I have that I'm going to Answer Is I'm gonna answer the question on how to hook up with a girl without hurting her feelings Okay And then there's a good one here how to exit a conversation with a girl to not make it awkward Okay But so let's just talk about how to not hurt a girl's feelings when you're hooking up with her The first way is honestly be honest Upfront honesty is key to not hurting her feelings because she doesn't get her hopes up for something That's not going to happen. Okay. Now. This is something that's hard to do It's hard to tell a girl something that you know, she might not want to hear but you be surprised There are a lot of girls that really value honesty and that are okay with being casual with you that are okay with just hooking up They just want to have fun or whatever Okay Well, you don't want to say it as though is you don't want to make it seem like they're not worthy to be your girlfriend You want to make it seem as like that's not what you're looking for right now? Okay, and when you say that it's more likely that she's gonna be cool Now you're gonna have to have this conversation again if you keep hooking up with her So that's the key thing don't let this be the only time that you talk about it and think you're done All right, so somebody else asked me these asked me Hey, what is a good way to exit a conversation from someone a couple of my favorite things that I like to do if I'm talking to a girl That I really don't want to talk to is I'll say something like hey, you should meet my friend XYZ and I'll pawn it off I'm trying to be me to my friend. I'll do that or I'll say wow that was really great I got to go talk to somebody else. Okay, then I just leave, you know But then I might say something like but let's catch up sooner Let's talk soon if you want to be extra nice about it if you know You really don't care about the person that much you can leave that part out or if you don't want to lie But there are ways that you can do that just say just and make sure you end you have the final say just be like hey That's really great. I'm gonna go talk to this person right now, but it was awesome You know like hope you have a good rest of your day or you know wish them Well or maybe give some sort of future projection that you guys could do in the future or you invite them to something All right, if you really don't like the person, you don't got to say any of that Okay All right, so we have a bunch of questions coming in this is gonna get a little too chaotic So if you want your question answered, I would recommend that you ask it twice If you're asking me a question that is longer than three lines or even longer than two I'm probably not going to answer it because it is just too many of them that are coming in We got 82 people all of them got questions. There's gonna be more coming in Okay All right, so let's go so John Favreau that's four lines, but all I'll see if I can answer it She showed interest and I wasn't that interested at first and now I am she has a crush on another guy And she's still treating me nicely. What do I do? Okay, that's a very vague statement I don't actually know what's going on But obviously if you like the girl you should probably start talking to her and probably start trying to like make plans with her Okay, don't worry about this other guy do what you got to do and if she ends up going for that guy At least you made an effort Okay, please give me some tips for long distance relationships to keep longer Okay, a long distance relationship is only going to work If there is a set time where you guys will be reunited in the same location if there is no set time You should not be in a long distance relationship There's no reason to do that you only want to be with people that at some point in time You're going to be together with so if that's happening and you can do it now If you want to know about sexting or want to know about how to have like phone sex or like how to keep the Relationship hot during that period. There's some other things that I can talk about but I cover that more in my coaching programs Okay, by the way you guys there's going to be a lot of things that I want you guys to to know about first of all, I'm going to be plugging a few of my programs here and When I plug them it's going to be related to what we talk about. I changed the sound. We'll see if this works Okay, cool. So I can hear you guys. All right cool So you may need to ask your question a couple times But here we go So I did nine months of long distance with my girlfriend and she is coming back to my city in August Should I start slowly instead of trying to be with her 24 seven? I mean, that's up to you and your relationship really and if she wants you to be there with her and you guys are comfortable with that That's fine. How would you ask the girl out that? You're interested in but you're not sure if you're in the friend zone if you're not sure if you're in the friend zone This is what I want you to do. I want you to invite her to something. That's like a container event This is something that I talk about in my chase program, which if you want a link to it It's in the description box below. It's probably the best thing that you can do that's going to allow girls to chase you Okay, you need to get this girl to chase you a little bit The way that you do that is by inviting her to something fun that can be seen as platonic It's not seen as platonic then she's probably going to see it as a date She's not going to want to go out dates are actually kryptonite to women who are actually interested in you But are like kind of friends. They don't want to ruin the friendship And they don't like want to mess things up that are already there and it's easier and safer for her to not take that date So you want to create a funnel event, which is something that I talk about I mean, this could be a group event or something but you want to create something that's not a date more of a group thing and That's something that I talked about in the chase program. So if you want to link to that There's a link to it in the description box below Okay, cool. Do all girls play games or just some all women? I'm telling you this We'll play some form of games Some more than others and let's be real men play games, too So that's something that you're gonna learn about how to do with like coaching with me as I talk exactly about the female psychology Why that worse? Yeah, I'll I'm All right, any more tips on college game college game is all about social status dates all of that throw that out the window It's all about social status. You want to create that? You know, I recommend you get the chase program might be a little steep for a college student But if you get it and you know how to do it You're gonna be like rushing it and call it. I wish I had this Okay Girlfriend and I having too much obligations back communication occur what to do well If you have bad communication just come forward and have good communication a good question to ask is hey Where are the things worse and things that I can do to contribute to this relationship? What can I do to make this relationship better for the both of us? They start from that start by what can I do and then she's gonna know we're willing to improve herself Okay, my ex says she can't be attracted to me again because if I acted too many before I can turn it all around All