 Do you find a friend irresistible and always fond to be with? Most of us have such people in our lives who we just love to hang out with. At the mention of their names, we know we just want them to be around for that party or that beach trip because they have qualities about them that make them so attractive. If you're not already like that, my guess is you would like to become more attractive. In this video, I'll be sharing with you 15 things that make you attractive. 1. Confidence. You know you're talented and you're not afraid to admit it. It's not pride, it's just knowing you're worth and owning up to it. When someone gives you a compliment about your sexy eyes, you're not afraid to admit the compliment. It's not a bad thing to admit you're skillful or talented. People are naturally attracted to confident people. A 2013 study revealed that confidence is the most attractive quality a person can have. This is true because confident people know their worth, they are comfortable in their own skin and they are not afraid to make decisions or take responsibility. Confident people never doubt their choices, they never crawl into the dark because of some failure in their past decisions. Usually, confident people are assured in themselves and do not need you to assure them. It's just natural that when such people walk into the room, head stern, they have strong charisma and can be easy to get along with. It is this confidence that makes them attractive. 2. Generosity. People are equally drawn to persons who give with their whole heart. So obviously, selfishness repulses, but generosity attracts. By being generous, you show to others that you care about them and you're genuinely interested in them. And people are naturally interested in those who are interested in them, caring enough for them to go out of their ways to do something generous for them. Being generous means you're not just about yourself, you care about people around you and not absorbed in your issues and your own life alone. 3. Humor. When you're going through your worst times and you have a friend who can create positive vibes and humor out of your chaos, it's just natural that you're attracted to such a person. Next time you're in trouble, you know whom you will call. In your relationship with another person, one thing is sure. Humor strengthens that relationship. Over time, humor becomes one of the best qualities that keep the bond in your relationship with your partner when the good looks fade away. 4. Availability. A 2016 study revealed that availability is a huge factor in how attractive we find a person. Contrary to the belief that the more we keep our distance from a person, the more they become interested in us. Actually, the more available we are, giving quality attention to the person or group we're with, the more attractive we become. Each one of us desires people who will show up for us when we are physically and emotionally weak. This is because we are wired to desire the company of people around us. Humans are social beings and we thrive on that. So, we value it when a person pays attention to us and when they can be dependent upon to be there when we need comfort. 5. Death and Intelligence. Albert Einstein was weird, but we all are attracted to him. Why? Intelligence and death are such forceful factors, especially when mixed with confidence, when a person is vast in information and can sustain an intelligent conversation for as long as it takes, with so much depth, it's just natural to be attracted to such a person. 6. Emotional Security. An emotionally secure person is comfortable with being vulnerable. He isn't shy or ashamed about it. An emotionally secure person understands that he is not perfect, he has weaknesses, and he is not scared to admit them. When you're emotionally secure, you are comfortable with who you are and are not shy to admit how you feel. Instead of suppressing your feelings, you're not afraid to express them. This is a form of maturity. 7. Uniqueness. If you're aware of your uniqueness, it's okay that people will be attracted to you. With the billions of people living in the world, we're not all the same. There's something unique about each one of us. We don't share the same fingerprints and nobody does certain things exactly as we do. That is what makes this unique. It is safe to admit this for yourself. You're unique. Don't try to hide your uniqueness just because you want to fit in. The fact that you're not like others is proof enough that you don't have to try to copy others and brace the fact that you're special. This quality makes you attractive and interesting to people. 8. Amiability. If you can get along well with other people, you're amiable, and this is an attractive trait. Being amiable refers to how you treat people with kindness when you interact with them. You're able to adapt yourself to the personalities of so many different kinds of people, and you make them feel accepted and comfortable regardless of who they are. 9. Kindness. We all just want to be with someone who treats as well as we deserve to be treated. We all want kindness in the person we are in friendship or romantic relationship with. Kindness attracts. Kindness wins even when you don't consider yourself physically attractive or breathtaking. Your kindness will make your partner like you with time. Reveals a study. 10. Self-awareness. Knowing you're worth as a person is another quality that makes you attractive. When you're self-aware, you know your strengths and your weaknesses. You know what you want and what you don't want. Because of this, you can lead yourself in the direction of the person you have understood yourself to be. We find people who know they are attractive. They have clarity and they know their worth. Knowing who you are does not make you arrogant. You equally admit your imperfections and you're not afraid to keep developing yourself to become better. 11. Open-mindedness. Being open-minded means you're easy to converse with and people are comfortable around people they can easily converse with. You don't just talk. As an open-minded person, you also listen to others to talk. You appreciate learning new things over trying to show off your knowledge. You want to know people's view about a matter and are not interested in pushing them off. 12. Passion. Passionate people are attractive because they have a sense of direction. They know where they are going and how they are going to get there. This trait, which commands enthusiasm and a strong desire to achieve a goal, attracts people to you. Passionate people are determined and they can motivate themselves. They are going to get what they have planned because they have a clear plan mapped out on how to get it. Passionate people have dreams and are positive in the face of challenges or failures. A passionate person is often an inspiration to people around them. This is why they are usually attractive. 13. Being nice. A study just concluded that what our parents have been telling us for years was right. Just be nice. The study included three groups of people. 120 in all. Made up of males and females. Rating the attractiveness of pictures of 60 strangers with neutral facial expressions. Weeks later, the same people saw the same pictures, though the researchers changed a group of beat. One group would read positive attributes written about each person in the picture and another group would see negative ones. Then there was a control group that again had no attributes accompanying the pictures. During the initial round when none of the groups saw any personality descriptions, there was a similar consensus of which subjects were most attractive. But when a negative or positive character traits were introduced, that changed. As you'd guess, people were more drawn to subjects with nicer descriptions and reported feeling more turned off by the negative ones. Being nice has its own reward and it could also help you land a date. 14. Financial responsibility. Even if you don't have a flawless physique or a fancy car, you may be attractive to potential partners if you have a handle on your financial future. According to a study conducted by Discover and Match Media Group, 69% of the 2,000 people questioned find financial responsibility to be either very or extremely important when choosing a partner to date, placing it ahead of sense of humor and physical attractiveness. 15. Being always positive. When life throws you a lemon, if you're the type who always makes lemonade out of it instead of complaining, that's a fine quality that attracts people to you. We all love to be around the optimist. Life is never fair. Somehow, we all know this. But we're most attracted to people who live it. People who see the best in everything. It's just nice to always notice the good things.