 Love is ultimate freedom within another person. It is not forming all these opinions. It is not judging them. It is loving them and nurturing them for every part of them, for everything that they are. If you are judging someone, if you're forming opinions on someone that you claim to love, well, then that isn't love. Wanting to change someone, that's not love. Watching someone change and loving them every step of the way and through those changes, that's your love.