right, we're gonna a lot of relationship questions here Not necessarily a relationship coach or more of a dating coach But if you acted too needy before don't act needy again in the future Okay, two girls like short guys I'm five two by the way Generally speaking just by looks wise women generally prefer tall men But if you're a five two guy, you can have some moving day gorgeous women You see to up the other categories My guess would be you need to have some sort of passion or something that you're going for and then also You want to make sure that you have some sort of social status Through and you'll be fine. We find honestly like height is more how would people perceive you and if they perceive you as a tall figure And they're gonna be more likely to be interested in you. Okay Again, you guys if you want your question answered, don't make it longer than two lines I can't answer a question. That's four lines that I have to read. There's just too many people on this call We have a hundred people and they're all messaging. Okay, can I be risky on a third date? Yeah, you can't but don't be too risky where you're gonna upset the person that you're with All right, so I would recommend that you like see if she's okay with it and then come in. All right, I Asked Okay, I asked a girl. Does she like me but said no Okay, she said no, just probably were alone. Yeah, these these questions are coming in a little too fast I wonder if there's a way that you guys can like Put them to the top Or something like that because it's just coming in too quickly. Okay. What are your favorite self-help books? Perfect So that's a one-line question right now. You guys I'm only gonna go for questions that are one line So if you want your question answered do it one line my favorite self-help books are the ones by Dale Carnegie I really like to book how to wait friends and influence people and he also wrote another one called How to stop worrying and start living if those two books are phenomenal Okay, how can I attract a girl that I'm not her type if you're not her type You don't have to try and become her type I guarantee you your type is the most attractive thing that you can be stop trying to be somebody else and You'll attract the girls that you want. Okay now You might think that you got to be somebody else for this one particular person But you'd be surprised girls always say they have a type of data boot different guy. Okay How to stop watching porn the way to stop watching porn is you want to create a different habit? To do something else that gives you pleasure You're probably watching porn at boredom because you're sad and because you're not getting outside You're gonna do and shit. Okay, so find ways to satisfy those things and the porn usage will go down And there's also the things you can watch gross videos online There's this one type of fish that looks like a penis. I forget what it's called But I watched a bunch of videos where that was getting cut up and it made me not want to jerk off for a long time Okay, cool, is it strange to DM a girl you barely know not if you connect over something like a shared interest Or you have a usual friend Starting with those things means for a very good DM. This is something that I talk about in the chase program So if you guys want to access to what you want to learn how to actually get girls chase you rather than you chase them I recommend that you text the number in the description box below because that's the program that I'm doing right now That'll be the best thing for you. Okay Girl stop messaging should I double text you can double text a girl It is possible, but it depends how she stopped texting you I just double texted the girl yesterday and we're going out to dinner my day We're going out for food in a couple hours All right, I double texted her because she was sick and I knew she was like feeling ill and maybe she missed the message Okay, I know this girl likes me I knew it wasn't a big deal if you asked a question like hey Do you want to meet up and then afterwards you asked are you there? Question mark that's not a good double text to send. She's probably not going to respond to that or if she does You just blew your chance. Okay. Most of the time don't double text All right Had to text the girl or hook up. Okay, that was too quick. These things are coming at too fast What do you think about picking up girls in the gym? You want to pick up a girl in the gym guys? The best way that you want to do it is you want to ask her you want to do it slowly It's not like walking up to a girl in the gym where you just walk up and you're like, yo What's going on? Let me get that phone number. That might work at a bar or something like that But it's not going to really work when you're walking into a gym environment It's going to be weird So what you want to do instead is you want to walk up and talk to them and just ask them like I don't see start with like what exercise they're doing, you know, if they work out here a lot Just generally get to know them So that way you're seeing them a few times and then maybe when they're heading to your car You bring up the fact that like hey, you're doing something this week and ask them But they're up to and they're inviting to it. Okay You want it's the slow thing in the gym if you get the phone number immediately and try and pick them up It just it ruins everything. It doesn't work that much and if it does and you want to date with them It's awkward. Then you've got to find new time to work out Okay All right, these are going way too fast. Should I hook up without worrying about dating? I want serious relationships If you want a serious relationship, you need to do other things with that person besides without with them So this is something that I actually talk about in the chase program too, man I think that's the best way to hook up with somebody instead of activities that you guys can do together That's not necessarily you two hooking up. You know me and my ex we used to do puzzles together You know, we used to play words with words with friends Like we had stuff that we like to do that wasn't just us hooking up And I think that that's the fun thing that you guys can do Plan activities do things every single week and you need a girl from that way I'll teach you how to get activities in the chase program. Okay What is a good date idea without drinks or a bar? Okay a good day idea would be a physical activity You know, I like inviting girls to mini golf. I like inviting girls You can go on a hike if you want to be like, you know, kind of basic Um, but there's a lot of things that you can do. I even invite girls over to cook a meal and then eat it. All right Um, you go and go for tea. You just want to sit down and talk But find out what her interests are Why don't the stuff that she likes to do and then I would spend a little bit of time talking with her to make Sure that she's a cool person and then do that activity I don't really go on dates with people that I know are going to be like that I'm not sure Okay This physical touch always mean attraction Physical touch most of the time means attraction people generally don't have people they're not into however There are some women that aren't very touchy really and that's just who they are and they're kind of affectionate everybody Now does this mean they don't like you? No, it doesn't mean they don't like