 Now Now I wonder how y'all got here before I got here now what you too got going on I just I just I just set the live up. I wonder how y'all got here before I got here Okay, you too got something going on you too Luminati around here. Y'all was already on here Okay Hey 9 p.m. Now I'm still a little out of breath. I didn't shower and everything me and my wife did a nine mile bike ride So I'm still a little winded but um, I Needed to do My live tonight As always if you were part of the bless tribe if you didn't know we we do a live every Sunday night at 9 p.m The ones that I do on the other days just bonus lives if time permits. I'll do those Somebody asked me what I said other night splack of valley. Yeah, I said splack of valley. You know that song Used to be out long time ago SPL a CK a V e L L I splack of valley Hey, that used to be the song doesn't out play the hell you don't know where that guy But that thing to have you in the mood Trying to write my first book Tony. Um, then that have you taken the birthday a book course? I Made it 50% off. So instead of $97 is 47 It's on Tony gasses academy calm So it'll bless your spirit Got a download in there with all the little web sites You'll need and I walk you through how to create your concept choose your target audience and all of that So it'll help you a lot if you still don't if you still can't do it after that then that mean you need one-on-one help but Hundreds of people have written their book just by taking that course. So it should help you Any advice for someone heading to a new city? I'm moving to Louisiana for an internship and want to meet new people and hopefully my husband know other than being yourself and getting acclimated and and Showing up don't just go somewhere and be in the house Make sure you have a routine. I realized a lot of people don't have a gym routine. Don't have a outing routine But if you do that, you'll you'll jump off the page Question talking nine months Talking nine months live nine hours apart Never met communication dwindling and I answered this question last time, but see you was too busy reading comments I Answer your question last time you asked this Yesterday I answered this this here question So you got to go back to the videos yesterday And watch the two lives I did two lives yesterday whichever one you was on I answered your question So see y'all need to stay out of reading all these comments and Then be getting on your phone and be taking phone calls after you ask a question and Then be missing it See our shades God bless you. God bless you Tony. I'm gonna kick it off. I do not trust my man is Where he says he's gonna be I don't know what to do this eats me up when we're not together You got to ask why don't you trust him? Why don't you trust him? And if you Have a real reason not to trust him then that's when he needs to be building trust And you got to look a little deeper So if you really truly don't trust him then that's a red flag because if there is no trust There is no relationship. That's one thing you got to understand if there is no trust There is no relationship So you may have to dig a little deeper to make sure he is where he says he's going to be to put your mind at ease What are your thoughts on the Hypergamy message I always hear about You talking to the wrong one that ain't in my vocabulary, let me put let me Let me Google that because I keep seeing that word but like I told y'all y'all get on this hill line y'all get on this hill line and Then all these people with all these words making up all this stuff and then y'all sitting here Racking your brain About all these new terms when if you just get out here love yourself Walk with confidence take care your mind your body your spirit then You won't have to worry about anything Hypergamy is the thought that people want to marry up women especially. Let me Google this now because all y'all need different definitions So if that's what the case is the action of marrying a person of a superior caste or class now The caste system come from India so now think about this a Come up so didn't make this heart behind word hypergamy what we call a come up, you know, so And that is true. That is true. And like I say like somebody said especially women I'll be honest with you now a lot of women want to do that a Real woman is not trying to do that It's see when you trying to Marry up See a real man and woman they're gonna elevate to the level that they want to attract They're not gonna be down here Broke busted and disgusted looking like a three dollar bill who shot Johnny forgot to kill him And then trying to get somebody with some money and I do recall several women saying to me Oh, I want a man that make at least two million I'm like, do you know how hard it is to make two million and a man making two million? He probably gonna be able to make that for long And I'm like two million and I asked some of these women. Well, how much you make? A thousand So I'm like, you made forty thousand and you want a man who make two million What make you think a man who make two million? Won't you you see what I mean? So that right there that is happening a lot but I'm gonna tell you what's happening and A lot of women able to do it But listen when a man marriage down like that meaning old broke busted and disgusted woman She ain't bringing nothing to the table, but a set of legs He's marrying her to for her to be a housemaid. He married her for her to be a house slave That's what he married her for because a man who is worth his weight and gold He won a woman that he feels is his equal. He's not trying to rescue no one You know, he didn't he not worry. No, he's not worrying about your income level But he's looking at your character your integrity and your ambition So you might not earn what he earns, but if you looking like you want to come up He's not attracted I've been with my kids dad for 10 plus years. We have been through We have been through anything you can think of I'm 27. He's 28 I feel like I've outgrew him because I'm ready for a real man. He proposed to me twice Yep, you have outgrown him and that's what you have to realize. So You 27 so 10 years that means 17 a Lot of time those relationships, they're gonna fail just off rip They're gonna fail just because when y'all got together, you didn't know what you want You were so young y'all didn't even know what love was you should have been focusing on your school work But y'all was flipping and tossing and so by the time you wake up and realize who you are and what you want You realize that this was puppy love. This was childhood. This was high school love and It don't go together. Hey y'all put that hashtag cue Before your question so I see what you're talking about So I am a single mom daughter's father lives out of state. I don't have much support and I'm not able to get out Much to meet guys. I'm usually at church or at a church related activity at the store I Men in all of those places men in all of those places don't force it. Don't try to do something out of your norm Heaven sent God bless you. God bless you. What in the life Lord? Tony would it be tacky to have a gmail email address for my coaching business? I don't want to change my email address if I switch web hosts. No, it wouldn't be tacky It'll hurt you a little bit But it wouldn't be tacky, but it is you know gmail can attach to your domain So gmail you can connect your gmail with your domain to where you still using the gmail Interface, but it's at your comm Having your comm is it's gonna earn you more money because you're just gonna appear more trustworthy and more professional But it's it's not a deal-breaker How to get over a guy I've known for four years and been dating Addressed an issue and he hasn't spoke spoken to me for over three weeks Well, that ought to let you know something right there that he doesn't want you that you're not his wife He doesn't see you as a fit and he doesn't deserve you. That's not your husband So the way you get over that is remind yourself of that fact and you got to keep Saying that to yourself over and over You got to keep reminding yourself of how just how much it isn't a fit Because a man go she like that he he giving you his butt to kiss What do you think about a man saying he wants to come back to pursue a relationship? After he gets himself together because he doesn't feel he can give you 100% of himself at this time It's his it's a man's way of letting you down easy That's how see one thing that men nine out of ten men most men hate to Hurt a woman's feelings So a man will tell a woman who looked like the back of a 67 Chevy that she's the most beautiful thing He's ever seen and ask her did it hurt when she fell from heaven That's just how a lot of men are and so a man will tell you Oh, i'm gonna come back. I got to get myself together And the reason why he's saying that is because truthfully he just doesn't want to say listen You're not the one for me. You're not my type and i'm not going to marry you and I don't want to waste your