 live from my hotel room, this beautiful four-star hotel, just relaxed in this evening, just ordered room service as I haven't eaten all day, been very busy traveling but I had to take some time out for this video, it's a very big topic but I haven't talked too much about this before but here we go, in the end this happens to the narcissist, the narcissist throughout their life, they go from one person to the next, one place to the next, one job to the next, it's just one thing to the next and they take things from different people, different places, things that they steal or they deceive you to get it and they accumulate all of this stuff, stuff that doesn't even belong to them, stuff that they don't appreciate, stuff that doesn't mean anything to them and no matter what they obtain, they still feel empty inside because they haven't really learned anything, that's the thing when we obtain things in life whether it's success or power whatever it is, it's the lessons along the way that's what really matters, it's the things that we learn and I can say that from my own experience, being a YouTuber, putting out these videos, doing coaching sessions, what matters most is not the money that I earned from it, the success, even this hotel room, these Ray Bands, this gold chain, this Imani t-shirt, these Imani shoes or whatever else that I have, none of that is not really important, it doesn't make me feel whole inside, it just makes me feel empty or at least it would if I didn't have everything that I've learned along the way, the experience and knowing that I've made a difference in people's lives because I've given something to all of you, I've given you strength, I've given you power, I've given you my experience, I've given you something to value and in exchange I get something to value as well, I get your recognition, your validation, feeling like we're on the same page, feeling like I'm not alone in this, so I learn lessons from you as well when you share your experiences with me, so we gain something from each other, there's a mutual exchange and equal exchange of value, there's reciprocation but there isn't that with the narcissist, they're just consuming everything all of the time, they're not giving anything back to anyone, like I said you always know who the narcissist is because they leave with a lot more than they came in with while the victim leaves with a lot less and yeah that's just it, so when you look at that you should already know how things end up for them in the end, of course they will end up alone and until that point they will be surrounded by people who are just as fake as them, manipulators, people who deceive or enablers, fools, people who don't know what they're really about and in the end they are destined to end up alone and miserable but up until that point they will never find satisfaction in anything in their lives and the reason for that is because it's so empty and I can say that from my own experience when I first became successful on YouTube and of course I'm not a narcissist so I wasn't that way for a long time but in the beginning I guess I was kind of excited when I started to earn money and I could do all of these things that I couldn't do before but made me happy