you, but it doesn't mean that they're super into you So for super extra bird women, I would say It's 50 50, but for 90% of the women out there if she's touching you from the view Stop cannot be flirty or escalation on first date because they're not wanting a second date You can't be absolutely physically escalating on the first date the last Pretty much every first date that I've had was ended in sex the only one that didn't end in sex Which we didn't have a place to do it How to gain when you don't speak the same language when you don't speak the same language A good way to talk to a girl is with pictures and gestures So I you know I slept with women all over the world Asia, Europe, South America, I speak Spanish, so it's South American or EU for me But in Asia there was some girl that I went out with like I really couldn't understand at all Or some European countries where I couldn't understand them at all And so I just basically like use my phone or I use other devices to like talk with them I showed them like my Instagram pictures and shit like that And it's like giggle and every point and you try certain things You know dance like get good with your physicality as well too You know it doesn't mean groping them, but it just means like you know using gestures and stuff like that Okay, she was sending choosing signals, but stopped after two weeks Should I ask her out if she stopped sending choosing signals? It probably means it's not into you So I would try and re-engage the conversation and see if she gives you those signals again then ask her out Okay, what to do if she touches you if she touches you, you know, there's probably keep talking to her Probably means she likes you I talk all about how physically escalate with somebody in the chase program And if you're interested in that just send a text message in the description box below to that number That is my number and we can talk so if you have Issue with that which he touches you like don't just stand there like oh my god, you know be into it Like maybe you can look like you can touch her back like it's okay. Like just be cool All right We hooked up. She calls me every day. I don't that's not a question How to be dominant in a relationship? Okay, you don't want to be dominant all the time In fact, there's sometimes well quite submissive in a relationship But generally speaking the guy is of one pushing the relationship forward I'm not saying that this women don't push the relationship forward But the masculine feminine connection is the man leads in the woman follows So you have to have something to lead them towards like a goal a purpose A reason for you guys to hang out every single week if you're not doing that then she's probably going to find someone who will give her that Okay How can I differentiate from the rest of the guys she's talking to I don't know what guys she's talking to But I can guarantee you if you try and be like the other guys You're not going to be like you're not going to be unique and if you look at yourself I can almost guarantee you you are a unique person Trying to be somebody else is going to make you the least unique possible But embracing who you are and that weakness that stilliness that you got That's what makes you into who you are and I think that's something that you should be Embracing and learning how to control and showing rather than hiding. So that's how you be unique A girl is afraid to get into a relationship. What do I do? Okay, she's afraid for specific reasons. Maybe she's been hurt in the past Maybe she doesn't want to get with a guy like you because he's afraid you're going to sleep with her and leave her They give her some time spend more time with her as soon as she gets comfortable with you then it'll be okay But if you just immediately want a relationship, then it's not going to work out Okay, it's someone to take longer than others, especially the young girls Am I annoying her when? When when I always initiate um usually not if she initiates back you're usually not Okay, um, but if she's taking longer to respond You know, she's kind of drifting out and I would you know think about if you're going to initiate again But if she's responding and she's doing it, you know consistently a good time And she's asking you questions, which I absolutely keep initiating women want you to initiate What to do is she is giving one word replies if she's giving one word replies, um, that usually means that She is Not interested, but I haven't able to turn one word replies around the girls that are like kind of young or just talking on a dating app um, just work out for a little bit Ask for questions and if she continues to do the one word answer move on and play somebody else All right, best way to hook up slash connect slash talk with the girl in the club. Okay club game is Unknown it's very loud music. There's a lot of gestures a lot of drug use So the best the best way to get laid in the club honestly is to like use your body dance be silly be ridiculous. Okay, and then you You can physically escalate pretty quickly in the club. So you want to see how they behave when you touch them Let's see how they behave when you get up close. They're cool with it in the down Then basically you're good to go like, you know, the club people make out in seconds so like that's something that's definitely possible not possible in some somewhere else, but um, you know See how they behave when you're very close to them. They're like drawn to it or they pull away And then you can initiate from there Any point in trying to get back with your ex-girlfriend? Yeah, there is a point if you feel like that would be a good match Me and my ex, you know, I could get back together with her if I wanted to there are times where I do want to But I knew it's not the best thing. You know, I would broke up with her for a reason. I broke up with her for Um, you know, good reasons reasons that I don't think they're going to be solved Certainly not now and certainly not for a while. So, you know, if I did get back together whether we probably have the same problems So don't do it because of ego. Don't do it because you can do it because it's the right thing Can you hook up if you hate bars? um And someone says male best friend, I don't know what that question means just expand on it a little bit in line Um, can you hook up if you hate bars? Yeah, you can absolutely hook up But you need to find other ways to do it, you know, my recommendation would be to find other events in the parks But, you know, it's going to take some meeting up and if there's no alcohol involved, it will take a little longer Typically, but um, yeah, it's absolutely possible. That's exactly what I talk about in the chase program It's like how worry, you know, be greater regularly meeting girls, which you like Um, and you can hook up with them and you can date them and do whatever you want But my guess is if you need to go a real life, if you're really having sex with her, you probably want to have sex Okay My girl's too friendly with her co-worker. Should I be worried? Um You might want to be worried, but uh, you getting on her about it is not going to make your suspicions better Okay, if she does something that's not okay Just say just say what you're insecure about and don't pester her about it If she keeps doing it, you have to decide if you want to be with that person or not But she's