time But I really don't want to tell you why I feel like You're not my type. So what i'm telling you is that i'm gonna come back when I work on myself and i'm 100% that's not A man just isn't gonna say that and what you got to realize is that If a man sees you as his wife or his woman He could feel like a bomb on on the street corner like he could feel like a homeless guy He's not gonna let you get away. He's not gonna tell you you should leave me because you're better than me Because he wants a woman that He doesn't deserve like he's gonna want a woman That you know, he feels can make him look better make him feel better about himself If a man says he wants to take it slow because he rushed into His last relationship and it failed Is that game or could he truly be interested in taking it slow? He is consistent with his courting he could be It could be real but What it means is more so is that he's not sure That he doesn't feel like he doesn't feel strongly um That's your his wife like he's like, uh, maybe maybe not so let's take it slow But if a man is convinced that you look like the wife He's envision sound like a top liker y'all connect like he envisioned connecting With his wife and he's not gonna be talking about let's take it slow. He's gonna hop right in that thing full fled How do you answer when a man asks why you got a divorce or why your last relationship didn't work I'm not trying to hide anything. But is it really their business? um You do need to hide some things because it's not really his business and he can use that against you remember When you're dating anything you say can and will be used against you in the court of love So that's the that's your Toning rights. That's what you know them around the rights where the police this what I'm calling the toning rights Anything you say can and will be used against you in the court of love so you got to understand that and Just tell him what he needs to know. So Around about the same reason all marriages fail Irreconcilable differences. Well, what do you mean? Just wanted different things in life Well, what do you well? What do you mean one of different things in life just all across the board? You name it. We just was on two separate pages. We was in two different books And so that's what you got to hit them with Michelle god bless you pull out in a life lord I'm so thankful for your material. I'm on my third book and fifth course. Thank you for your patience with us ladies God bless you and I say you're gonna win You're gonna win that right there people don't understand That's the difference between winning and losing is that self investment the work that you're doing A lot of times guys come up to me and say man, you know, how you built your brand how you got this I listen playboy. You don't want to hit this Because you you're not gonna put it in the work that I'm gonna put in I went live two times yesterday live today shot a video earlier today You're not gonna work You ain't gonna outwork me I used to listen 10 hours a day audio books 10 hours a day audio video 10 out while I'm on somebody's job Still in they paycheck. I had a earbud in listening And and that's what you got to realize right there the work that you're doing That's gonna set you apart Little toy of god bless you. Hey tony. Thank you for walking in your purpose You've helped me to walk in mine as well. Be blessed. Hey bless you little toy God bless you dominique Bless you pull out in our life or should I date a guy that was married five years but together nine Divorce under one year pays 1800 a year stays with homegirl No, keep it moving keep it moving. That's that's just that's low hanging fruit. That's low hanging fruit, you know That really ain't low hanging fruit. That's the that's the fruit that the rotten fruit that can fail And you got that brown spot on it and you touch that brown spot is real soft Like something slid up in there like it might be a maggot in there That's what that is right there because For one, he got a soul tie with that nine years two. He was married couldn't even hold that together for a year And then three he lived with his homegirl Which he probably Nailing her to the headboard And ain't gonna tell you that because she know her place So she okay with him dating but he missed the fix it. Okay, splack of valley. He huss splack of valley That's how he paying rent Going in there and then here you are you coming over there. She's looking at you crazy because she don't care nothing about it She okay with it So yeah, keep it moving. It's two it's two minute men out there for that Yeah, 1800 year in child support. I'm that really don't matter. That's neither here nor there But it just his old all life or all together. You got to keep going Uh key Sean God bless you. Thank you Tony. You're so much help to me in my everyday struggles with understanding men You rock man. God bless you poor out in our life If a guy says you are out of his league, is he lying? Won't a man go after any woman he wants? He is fine as a glass of chocolate milk Yep, that's again. That's main leash What he really means by out of his league is that you in the g-league And he in the nba. Let me help you understand this. Okay, the g-league they make 25,000 to 125,000 The nba they can make up the 40 million a year 45 million a year. You see what I mean? It's a bit different between 25,000 a year and 40 million a year So when a man tell you out of his league, he really is trying to flatter you But he lying to you because you are right if a man Won't you he gonna go after you and that's why he is telling you that He telling you You are out your league, but he want to tell you that because he lying And that's that's what me ain't gonna do, you know, because And I always say just take it as a compliment and keep going If a man give you this line or why he can't chase you why he can't be with you Just keep it going because he is judging you superficially He's judging you for the wrong reasons. He's judging you because He may be looking for a woman with a certain type of Complexion certain type of money He don't even really know what a wife is And so he'll come out his mouth sideways and you just gotta Say, you know what you're a grown boy. Let me keep it moving Because that that's really what he's trying to tell you though Marquia Dickson. God bless you. God bless you And now see this the thing Y'all be asking me a question now these answers you got to make sure you ask these questions You want to hear the truth Because because a lot of times the truth is strange and in fiction and Like the man said on the movie you can't handle the truth. That's to be honest with you It's some it's some real stuff out here Will it work seven months together? No, s wants me to be his wife At month five reveals lives with x i'm hurt stop talking to him three days Just felt he wasn't moving out fast enough miss him um No, I mean you could force it to work But that's not a situation you want to make work Because see that type of man what he is looking for he's looking for a lily pad See he want to be able to hop over here Because he living with her that's how he getting his bills paid She helped him pay them bills And he also touching them And so what he want to be able to do is make a clean break But he don't he doesn't want to have that in between to where he got a stand on his own two feet Get his own place in his own name. He want to be able to jump right into another apartment With you and so that's what that is. That's what that is She she key to Harris. God bless you. God bless your boy in our life. She key to you showed up yesterday Blessing me. I pray the lord bless you in the name of jesus Mr. Gaskin spelt my name wrong now Thanks, mr. Gaskin. I ditched the guy who is not interested, but now what? I don't want online. How do I attract someone truly interested? You just got to keep doing what you're doing. It's just like it's the way to Mop flops and the cookie crumbles You just got to keep doing what you're doing because it's just the law of averages in this world What what you have to realize is Understand this I had to go through over 100 women before I met my wife Like this real dates On dates you talking on the phone you all it is You creating soul ties. I did it the wrong way because I didn't have anybody teaching the way I'm teaching So I could teach from my mistakes because I did it the wrong way But listen, it took me over 100 women before I met my wife So you got to understand that is you might have to like they say We ain't gonna say kiss, but you might have to turn down 100 frogs before you meet Prince Charming. So that's what you're gonna have to realize Jacqueline God bless you. Hey Tony. Thank you for the Easter message this morning Hey, God bless you all notice on that Easter message this morning I turned the ads off because the ads be on on the video the ads, you know the commercials I turned it off Because I want this morning. I want you to be able to get that whole word It was on for the first few views and then I