not respecting your wishes How should I react if I ran into my ex to hurt me bad? If you ran into your ex and hurt you bad, um What you want to do is you want to be friendly nice, but don't Spend any more time with him than we have to if they've hurt you for a reason Then chances are you spending more time with them is going to make it more difficult for you to move on So I would try and remove yourself from that situation and uh, go talk to somebody else Okay, out of the way hit up a girl. I went to elementary school. I'm 28 Honestly talk about super weird silly thing that you guys did in class. That's uh, That's the best way of doing it. Okay What about replicating the guys just slept with them on a first On a first date. No, don't try and replicate people man Like you want to be your own self like that's what I talk about in the chase program If you look at my description Like the chase program is designed to teach you how to be your own self So you can attract the girls that are going to be naturally attracted to you Like like the way that you want to attract women is it shouldn't feel like a lot of work It should feel like they're not caring about the results But you're getting all like it's 20% of the effort 80% of the results Okay, like once I learned how to do this like I got I got laid way more with way less effort hotter girls So if you want to know about more about the chase program look at the uh, Message in the description box below. Um, obviously it's not like free. This is not a coaching program I don't do any like personal fixing for free. Um, but if you want to be interested in learning more about that I highly recommend that you check that out. Okay All right, she likes me but afraid to confess All right, don't make her confess. So pay attention to her actions. Don't worry about her confessing A guy who needs the girl to say it, you know, you're probably being a little insecure yourself Okay, how to make your worth, uh, don't know what that means. She likes me You already said that. Um What to do if she wants a three-way that's up to you bro If she wants a three-way and you're down with that shit go for it Now is it with two guys or is it with two girls with the two girls? I don't know why you're asking a question like that. My guess is is with two guys. If you're not down with it, don't do it Okay What should I do if I can't approach any girl because I'm too shy if you're too shy There are things that you can do to improve your shyness walk up and talk to just anybody Okay, or just start by saying hi smile Don't worry about talking to a hot girl at your life because that's too big of a step You're going to mess it up. Yeah, so um talk that somewhere lower when you're on strangers You don't care about that much, but you just being friendly with Okay, how to be yourself Um, that's a really broad question What you want to do is you write want to write down the things that you like doing and do those things man You know be proud of yourself I think we hide who we are because we're scared or we're not confident now if you Look at it in a way where you're like, hey, you know, I enjoy being myself I enjoy being who I am and I'm gonna go for it. Then that's what I want you to do So remind yourself of the things that you like doing those things She calls me every day after we looked up. Okay. Um, she's obviously really into you If you're not into this girl just say, hey, I'm already looking for a relationship right now And I feel this is where we're going and I feel like that's what you want So ask her what she wants. Ask her what she's looking for first and then tell her what you want I'll take talking stage for more than Six years, I think you're gonna find another girl or maybe six months. You're in the talking stage for six months Um, yeah, you gotta move on another girl. We will meet up with you in person. We'll be just talking That's you know, I shouldn't progress brother um She gets jealous on other girls. Okay She gets jealous on other girls, but she says she considers me as a friend um So you want to put yourself in position where You know, you can you know, she's treating you more as like a romantic partner So practice leading practice taking her out. Um, and Ask as if that you guys are dating but you know, don't say it and see if she reacts to that if she reacts well to that Then you know, that's something that you can basically take into account Like this girl likes you once you do your boyfriend or she wants you to date her. Um, you don't have to always go by her words I also Uh, not worry about the fact that the girl didn't want to kiss. Yeah, I mean I there's plenty of times Girl girls don't want to kiss but if you're the kind of guy who is going to be upset about it Then she's probably not gonna miss you like when I used to go out all the time There'd be plenty of times where I would try and kiss a girl and she wouldn't be down Pretty much every time I try and kiss a girl now She's ready because like I know what to look for but um, and I wait a little longer But like back then I used to get rejected all the time I would try and kiss a girl and she'd be like, no, no, no, and then the fourth time I would kiss her. So don't don't sweat it, man It's not that hard Girl texts a lot, but sometimes doesn't respond. Okay. Yeah, I mean you're dealing with a girl who's got a lot of options Probably is you know, she likes to be on her phone and she's got a lot of stuff happening on her plate It's up to you if you want to keep messaging her but you know, I will try and invite her out of you The other person so if you pay next year, okay Um Anything you would have done differently on your journey. Okay. Great question. Zach. That's a great question So I would have done probably more Uh group activities and associated more than like getting to bring people together I focus way too much on picking up girls at like bars The cold approach scenario. I think that kind of behavior was probably Not the best thing you can't get the hottest It's so difficult to get the hottest girl if I just pick up You need to do the things that I'm talking about in the chase program Which is learning how to bring people to like a container event organizing the funnel Those kinds of things that really allow you to get the girls that you want in your life They're going to be the best for you and ultimately it's going to once you set this up It's going to be the best life for you. So I wish I had done that more if I could change anything What do you do if her sister kissed you? Oh my goodness Aaron, what's going on, buddy? Uh, her sister kisses you and you kissed her back during a little bit of a pickle man So you get a site if you want to talk about that my guess is like You know at some point they might talk about it. So I would get ahead of that before it happens, but You know, it depends how it happens. So like just just be prepared for Be prepared for a tough talk Okay, uh, invite her to go out but didn't respond. Okay, if you invite her to go out and she didn't respond You can maybe try one more time if you want to but honestly, I would just move on um I have fun and jokie conversation with crush, but she doesn't talk over the phone. How do I take Take it to phone calls Okay, the way you take a ticket to a phone call is honestly just by calling build up some momentum over text And the way you can do that is by you know, you can text them to be even send voice messages And they get used to hearing your voice There's a lot of things that you can do the work of like intermediary steps for a phone call. Okay um What to do if a girl is always postponing meeting need due to cobit Okay, cobit at this point is just to pop out if they're not down and meet other people like just move on And find somebody who will like at this point that's sort of a good excuse Unless you're in one of those european countries Which I think they still have restrictions on people how to make her the changes you make in your personality What how to hook up with girls with protective brothers okay, um Shit man. I mean you gotta win over the brothers, but honestly you're probably wasting your time We're just not gonna like you so uh, you just need to spend more time with them What is the best way to use a female friend as a wing? Okay, if you want to use a female friend as a wing like don't hang out with her a whole bunch Don't be old buddy buddy with them It's better if you're in a group of like three people and then one of them's a girl Because then they can like tell that you guys are different If it's just the two of you going out it almost never works It's all the girls think you are together Okay, just what they assume and then if they're like you guys aren't together and just kind of hook you up They think there's something wrong Where do you find girls that's exactly something that I talk about in the chaise program Uh, I highly recommend that you get that and talk about the hottest places to meet women These are places where it's like highest quality girls and also highest chance of getting It's not the places that you think I'm very specific about it So write down the places that you think you would do well in Write down some of your interests that you like doing and go for those Because like ultimately that's where you're going to be the most attractive Even if it doesn't have the most women in there You'll always be the most attractive in that position and if there are women there they will be attractive to you So find some places that are good and then figure out something that you like doing as well What to do when there's bad communications because of mine and girlfriends I don't know what that said Since bad communication, just ask the question. Hey, what can I do more to support you? What can I do more to improve this relationship? Okay, how to deal with her male best friend? Deal with her male best friend honestly if a guy's just her male best friend and she's hanging out with him All of a sudden we decided we wanted to be in that relationship But if she's picking him over you then just let him be if you guys are together I wouldn't be too frightened about him because typically that guy's almost never gonna get laid She's not attracted to him. How can I find a high value woman? The way you want to find a high value woman is go by some of the places that I talk about in the chase program You know I talk about a lot of different places that you guys can go to so in the description box below If you want you want to text me If you're interested in the program, I would just text that number So basically the places that I would go for like the highest quality women charity events Like classy hotel bars What else, you know, if you want to go to a high-end gym Like an equinox or an orange theory. Yeah, I mean those are some great spots Okay My girl talks a lot with her weed plug. Should I be worried? Yeah, probably you should be worried. She's talking a lot with her weed blood, you know, don't don't like Don't pester her about it. Just let her do her own thing But pay attention to how she's paying attention to you. She's paying attention to you If he's always on her phone, she's texting that guy, you know, just let her go for that guy It's probably what she wants cool A girl ghosts me on ig but talks to big game in person She's probably just getting a lot of messages trying to meet up with her or make plans and or invite her to Something and see if she comes out. I mean, that's if she doesn't do that then yeah move on My girls, okay How to know if she is good enough for you The way you know if she's good enough for you is she fits into your life So you want to have the life that you really want to live it and if she fits in great If she doesn't then you might want to find something that does fit into your life Okay, so that's what I do with the girls that I date, you know, if they're convenient for me But if they're with them, if they're an inconvenience for me, they're not with them But you know, it's not why I'm that's why I'm not with my ex She was an inconvenience for me as much as I love her as much as we got along with each other It was inconvenience for what I'm trying to do. So you got to figure out of something Looks well in your life. Okay How's it get rid of ghosting after getting number? Okay, you can't get rid of ghosting completely But you can do it by actually making plans and having a solid interaction with the phone number I talk about how to basically get a girl's phone number and almost always guarantee That she will text you back once you get that phone number. It's in the chase program So if you're interested in that, take a look at the description box below and text that number saying I'm in Okay Lloyd, hope you'll see this. All right. That's too long if you're texting something. That's like four Like lines long or five lines long. I'm not going to read it. It's gotta be shorter Is it worth when we don't when we chase a girl in the beginning of a relationship? I don't know that means yet. You're gonna have to put in a little work for the girls that you like, man My crush thinks I am a playboy. What do I do? Let her think that you're a playboy, but you're really into her Women like playboys. Okay. That's why they're playboys All right, so let her think that it's fine But let her know that she's the most special girl out there With longtime boyfriend will flirt hold my hand with her boyfriend around should I pursue? How should I? Jesus, I don't know what that means um Okay She flirts when she's around her boyfriend That's what you mean by that if she flirts while she's around her boyfriend um Dude, I wouldn't go for that man. Like that girl's trouble by someone who is going to be flirting with you You know really like girls like that. They're just they're the worst Uh, what to what do you do when the girl you like is not ready for love? You know, she's not ready for love. You can't marry her But what you can do is you can't make her feel comfortable to feel love Essentially what people mean is they're not ready to feel love is because they don't feel comfortable around that person Uh, or maybe they just haven't built up enough attraction for you yet. So, um, I think that once you do those things you should be fine Okay We have very interesting conversations that we don't want to end the one we say by she never looks for me I don't know what that means. Like if she's not giving you something that you want Um, maybe talk to her about it and if she still won't give it to you then find someone who will uh How to make process of moving on easy So what I want you to do is if you you know been into a girl and I'm doing this with my ex right now I'm writing all the things that I don't like about her on a notepad to reinforce negativity So I don't miss