realized I turned it off. So what that mean? I don't earn anything from that video, but I turned it off so you could get That whole word uninterrupted. So if you got interrupted with an ad that mean you saw it Quickly go back and watch it. They got no ads in it. And so thank you for watching that It's physical appearance a big part of whether a man approaches or not Um, yes, it is a big part. It is a huge part But it's some caveats and nuances to it because If you looking too, too, too, too, too done up He's he's gonna be A little intimidated in the sense of like man, is she gonna snap me in half? Is she gonna curse me out? Is she gonna give me a stare that could melt me in the salt? And then if you looking too, too, too relaxed to You know, like you Who shot john forgot to kill him then he gonna be like Uh, and you're gonna track the wrong type of man. You're gonna track the type of man that he's looking for a do-girl So you got to find your comfort zone to where you're comfortable To where you're comfortable. You ain't trying to do too much, but you ain't Slumming it either Or too bumming Cute face j. God bless you poor out in our life. My kid's dad proposed the second time in february But breaks up with me when we disagree. He has broken up with me But still is staying here with me. I'm not sure why he's still here and we don't have Yes Well, I'll tell you what Um That is a form Of control and manipulation that he's using Where you got somebody just hanging on and you break up with him every time you get upset What is really saying is that? He doesn't really love you. He has love for you, but he's not in love with you And he doesn't believe that you love yourself enough to stand your ground and move on in your life So you need to start looking at how you're gonna make some moves and put him up at your house Or you get up out of there with your kids and you move on and you go on do what you got to do It it you you put the cart before the horse, but now you're just going to have to turn things around Okay, and put that horse back in front of that cart and so you could get going Get on out of dodge because he didn't caught you up Hey, god bless you. I am Wq unit and then you sent me that blessing. You didn't have to worry about that now Thank you. I will keep trying. Sorry. I misspelled your name. Hey, god bless you. Now you showing that Okay, now this he'll say gtq, but now that's something else down Now that's gtq now that's 70 that's okay. That's 17 us that's that's interesting the other night I'm seeing that gtq Now now where are you at? gtq God bless you surely boy, I don't know like 12 years of marriage 15 together One daughter left me seven months ago Wanted different things. He apologized today has done his work in both grew and mature Should we try I don't feel he's afraid to lose me That's a personal choice if you want to try that me personally I'll be going about my business because it's been 15 years don't nobody leave after 15 years When you leave after 15 years you saying you done like that you leave in the first five years when Things rocky you getting to know each other like you ego in the way, but 15 years That's like y'all siblings that by that time almost so it's like okay, guatemolo gtq God bless you. Okay. You either been there. You got a quick google search. Okay, guatemolo. God bless you So yeah now It's a personal choice if you want to try and what I would say if you're gonna try it give it about Give it about six months to see where he's at if he's truly changing if he's gonna be consistent Give it about six months because he married you want to fight for marriage But you got to still pay attention to the size Royal arches. God bless you. Why are men so And I hold on It's a typo in here Why are men so? Maybe this categorically that you meant and consistently slimy uses their uses their time and energy to go the long way And lie opposed to just saying or doing what they need to So much so that you pegged them 100% each and every time You know, that's a that's a the eighth wonder of the world that we're wondering about not for its beauty But just for its mysteriousness and trying to understand why men are that way But I've been there and I'll be honest with you In this world most men are wired in a relationship to compete instead of to be teammates most men treat a woman like an opponent instead of like a teammate and It's just how men are wired just feeling operating from fear and insecurity And so men feel like the world is out to get them the world is against them That's why a lot of your conspiracy theories are men Because men are always paranoid like everything out here to get me everything against me They they chasing me they doing this, you know, they out about my wife She's like, I don't know what I'm gonna do with you when you 70 because I'd be swearing my phone tap And she's I don't know what I'm gonna do with you when you hit seven I'm gonna have to put you in a home because you around here already at 36 Be thinking somebody looking at you through the phone and but that's just how we are as men So if I'm until a man matures in the relationship space He'll keep acting a fool like that and you got to check them and move on Um, wave it black queen. Hold on. I see your question right there. I'm gonna try to get it after that I get the lab VIP out the way up here What time frame would you put on a long distance relationship? We have been together one and a half years. He's 40 I'm 43. He's 27 Um, um You're 43. He's 27 I'm 43. He's 27 Okay You're 43. He's 27. Okay. Um um cc thomas I'm trying to figure out how to work this but um You don't waste the 18 months of your life You don't waste the 18 months of your life So I'll be honest with you tonight need to be your last night in that relationship. I'll be honest with you It just it's just not possible for a 27 year old to be into a 43 year old It's just it's just not possible. It's no offense to women in their 40s or anything like that I want y'all to understand that but men like young younger Not older because you got to think of this thing like Men like coca-cola not red wine when it comes to women and that's what you have to understand It's like always date a man in your age range. No no less no more than five years younger than you No more than five years younger than you And and typically no no more than 10 years older than you The other thing is it's hard to trust a devout man or god in a long-distance relationship That is mature Trust in a 27 year old in a long-distance relationship That's almost That's like dating a man on the moon. What the man on the moon doing right now That's what your man doing your man. That's 27 long distance doing the same thing the man on the moon doing right now You ain't got a clue You ain't got a clue. And so that right there you got to let that go. You got to let that go I'm trying to tell you Carrie pool God bless you. God bless you Pull out in her life. Lord a good man Pursued me He told me he'd wait He'd wait for physical I exposed past pain and gave myself to him. He says he's interested, but i'm not ready I call he doesn't respond. He will hit me after 45 days. Can I fix it? No, can't fix it. Let it go You can't fix it chalk it up chalk it up because see listen He told you he'll wait for the physical After telling you he'll wait on that You say you expose your past pain and then gave yourself to him That means you hurting too bad. He says he's interested, but you say i'm not ready So that's so many mixed signals. It's so much Going on like he needs a therapist just to date you, you know So what you got to do Carrie pool is you got to get in your coaching My mentor that life going over there and get you a coach. I'm on there, too But that's why when you call he doesn't respond and he hit you four to five days later because he already drained So you got to heal before you deal you got to work on you get your stuff in order He'll from your past pain get past that then Move forward into you a relationship Kim so god bless you High Tony god bless. How do I share your previous video today? God is real on my ig I need to get that message out. I don't Think you could share it on ig The only way is You're only on facebook because with the link the only way is if you put the link in your bio And then you make a post that click the link in my bio to see that video Or if you just screenshot the video and post it in your story and say go watch this video from today But it may not allow you to add a link in your story I think you have to have a certain amount of followers or Certain type of account to be able to add a link to where it hits wipe up God is faithful God is faithful. God bless you. What does a man mean when he says you are Definitely a keeper. He don't mean anything He don't mean anything unless he treats you like a keeper See a lot of men a lot of men want to say you a keeper They don't want to do the keeping a lot of men want to kill a woman But don't want to do the keeping see it don't mean anything So what you have