her and when I do that I basically think okay I look at all the bad times or how she's behaving or you know All the things that I couldn't do when I was with her and I have that directly on my phone And I look at that whenever I'm sad or whenever I miss her or whenever I think about her Um, it's good that and that helps Okay, can a girl like you just from looks absolutely, you know, there's plenty of women who liked my type And they've gotten really good at reason. Uh, there's also plenty of women who didn't like my type But they got to know me and you know, that's what they liked about me. So it really depends Um, yeah, both things work What if girl disrespect you all the time the girl disrespects you all the time while you're hanging around her Hang out with somebody who will expect you Okay, um Advise people that work six days a week from home How do you make a bunch of things? If you work if you have a busy work schedule and you're wondering how you can still get girls Like you've got to sign up for my chase program because I teach you exactly how to plan your week around With a busy schedule So if you have a busy schedule and you feel like you don't have time to be chatting with women or you know Going on dates or whatever. This is the exact program for you. So take a look at the description box There is a number in there. I want you to text that number And uh, tell me you're interested in the chase program. Just say I'm in or something like that or let's talk Okay Which girls are no go for sex the girls that are no go for sex Typically are Girls that are not down to touch you. They're not down with like goals and they're not down to be in your space Um, and they generally like are not doing the physical things with you if they're not doing that And they're probably not down. However, there's some time where a girl's still shy Is like P&A. So if that's happening that she's following you and she's taking you to meet that girl wants to see you Now whether she will or not that night. I don't know, but she definitely likes you. She definitely wants you Okay, is it okay to see my girlfriend only once a week? Yeah, it absolutely is if that's the relationship that you guys have Talk about it. Talk about that with her and figure out how much she wants to see you Um, and then come to an agreement. Yeah, open communication. Great She enjoys my affection towards her but won't commit to a relationship Uh, what do I do when my girl is too close with her male best friend emotionally? Um, bring that up say just ask her, you know, it's you know What kind of relationship is just say it makes you feel a little bit insecure and you know Ask her if there's anything that You know, she's missing from your relationship that she feels like she needs to do that Um, and you know, she's not going to be satisfied where he is to find someone who isn't doing that Shit, you know, if she has a male best friend and you guys are boyfriend and girlfriend and that person isn't you That's a huge red flag What do I do when the girl is too close? Yeah, okay. Hi, sir. Whenever I talk to a girl. I lose Conference what to do. Okay. So if you lose confidence when you talk to a girl What you want to do is you want to just focus on things that you can do Can you can you have a conversation? Can you get out there without shitting your pants? What was the small things and work out from there? Okay, how to restart conversation with a girl after not talking in months You know, uh, that's a tricky one You know, if you haven't talked to her for a while, I would just bring up something A shared interest or something that you had and then ask them how they do You know, like you want to bring up something that's in a peak or interest But if you just say hey, how's it going like that might work, but you know, it'd be better if you had maybe you guys both maybe you met at um You know, I don't know if it's your moral soccer game or something like that He takes the picture of a soccer ball and like you send that to her Um, you know, that could be something that's about something that you had in the past and that will motivate her to respond Okay, I am in the same class with my ex-girlfriend and can't move on. What should I do? Um Yeah, I mean, that's a tough one, buddy. You're in your excellent the class from your ex-girlfriend um, I would try not to look at her I would try to talk to her and um You know try and move on that way but that does suck How to not be afraid of losing your girlfriend if you're afraid about losing your girlfriend It means that other parts of your life aren't that great Okay, it means you're too dependent upon her. Okay when I lost my girlfriend I was not afraid to lose her because my other parts of my life were pretty good. Um Now I don't know missing her later on because those parts I almost said I've been losing those parts But um, if the other parts of your life are in check, you know, you shouldn't be that devastating after a breakup Yes, it'll stop. It'll be sad. But you know, if the other parts of your life are up there, then um, you know, I definitely think that that's That's a good place to be How do you know if she is not playing you if she's not playing you she will come to you, you know And I mean physically like she will come towards you but she will want to be in the same position as you She won't spend time with you. She will give you attention. She's not doing that She's only giving you a little bit. She's trying to give you as much as you can out of you That's how you know, she's gonna be using you Okay, she's afraid of relationship what to do bro. You've asked this question a number of times and uh, I'm not gonna answer any more because I've answered it three times Okay, does stuttering problem have an effect in asking girls out? Yes, the stuttering will you know affect you? But you know, I would recommend that you just speak a little bit slower Okay Can I do love again? Uh, yeah, absolutely. Just give it time man, you know, sometimes you get a little hard broken I'm a little hard broken right now. You know, I love the girl that I was with I'm not with her anymore Now she's up doing your own thing and it hurts but the time heals all wounds and you will get better What to do if the curl the girl keeps canceling plans Uh, the last last time last minute. Um, find another girl bro. I really can't stand that she will cancel the last minute They better apologize for it and find a new time. But if they don't fuck that I'm out Um anything I can do to make her interested in me. Um, yeah be yourself, dude Be yourself show interest and see where the ships, you know, see where the ships lie. That's all you can do Um split with my girlfriend. Okay. I've been rejected about 15 times in my life. What should I be looking for? I want to see my life change Robert Mueller. You can reject it 15 times. I've been rejected 15,000 times, bro Like I can't count the number of times I've been rejected But that's the reason why I succeed because I try if you're not If you're if you're too scared to try again and again, then you will be successful plan something Okay, when she gives you mixed signals Um, if she's giving you mixed signals, that's usually the message the message is mixed signals That means sometimes she wants you sometimes she doesn't you gotta decide if you're down for that shit If you're not down for that shit find someone who's giving you more consistent signals. Okay Is too much attention that uh, yeah, so much attention can be done with the wrong kind of attention Can be bad so here if you're giving you too much attention It means you're not focusing on other things You probably don't have a whole lot going on for you Which is a bad sign for women, but if you do have stuff going on then they want as much attention as they can get out of you Um She said she felt bad for not hanging out. Should I reschedule? Yeah, try and reschedule, but if you try to make plans with her twice and she's canceled by me twice I would just find somebody who won't uh anything Okay, how To go about approaching a co-worker Only a summer job. So not that deep. Yeah, I would invite her to something that you and your friends are doing Or you unless your co-workers are doing could be happy hour after work Could be like, I don't know you guys don't have a parlayer or whatever I don't know what job you have or how old you are But something outside of work with the rest of the co-workers or something with your friends Would be a good place to start because you know, that's like where people are You know, that's a more platonic way of kind of working the way into a game scenario Now if it's a job that's long like your corporate environment, I would just recommend you don't date your co-worker Okay, what would be your advice to somebody who rarely talks to girls get out there and start talking to girls Like you rarely talk to girls. So you're nervous about doing it. It's not that hard Just get out there and do it. Don't put any expectations on yourself and expect any results If you start expecting results, you won't reach those results. So just be free and talk with them and then get used to that Okay all right Best dating apps and equals that aren't seeking validation probably hinge is the best app right now But honestly hinge is like not doing that much for me at the moment I'm trying to advocate other apps that are out there. I think most people are meeting the person right now So I would recommend that you don't do that um Okay, when you step back she steps back. All right. Well then Hassan don't step back show consistent interest and she will show consistent interest It sounds like you're kind of dosy building around this either go go for it Try and ask around trying better to make plans with you or don't do anything at all. It's really that simple What's the best way to be persistent and not need to be a girl who initially showed attraction But it's now ignoring you okay if she's ignoring you it doesn't matter That's the answer she was trying to do at one point now. She's not just probably just some other guy Honestly, that's usually what happens when a girl disappears So if that's the case then you know talk to somebody else How to show yourself as a playboy WTS mentality I don't know what that means How to get dates when you're living with your parents. So if you're living with your parents You can go outside of your parents house And do that so you can date outside of your parents house All right, or find somebody with a place or get a car that you guys can hook up with You don't have any of those things Get a hotel right that's your only option You got to have something where you guys can fucking because you know, if you're like me and you were hoping up with tons of girls Where you're living with your parents my car got a lot of work their place got a lot of work Um, you know, I definitely had sex in bathrooms or two my buddy's place like there's not so many areas Should I chase a girl in first days? Um, I don't know what you mean by chase But you can pursue that's for sure if you like her Keep texting her. How do you stay motivated if you keep getting flaked on if you keep getting flaked on You're probably doing something wrong, but don't take it too personally. My guess is you're trying to organize dates That's why I have this chase program is basically to eliminate this whole frustration Like the way most people go about dating is wrong If you want to learn a better way of doing it and that involves not going on as many dates It's about planning events having a funnel system that you can actually use that's going to be good for your life Whether the girls are in or not so the girls are great if they're not not a big deal Okay, so I would recommend that you join the chase program There's a link in the description box You see a phone number right there. Just send me a text message saying you're interested. Uh, we'll get talking Okay, um, Hassan You got to find another girl, man You got to find another girl. She has a boyfriend. It's just for you to find another girl. Don't ask me another question about this girl Okay, uh, what should you do when a girl always asks to hang out but is never available? Okay, um Yeah, she's playing games with you if she's doing that, you know, I really don't have any tolerance for girls like that Then basically you find a girl who will um meet up with you but she ignores you that's the message Okay, she came for the first time dude. Don't read this But how should I be towards her? Well, I already read it, dude, so we'll be on that. Um, Yeah, be cool Be cool or freak out. It's fine Uh, what's your view on fresh and fit? I don't know what that is Uh, what do you think about being me as a way of flirting? You can only be mean if it's not being So you can tease you can have fun. You can be playful But for the love of god, don't actually be mean to that person, you know, like being mean is not something that Being me is not something that gets you what gets wanted attracted to you. Um, but being cocky you will How do you approach a girl with with her group of friends? Um, if you're approaching a girl in a group of friends I try and slip them up a little bit if it's too big and they're all they're all like We've already been all talking to each other. I don't even I don't even get involved with that But if they're kind of spread out in the mix then I would try and come in and just talk to a few of them because Like if you try and talk to the whole group at the same time, that almost never works Okay, um What should I say to a girl if I approach her in daytime? Do you have a universal opener? My universal opener is I walk up to her and I was like, hey, what's up? My name is more. I just saw you over here. I get pretty cool. I thought I come say hi How's your day going? I just go right into that super simple Um, you know, if you see you observe something about her, um, you see anything that you can comment on then? Yeah, I'll go for that Will this be uploaded to youtube? Uh, I'm not sure probably not Can you make another video about getting over somebody? Yeah, absolutely. I can definitely do that I'm getting over somebody right now. So that'll be a really personal topic. It'll get close to home But um, you know generally you want to like write down the negative things about that person remind yourself Um Any tips on being single? Well, you're talking to you're talking to a guy who runs the single guy channel So obviously I know a thing or two about being single You want to have to be more social you have a more social life and take care of those things And I think that's going to be a lot for you a lot of good. Okay Best way to stand up for yourself the best way to stand up for yourself Is to not let people push you around and you know have them