to do it? I tell people all the time You got the a lot of time you're gonna have to date like Helen Keller You know Helen Keller. She got some really deep quote. She was a philosopher But Helen Keller was was deaf and blind So what I mean by that is you got to be able to feel You got to be able to feel with your heart What what is going on in this situation? Y'all hold on real quick Let me get waving black queen because I've seen that pop up meantime right here. Hold on How come sometimes as women we feel like we're missing out on someone who left us? Is that a self-esteem issue? No, I see you asking me about women And I see I'm a man. I really don't understand y'all See I can answer questions about men I really don't understand y'all. Okay So anything I say about y'all is just a guess. I'm just pulling just a guess out the air When I answer a question about a man, I bet every dime to my name and every dime on my earn in the future When I answer a question about a man But y'all I really don't fully understand y'all so, um What I say is to that Is it is a self-worth issue? You don't realize that you're the prize You don't realize that a man got to get on one knee for you For a reason a man get on one knee because you the prize So what you don't realize is that when a man leaves you it's truly because He doesn't deserve you and when you got to understand you just dodged Ahead a you just dodged a divorce. So really you got to shift your mindset and be grateful when a man walk out Versus upset about a tear sitting God bless you How do you deal with a man that prefers face-to-face interaction? He does text and call But it's nothing like when we are face-to-face the interaction is more face-to-face That's totally fine as long as he trying to make that face-to-face often And y'all seeing each other going on a date every week and as long as he calling every day So even if he won't face-to-face, he still need to call every day now He'll get he'll get off the hook now And you say he calling text. So, you know It's different, but you need to be on the phone with him. Don't talk it not texting Alasha, God bless you What are your thoughts when a man lets you meet his family on thanksgiving? Does that have any meaning as to how serious he is? By the way, I have finished reading your book and it was amazing on audible. God bless you Now leave me five stars on that now leave me five stars on there now It depends on How long y'all been dating now if y'all been dating closer to a year and he take you over there It means something if y'all just been dating less than six months and he take you over there It don't mean anything It just mean that his family is open and cool and and they all right with you know Just meeting women, you know some families is used to meeting women my family my mom and them they met different girls When I was through our high school they met all of them and they realized it didn't mean nothing And that's one of the things that a lot of times see with women y'all fantasize so much That y'all get caught up in stuff and y'all think stuff means stuff that don't mean anything So y'all think a man opening the door means something y'all think a man pulling out your chair means something Y'all think a man paying for your dinner means something Y'all think a man talking to his mama nice and sweet means something Y'all think a man talking rude to his mama means something a lot of stuff you think means something Don't mean anything, but it all come from movies when you think about it It all come from movies and people always say well Pay attention to how a man treat his mama his mama could have been a drug addict They used to beat the brakes off of him So if he talking to her a certain type of way That's just because he have absolutely no respect to her because of the pain that she put him through And he just not in a place to where he feel like you know Bowing down and and he may not be a man or god or he may not read the bible where say You know honored our mother and father, but that don't mean that he's gonna treat his wife like that He still could treat his wife like a queen because she's more so like a Savior like saving grace and that's what I see sometimes and women to get that confused And then a woman will see a man treat his mama like a queen And then think like Oh, he's gonna be amazing. He's gonna be amazing But really it's because his mama clothed and fed him His mama Carried him for 10 months. His mama was there for him when he needed when nobody else was there That's why he treat his mama like that, but that don't mean you ain't finna get dogged out So a lot of time women y'all read in the stuff that don't mean nothing So what you got to do is pay attention to solely how he treats you Just pay attention to how he treats you. How does he talk to you? How does he treat you? What kind of time he's spending with you and don't read nothing else How you feel based on the way he talks to you and the quality time he gives you You fly mama god bless you um Now y'all got me saying y'all with these names y'all got somebody to catch a little piece of that Somebody to walk him past my office be like who told him talking about you fly mama I got to explain stuff to my wife after this Dane three years He's well off. I'm poor. He tells me about all the money he spends on frivolous things and I'm struggling Daily to have the necessities. It makes me feel bad. Am I wrong? Uh You wrong for remaining poor So what is it why you worrying about a man why you focus on this man for the last three years? You need to be on your grind You need to be trying to get you some kind of certification You need to be trying to get you some side hustles. You need to be blogging. You need to be youtuber You need to be stitching and sewing You go to the Goodwill and get you a sewing machine and start sewing you some shirts and then go to etsy And start you a website start selling shirts you and sold on ebay and etsy You hit me it's women, you know popping up every day On online on on instagram. That's making millions of dollars right out there right out the living room You know, so that's what you need to be focused on is getting your bag up and Stop worrying about him and stop focusing on him And the other thing about this is y'all been together three years He don't want you anyways And a man who gonna have money and talk to you about how he's spending his money and he know you in the struggle That man don't want you that man don't want you. He see you as a gold digger Waiting for a come up. That's how he sees you and that's why he rubbing it in your face to see if You're gonna show your fangs He wants to see if you're gonna show your fangs and say well, give me some of that money And can you help me with my rent? He that's what he weighed because that's what he believes about women But ain't no real man gonna have money And have a woman that he been with for three years and watch her struggle To the point that she calling herself poor So listen, you're gonna have to You're gonna have to do something. You're gonna have to stay off your bike. Listen to me Close your legs and get on your grind Listen to me because I know you ain't been with no rich man for three years And ain't put not because if you wasn't putting out you would have said that you would have put that in there So listen, close them legs Get on your grind and you need to cut him loose and go on about your business because If a man has you more than two years and ain't married you he don't want you He don't see you as a wife. Ms. Rainbow. God bless you Pull out in her life. I met a guy two and a half months ago Said that he doesn't want to settle down right now once sex before marriage My beliefs are opposite. I've stood firm on my beliefs. He now says we can be friends. He still calls every day. Why? He called you every day because He believed you a liar. He believed you're a liar and that you planned the game He believed that you planned the game of Trying to be abstinent for brownie points trying to look like a wife And that's what men are teaching each other today. Don't believe a woman when she says she's waiting till marriage Don't believe one when she says she don't do that. Just stay there. Just waiting the wings. Just hit up every day every other day Eventually she's gonna get weak And she's gonna be on our back So, you know, you can't you can't really that's why he weighed So go and when you realize something like that that y'all that different move on with your life Move on with your life George god bless you Poor little life lord. Hello, Tony after reading the woman's influence. I felt like I had been scraped inside and out with a cheese grater It hurt so good. This book was the icing on the cake. I would never be the same god God bless part of your life Poor little life lord, George, you didn't have to come on here and say that You didn't have to come on here and say that now y'all I don't know George now But y'all heard what she just said by the woman's influence and then y'all sitting over here Looking like who shot Johnny forgot to kill him and he ain't got the book yet Still living broke busted and disgusted when this book got something in it for you I'm telling you it's the best one I wrote to date now. It's real now. It's real Just like George said god bless you joy bought the book and sent my blessing Poor little life lord Kim soo god bless Kim soo now you back in here now Kim soo so you might need to be thinking about a session Kim soo Thank you for the work you do in the darkest time of my life your wisdom shed light and saved me May god bless you press down shaking together and running over Pour them to your life. Hey, thank you. God bless you. You part of that blessing You part of that blessing. I thank you for letting them use you Deep roots god bless you recently met a guy and we've been talking and video messaging every day Okay, that's good. It's only been two weeks. He is ready to be exclusive. Is this a red flag? Or too soon the way you tell that is the way you know if it's too soon Is because even a man know he knows so it's it's a toss up because a man will know in the first day After a good long conversation if you can be his wife or not So it's not too soon for him to know but this how you know if it's too soon And this way you got to pay attention So you could say if you free and you like him you ain't got no other options out there that you're entertaining You don't mind being exclusive. It's okay to say. Yeah, okay. Let's be exclusive Let's be exclusive That's totally fine because exclusive don't mean you getting on your bike. Just understand that exclusive don't mean You getting on your bike. Okay. Now the next thing what you got to realize is what does he have? What does he bring into the table? Does he have a job? Does he have a place to stay? Does he have transportation or money for transportation if y'all live in a city where y'all take the bus in the subway? Does he have transportation a job in a place to stay? and Then when I say a place to stay his own place that he paid the bills If he has all of those things Then it could be he feels you're his wife and he don't want to let you get away And not another thing now does he have citizenship? That's another thing. Does he have citizenship? The other thing is is he fresh out of relationship? Because sometimes a man a move fast when he fresh out of relationship because he need a rebound Because he want to post that rebound online to get back At his ex to get at his ex that he planned on going back and he know that if he could use you as a pawn She'll get jealous drop her guards lower her standards and then he could go back and get hurt So that's what you're going to have to realize and understand now. So pay attention pay attention Jay pretty god bless you. What should you say to someone you just started talking to online? Hinge or match okay the okay the old online dating sites When they ask you the question. So what is a pretty girl like you doing on here? Okay Answer the question answer the question j pretty answer the question. What is a pretty girl like you doing on here? That right there that question lets you know that men know that you're not supposed to be online dating Listen to what i'm telling y'all Men do not respect women. That's online dating and the men that's on there don't respect themselves They don't take themselves serious because guess what? You could you could walk i could walk if i was a single man When i went on a bike ride with my wife I passed by 50 women in a gated neighborhood You hear what i'm telling you it's so many women walking around out here A man does not have to get online to meet no woman So the reason why he asked you that is because he know ain't no reason under the sun You supposed to be on the online dating that you could walk outside And if you got your head up and you paying attention and you are in expectation of meeting your husband That you could meet your husband from here to your mailbox He knows that So that's why i'll be telling y'all stay off that online dating go on that online dating and delete that raggedy profile Because you look crazy and if your jobs see you on the online dating They might not even want to hire you Not jobs got hr department searching your name on the dating site to see if you on there Because because if you on a dating site then they know you're going to be stealing pens and pencils Because that because you on the dating site because you desperate People try to say I'm not desperate just because i'm on a dating site does not mean i'm desperate. I am far from desperate That's why they made online dating for desperate people because You if you felt confident in meeting someone in real life you wouldn't go online dating So that's what you have to address You got to be able to look yourself in the mirror and say you know what? I have been a little impatient Have been a little nervous have been a little Frustrated have been a little desperate have been a little insecure You got to be honest with yourself and then you got to work on yourself And then you got to present yourself to the world And when you present yourself into the world after doing the work and being confident You're going to show up and vibrate on another level and you're going to attract your mate for life i'm trying to tell you can't be god bless you hi tony Just bought i'm guessing the book i'm ready for it all Course on self love. Oh, okay. You sign up on self love you. Okay, okay The membership site god bless you just off the strength of a woman's influence I will get started after this live. Hey bless you bless you I'm ready for it all. Yeah, I think that's the highest level on self love you Well, sometimes y'all see me that that shirt that says self dash love dash in the letter you calm That's a site with different courses from tony gas and academy. Some of them got the same title But I filmed it totally separate. So some of the stuff is different and so it's for people who Rather do a monthly membership versus You know Paying one fee up front um Y'all stay off that line Are you on the james? So you're saying online dating is bound to fail One out of a million going to get married They're not going to tell you that on that commercial and then in that one that get married out that million They've been to be divorced within five ten years It ain't gonna last long because i'm telling you as a man Men with confidence Do not a man with confidence Who's serious about their life who looking for a real woman Who has overcome? They fleshly lust and desires And who have fully mature do not get online dating a man was not going to get on the line dating I remember being on black planet, you know the meat women on black planet You know and stuff like that so It just ain't real it just ain't well the way they have it set up today. It's not real It's like throwing you to the wolves Now if I ever do me a online dating site, it's going to be totally different It's going to be a totally different setup and it's going to be real It's going to be accountability It's going to be real because y'all doing it anyways. I might as well get on out there And and do it the right way for y'all Can you elaborate? Why don't men respect women who are on the dating site? because Because it's so many women out here And it's so easy for men to walk up to a woman and to say something to a woman And if you carrying yourself the right way The men that's available that's passing you are going to approach you And when you take and go to the point of paying money to get on a site To meet a stranger because see the thing about it is men know men Men know men So men understand That your chances of meeting a man at the grocery store And it working out is like this It's slim to none so It's even less when you meet a man online because see when you meet a man online He might not have no legs and you don't even know that You meet a man online He might have a vajay and you don't even know that You meet a man online. He might live in a whole another country and you don't even know that You meet a man online. He might he might live in a brothel. He might have a whole Sluer women. You don't even know that because you can't read him You don't know him from a can of paint But when you meet a man in person You could look at his teeth See if he brushes teeth You could look at his jeans at his shoes Smell his breath. You could look at his hair cut. You could look at his fingernails You could read him from head to toe and make an assessment When you talking to this man online He ain't got no lead and then he rolled up on you and now here you are Oh my goodness. I don't feel it love. I ain't even know we can't go on a run together Now ain't nothing wrong with that if you want if you want a man that you're going to be pushing in the wheelchair But had you just stuck to meet them online He would have rolled up on you in the store and you would have knew from the jump Oh, you're a double amputee. I don't mind pushing a wheelchair. You're a nice guy But now you