tell you what to do But you want to do the things that you want to do without being subject to other people Okay, you guys so I got five minutes left So whatever questions I answer right now will be it again If you want to get more information about how to get girls to chase you This is the three month program that so many people have come through that are going to Right now like I got a guy who when he first started the program wasn't sleeping with any girls Now he's sleeping with like six and he's figuring out which one of the hot girls He wants to make a girlfriend, you know that was at the start of the program now the end of the program I got another guy who came into the program with like literally no experience He had only been on three dates his entire life and he's in his 30s and now he's got more dates than you He's got girls hitting him up from like Forward work through all of his got hundreds of messages. Okay, so these are all things that can happen to you if you join the program All right now, um, you're gonna have to text me There's a number in the description box but text that number and you'll basically get access to me that's my phone number But only text if you're interested. I'm only gonna take guys that are actually serious about this Okay, obviously it's not free it's approaching programs and take a look at the price and see if that's within your ballpark range Even if you think that might be steep we can talk Okay, um Do you ever consider giving a second chance to a girl you really like? Yeah, absolutely people mess up. I get second chances to people all the time You know, but like I don't go out of my way and give I don't sacrifice a whole bunch to give them a second chance If they want to come with me and hang out with me, then that's cool if they don't then I'm more than happy to go someplace else Um, how do you feel about kevin samuels ideas? I don't know who kevin samuels is, but I'd be curious to know me and the girl went to a dog park and had a good time Was it a date? um I wouldn't worry about whether it was a date or not. Just worry about how you like her and how she likes you um, and then you know Figure out what you want to do in the future No problem son Sir wish day you're available for live q&a. Um, I might start doing this regularly. I might not we'll see I was having some technology issues before so Yeah, we'll see. I might make this a regular thing and we'll see if we can get more people on I want to do the thing where you can actually pay for questions because like that will weed out a lot of the people that are just like Clogging a chat, you know, I think it's people that are actually serious I mean five dollars isn't gonna do anything for my business, but you know, it just weeds out people that are just here to waste my time Okay, should I be worried about my height? I'm five five No, do you don't worry about your height? But do other things to be attractive, you know, like obviously Stats show that women prefer taller men But that doesn't mean that women won't get shorter guys Most of the women that I know have dated a guy shorter than them And the only thing that they thought was worse about it was if the guy was insecure about it The guy was secure about it They had no problem with it But if he was insecure about it and they did, you know, I have a guy who's five five and who dates women that are initially like way taller than them like models and uh, he doesn't even have a social circle. So he does really well What do you think of longest-distance relationships that the longest-distance relationship only work if you have a time period Where you're gonna meet up again, you don't have a time period where you're gonna meet up again That's not a real relationship um Okay Been going on dates, but none of them are as good as acts of struggle to move on and keep thinking about her What should I do? I mean, I'm in the same fucking boat like, you know, you're gonna go through some times We're gonna miss your acts like for me when I go on a date. It's just like kind of whatever It's not as good as it would be with my ex, but there's a chance that it might be in the future So, you know pick the girls that you're talking to that are the best and eventually time will do it as well Um, she doesn't want to have sex should I pursue if she doesn't want to have sex with you Either she's against sex or either she's against you either way. I'm not She doesn't Okay How much stock do you put in girls sending you snaps on an interest level from them? I don't Honestly guys, I don't fuck with snapchat. I think it's annoying I think it's an easy way for girls to go to you if a girl's only willing to send you a snapchat I'm not talking to that girl. That's just me personally. Now. Can you get laid off a snapchat? Absolutely, but if the girl sends me a snap, I mean, it's not that hard for her to send out 40 other guys. So like I don't really care Um Do you have an instagram? Yes, I do have an instagram if you look in my description box below My instagram is right there if you want to take a look at my life and the kind of stuff that I do I'd recommend you take a look at it. Okay What happened to my ear? Oh, yeah, I was uh, I was doing jiu-jitsu. So I have a little cauliflower ear I forgot to mention that It's a little fucked up right now. So uh, like they're trying to fix it, but it's still blowing up again Okay, what do you do when you can't get over your ex? I've answered this question a million times Um, but basically you want to write down all your all of your negative qualities Okay, uh, like I said you guys I have an instagram. It's a dot single dot die Um, that's my username you can find a link to it in the description box click on the description box Look on the link to my instagram. Follow me Um How long before girl meets her parents and it depends, you know, I met my ex's parents pretty quickly But there was a situation that dictated it was friendly. I didn't pretend like I was her boyfriend or anything I was just there to support her. Um, and then I met her a day later. So, you know those things My girlfriend told me she can't love anyone should I believe it or you think she's bored of me Um, she's just being dramatic. She absolutely can't love somebody. Maybe she's hurt maybe She's not attracted to you for whatever reason if she's not attracted to you Don't sweat it man. Like these things can change, you know, they've changed. It's like anything else But don't try and force it on her and sometimes you might have to let her go and let her come back How do you find cool places? You got to go out and I would definitely get my program chase So you want access to it? There is a link to my phone number You know text that number say hey, I'm interested in chase Make sure you're okay with the price or if you can get close to it That's something that we can talk about. But yeah, if you're interested in that, you can take a look And that's all the time that I have you guys Um It was good talking to you. I think I'm going to do these more often. This is a full hour So if you didn't get your question answered, I would highly recommend you go on the next one or I do Monthly training. So there's a monthly training where I do where I talk about specific subjects But you will have to register for those trains. So if you do, um, You know, we will talk then and otherwise I will see you guys soon Actually