don't talk to this man every day for an hour You don't sit on my western union to help, you know Get that fake surgery. He told you about for his auntie who on her last limb And you felt bad because y'all had been talking 30 hours a week and then show up You finally get to meet the man And it's a woman With a beard and you like what in the world You hear me y'all got to stay off that line and get outside Go to the gym Go to the mall go to Starbucks Go to bars in noble Get outside right now. You could do a takeout go out get you some takeout And the man serving you might be your husband, but stay off that line. I'm telling you Fitness mom she popped on here to let you know God bless you fitness mom. She's paying to get a message to y'all They don't respect you because you look desperate and like none of the men in your area Want to date you she's saying you look like none of the men in your area want to date you online dating makes you a want as a woman seem undesirable and desperate Especially sites like tender a fitness mom told y'all the truth and she is not lying. I'm telling you as a man I wouldn't touch a woman on the online with a 10-foot pole. You hear me because I'm gonna think she's slap crazy And really y'all don't be crazy y'all be average everyday people with all your senses, but see that's the problem with the world we live in It make insanity seem normal We do stupid stuff every day like we'll look at somebody pain and turn it into a meme and be laughing at it It we our world make insanity seem normal So normal everyday women successful women I don't talk to women who now about millionaires with an online dating profile. I'm like, what? You'll be better off paying for private matchmaking then instead of 30 999 a month Talking to shambula in a whole another country with somebody with his neighbor computer scamming you through western union Playing on your desire to have love. Come on now y'all got to do better than that Carey pool. God bless you the guy messed up with wants to help me work out and get in shape. Should I allow it? He asked me Out after the virus should I cut them off completely my feelings will grow if he's around Um If you're not gonna be with him if y'all don't feel like y'all could be together Then you need to cut them off Because you just gonna strengthen the soul tie And he want to help you get in shape so, you know That just so he could walk you around but He'll want nothing with you And and you got to understand that you you just prolonging the inevitable. You just prolonging the inevitable Shanice god bless you pull out in her life. Hi Tony question. I'm single And 30 no kids now. I love being single. I even made a whole schedule Out to read your books make it work a woman's influence and taking the llc On the academy site now when is the time to have or pursue a relationship? um What you're doing is a good thing what you got to keep focusing on while you're doing that you're working on the Three bees keep that up but understand this you don't have to pursue a relationship the relationship I'm gonna pursue you when you get busy and you working the way you're working the man gonna come to you So what you just got to create a schedule that gets you out the house It need to be the gym three times a week. It need to be a internet cafe Once a week of course not right now in this time It need to be a lounge once a week with some soft music and some good food And it need to be walking around once a week if that's that walking around the mall or walking around a park You got to have a get out schedule While you working And your husband gonna approach you Teal god bless you. What do you say to women that are getting tired of dating and dealing with men because of the lies and games Dating is becoming tiresome it now it is it is tiresome out there now, but listen You got to elevate. So what I mean by that is the more you learn See when you when you Watching videos and listening to podcasts and reading books you get new knowledge It's not a woman in the world That's gonna think the way I think Because i'm a man It's not a woman in the world that understand everything that I know about men So when you get that knowledge you adding that to your repertoire So now when you see a grown boy grown boy Ooh smell like grown boy. You're gonna smell a grown boy a mile away. So what's gonna happen is you're gonna be able to quickly Sniff a grown boy cut him off. So you wasted Five seconds now you're not feeling drained But see without the knowledge You're going on 10 15 20 days before you realize he a grown boy So you got to keep feeding your mind and learning who you are What a real man is what you looking for And that's gonna help you A.R. God bless you. I broke up with my boyfriend for cheating. I blocked his number He is now sending email saying I love you. I will always love you. I haven't been responding. So why is he continuing to send messages I am trying to heal keep doing what you're doing Keep doing what you're doing. He's he's sending messages Because he feels stupid And because he realized you didn't deserve that and because his soul tired strangling him And because he wants to keep you with mixed signals and stuck So that if what he's trying to do and where he's trying to go doesn't work out you will still be stuck Like a duck in a truck waiting on him to come back So he can okay. So that's why he's sending you the message because he want to keep your mind With the mixed signals. So understand that and just realize that you got to keep ignoring them Block them on the email block them on the email So he can't reach it either Cc king 16 god bless you Why do men live with a woman wife or girlfriend but still want to live a double life? Not to mention making babies with outside women and the wife slash girlfriend still stay with him What is that about? Now see which all women y'all got to come together and realize What is that about? You know and then with the with the man The man doing that listen the way men are If you gonna sell me a Lamborghini For $50,000 brand new i ain't gonna tell you it's worth 400 That's the way men are If a man could talk you out your draws if a man could talk you talk you out your last meal He's gonna talk you out your last meal See god created men As savages because of what it takes In the world see for one country to conquer another country that takes savage mentality savage behavior For for you to win a battle that takes savage mentality savage behavior men take that same thing And if they don't mature they take that into a relationship And that's why they just competing So when you see it as a woman you got to be able to speak to it and call it out You got to be able to speak to it and call it out and then that man He's gonna take and see and say, okay Wow, this woman up on game This woman up on game terracotta Hired some contractors God bless you. I bless your part in our life. Hired some contractors who say i'm so nice Then they all drop professionalism Get out of line and I have to drop them for trying me. How can I stop this? I tell them from the gate and they still push it You're gonna have to talk with an og woman. You're gonna have to talk with an og woman. I'm writing A book for a lady a couple ladies that I feel like some og's You got what see what it is You still have that naive you got a naive spirit on you And it's a little better That they reading into so what you're gonna have to do is you're gonna have to channel your energy Channel your energy to where? How would you talk to a man that you know is married? and faithful And you He like you look up to him like if you met, you know barack obama. What's your energy gonna be like? You know if you got to go with that energy see you you got that oozing on you Mm-hmm. You got that. I'm ready for me a husband oozing on you and Them pheromones. I have you pronounce it that little scent. They sense it on you So a man all he's doing is reading and reacting Because see it's certain it's certain women that could be beautiful Everything a man desire But she can channel the energy to where a man knows don't mess with her. Don't try her she uh, she uh She'll chew you up and spit you out. So man, he's reading you to see if it's some openness So see here's the thing now. There's the truth right here. You don't you don't want to hear You actually liking some of that attention You liking some of that attention And then you getting mad and firing them Because you got to try to remind yourself That I ain't supposed to be liking this attention But you coming in there with that openness But you got to go in there like business And don't be smiling you got to be dressed business professional You got that and right now we ain't doing no contact But when we doing contact that handshake got to be firm like you're trying to break his wrist You squeeze so hard ain't no key key in ain't no joking You know all of that right there No, they ain't doing the work for free says you hired contractor Me baka My baka god bless you Keep doing what you're doing. How do I identify my business niche and overcome my inertia start? Now, okay, you know hitting with a vocabulary word your inertia Okay I don't know if that's fear And then we have to google inertia Now i'ma tell you what you what you need is um, you're gonna have to identify your gifts You're gonna have to identify your gifts And once you identify your gifts Then that's when you're gonna be able to Really build a business around it So realize that that it really comes down to what you do naturally And once you realize that you understand it's it's several businesses that can be built around it Chute phase j because of you I handle disagreements like a queen now your videos has gotten me through dark places I've learned self-respect. Thank you tonigee. Hey god bless you God bless you somebody told my mr. Question. Now, I see if you put a question in there with a dollar amount that's like That come up in that teal green on that blue If i'm answering another question it'll disappear I don't know why you know you two discriminating on y'all like that. Okay. I see what i'm right. I see it No Okay, pretty many so it's in the chat right here, but it's not up top Canadian Should I take a man seriously who texts me multiple times a day every day, but we don't talk on the phone as much Pretty minute. God bless you. Thank you for that blessing now. It's been a month Met last weekend outside home wants to see me again this weekend. Um That one right there is a little iffy, but it's not it's not it's not sitting well with my spirit Because a man who won't you? He's going to want to Talk to you on the phone He gonna want to talk to you on the phone He's not just gonna be texting you to del and then popping up to see you Because see when a man just texting you and then he popping up and want to see He could have a whole another woman, but see when he talking on that phone And you got to talk to him when he home for an hour so not when he's at work when he's home and Talk to him then now caramel kisses ask a good question. Y'all meeting up during the 19 season now with this 19 going on now Don't mess around to be no asthmatic and why are you meeting with your little booth thing? Now that's what y'all need to cut out because a man come over there Call for you one time and you mess around and be an asthmatic You're going to meet the lord and so y'all got to Keep that loose booty together Why does 19 out here and stay home? And it's the perfect time y'all need to be FaceTime with this 19 out here because If you mean up now, you just said you met up last weekend. He want to meet up again next weekend Oh, yeah Now you getting in the sand there and he gonna be the coughed on you and i'm trying to tell you The purpose nurse god bless you pre virus too much to ask about a man Too much to ask a man about his intentions with you should the man initiate In two different states. He kissed me on the forehead and the cheek. I later initiated I later initiated peck on the lips. Am I wrong? The purpose nurse. Let me look at you now. You a nurse. So what you know about mono? Mm-hmm. You a nurse what you know about? uh Herb as simple as one on the mouth He could have just healed he could have still had a little remnant You hear me? Why are you kissing them? Come on now. Come on now Now you gonna need coaching. Okay, because He live in another state He respected you and kiss you on the forehead and cheek You could have made it out safe You wanted you some lip You wanted the lip come on our purpose nurse. We got to get on the phone and talk And and so this is the thing this was let me know that you operating from a place of desperation Because you want to ask him his intentions for you? So that's that's that is a frustrated desperate state When a woman go so so let me ask you this. What are your intentions for me? What what are your intentions for this relationship? What do you want this to go? Soon as a woman asked that A man already know He already know okay She on something else So what you got to be is in a place to where you can read His actions and what he's doing You could read it and respond to it Not ask him because that's like going up to another team before the game. Hey, um Can you hand me your playbook? Thank you. They're like going up to bill bellachat Patriots coach. Can you hand me your playbook? Before the game start want to flip through your playbook real quick and just see all your sets real quick that's what you're doing When you ask a man that he liked So and then you kissed him on the lip. Now. Thank god. It was before the situation we in But and you a nurse so you didn't see all kind of stuff now So understand that don't ever Initiate you right should the man initiate a hundred percent. He should initiate everything He should initiate the phone call. He should initiate the date. He should initiate the hug the kiss Your place is to respond or reject That's your place as the woman. You got to understand that you the prize Brandy god bless you brandy god bless. Let me see now Pour out in our life. Let me see if there's anything in here in this chat that I miss because see sometimes y'all questions pop up in this chat Peggy's question On india. Thank you for a peggy question. How does a 61 year old woman who's never been in love find love Uh, well peggy You're gonna have to learn What love is And you also going to have to learn how to truly love yourself You're also going to have to identify how you are showing up in the world So are you showing up with doubt? and worry and Frustration or are you showing up with confidence and a peace of mind? So you probably need to do one to two sessions of coaching to really get feedback on What you're sending out? What is it saying? Tatum rolls. God bless you. Thank you Tony for always giving good knowledge. Thank you Hey y'all forgive me now because some of y'all messages It pops up In the chat and it's so much going on in that chat That the message get buried And they only put certain ones at the top of the screen on on top of my screen So i'm trying to see Make sure I didn't miss anybody Man, there's a lot of messages and y'all y'all got to chill out now Hi Tony. I'm turning 32 next month never married and no kids one of my dealbreakers No dating and marrying a guy with kids realistic. Am I wrong? um Yes, realistic And you're not wrong. You're not wrong. That's a standard because See standards is rooted in the foundation and kids. That's in the foundation Because kids could change everything, you know them kid They could be they could them kid could be key in your car Them kid could be thumping in the ill while you sleeping running, you know them kids could be like then at the minutes Them kids can give you ulcers You know my grains So it's a whole lot and then you with the kids Then the The baby mama pop up She could be a headache. So that is a standard and you don't have to You know Go back on that standard. You you can hold to that. See love. God bless you. God bless you I saw you today in the comment the comment you posted day on the video this morning You got a very deep Deep story you probably need to put that in the book. See love. God bless you been showing up on here blessing me I know god got something for you for real Um radiant beauty tone in my city is small most women are dominating in the finance area over men Men want women to approach them. I believe in the man initiating How would this work? The more you elevate The more you start to pull out the man who on your level See that what you're experiencing is the average the normal You got to become above average And you do that by doing the work and investing yourself in and doing what you got to do start building your personal brand even more Write your book start your company start your next company Keep loving you keep learning and then when you get out on a bout and you're going to the meetups You're going to the town hall meetings. You're going to the lounge to the restaurant. You're going to glow differently You're going you're going to move different. You're going to show up in the in the room different And the word going to start to circulate about who you are And it's going to be a pool of men that's on your level That The one percent going to attract the one percent. So that's what you got to understand K. God bless you. Thank you for helping me You stated that there are monthly payments for certain courses that that does that include the certification to become a life coach um selflawview.com Which the easy way to put it is gaskins university My last name g a s k i n s gaskin university dot com if you sign up for that that highest level I think it's 29 99 a month um After being in that For a while, I forget how many months it does unlock the life coach certification So that's the only way you could do a payment plan for the life coach certification But now if you use the coupon code my mentor You won't need a payment plan because you're about to get your stimulus check So just remember to put the coupon code in when you click when you go to the home page and you click buy It'll take you to the checkout page on that checkout page before you click buy again click have a coupon and type in my mentor It's one word my mentor not the whole website, but just my mentor you type that in and you hit apply Oh, some people don't got their stimulus. Some people posting their stimulus yesterday some people I hope they Send me a stimulant Because listen to me I need to be stimulated. I'm gonna be looking for my stimulus But yes, some people already got their stimulus and then if you have a llc Some people apply for the small business loan And I didn't get that one either but some people have got that up to $10,000 My sister got a business. She got hers. I think she said she got 13,000 17,000 And then come trying to borrow some money from me Look for a question main glitch. What does a guy mean? Hey y'all I got 12 more minutes on here I'll be on here 12 more minutes now. So we're in the fourth quarter last 12 minutes Mangers, what does a guy mean? when he Says he's interested and loves me Hardly talk on the phone now says he's not talking to another woman He's hurt the daughter stopped talking to him He lied That ain't man. It's just he lied. He just lied You a roster filler, you know, you're a roster filler. You like Caruso on the Lakers You know, you're a roster filler He needs you there because you bring a certain type of energy So he want to call you and complain by he hurt because the daughter don't talk to him Because the other woman he called he bring up his daughter. She like In hush, I don't want to hear about that man Put your big boy draws on and stop crying about that But then when he called you oh really what what's going on? Well, why does it hurt you? Have you tried to talk to her? So you bringing a certain type of energy that he won Um, Lashonda. God bless you. I see what you're saying here now. Tony. Thank you for your insight I've read make it work in a woman's influence very good. I might Add also taking your course. This is my year. I want to take your course on coaching as well Hey, God bless you. Y'all write down that coupon code my mentor. It ain't gonna last forever now, but I'm trying to Trying to be a blessing to y'all in this hill season Sarah Pull out in her life. Lord. God bless her been single for a year now. Can't seem to move on from the guy We dated five months five months And you've been single for a year And you can't move on Okay Now that's not see and I see what I be trying to tell y'all See what I be trying to tell you If you don't do the work if you just sit there looking pretty Because see Sarah ain't hurt from you We ain't had no session So If you're not doing the work Getting the new knowledge The real knowledge Now let me read anything in this question that say I read a woman's influence or I read make it work Or I read Mrs. Wright. He left and went back to his ex She is now pregnant. They seem to be happy like I never existed Should I have already moved on see right there this right here this this for everybody to learn from right there Sarah know this woman do date. Sarah, you know her do date What size shoes you well You've seen a poster of new yeezys in the story from your fake page That's why y'all be stuck See when a man leave you after five months, he supposed to be blocked You can't even see him. You don't know if he dated matthews were because you can't see him But you know, they address, you know, she pregnant, you know when the baby come in And you say it seemed like I never existed What you have to realize now Is you didn't exist because it was only five months It was only five months and you've been single for a year So he barely could remember y'all dating So see that's what y'all got to understand is y'all got to do The work y'all see the five dollar question disappeared Now that I don't know if youtube try to tell y'all something and they're trying to say y'all need to get in your bag Because y'all coming, you know, I don't know why youtube Discriminate on the question that ain't a certain dollar amount. Now youtube y'all watching this y'all need to get that together Kila god bless you. Kila god bless. I can't even keep up with how many blessings I'm even put you on my prayer list I'm gonna write this down. Kila bless. Bless the lord. I got to write it down Bless the lord Every time I look at that I'm gonna just say I pray for you kila because you don't bless me so many times The video today tony blessed me and my baby girl almost 20 years old. Hey, that's a blessing so much I've got her and her little so-called boyfriend listening to youtube Blessing to you and your family and the blessed tribe. Good night. Hey, good night. God bless you. God bless now Let me look for the five dollar question There's a 279 question from canada in here Say how to join the blessed tribe up under in the description box I have a link that says to join the blessed tribe click here and right up under the video It should be a button that says join that's by the subscribe button. You should see a button that says join God bless you. Thank you for that blessing Let me look for that five dollar question. Oh, here it go Brianna God bless you Brianna Every blessing is a blessing Brianna. I don't want you to feel bad that youtube Disappearing your question. I treated all the same I told is it wrong to discuss a relationship relationship issues with best friend and or family members It's it's it's normal. It is normal, but you got to tread lightly with that You got to tread lightly with that because see they love you. They don't love him So when you telling them all the bad you need to also tell them the good And that's where we go wrong yet and I talk about that in my book make it work Not this one right here, but the other one before it make it work Is see when you tell them they they get in sour face. So now when they Meet them it come time for thanksgiving They in there saying the prayer Lord bless and help some people understand the blessing that they have Because some people and it might be some people in this room lord Take the person in their life for granted and that's what they're doing and he and he's sitting there like And then you and him arguing now you got a stomach ache. You can't even eat the food because You've been running telling all your business So understand it's good to have an ally. You got to have an ally You got to have one person that you talk to at least But this person has to be emotionally Intelligent meaning that you could tell them something and if you know you're gonna stay And they gonna that they can come over to the house And talk to them. Hey, how you doing Jimmy? Hey Everything going good with you? Yeah, okay. Yeah, and they could have that kind of energy The way he like wow you been talking good about me like why they're so happy to meet me Like they should not know and so that's how my mom and daddy is I could tell them anything And they're gonna keep the same energy now my wife family see they do making When she used to talk bad about me to them Man, look here when I tell you I'll be dead if looks could kill Irreliable one of her family members looked at me like They were ready to kill me Once I hope mama did threaten my life Me and my wife got into it. She said I will kill you now my parents. They not like that And so that's what you just got to understand who you talking to I'll surrender. God bless you. Hey, bro Tony just popped in to show my support. Hey, thank you. God bless Pray pull out ten fold hundred fold. Thanks for the insight you are giving us I bought a woman's influence audio version and I'm enjoying the wisdom greetings to your wife sherry. Hey, thank you so much. Bless you Bless you No, nika. God bless you. Thank you for that for that good word Juicy Vic Oh fire That makes my wife and listen to me. She was gonna call it juicy Love husband. He was disrespectful nine years He said I need to change. I think since I caught on to his behavior He is hitting on females now He says he kicked me out and it's done told son. We don't get along Keep it moving Keep it moving. It's been nine years and he bad mouth and you're talking talking to you like a baser treating you like trash You got the You got to keep it moving Trish God bless you. I read a woman's influence and sherry said she demonstrates how to be treated How do you express yourself calmly? Verbally without being told You're talking down to the man when you're just speaking regular. No harsh words If you know you talking regular and he's saying you talking down to him then the problem is on him That's when you know when you that's when you know you with a toxic man. That's when you know you with a grown boy And you can't entertain that so you got to keep talking that way and you got to let him know That he's gonna have to communicate. Hey y'all. I got about two more minutes on here now Two or three more minutes a lot of messages in here now. Okay. I got some read of message Tony is it wrong to discuss relationship issues? Okay. I seen that one. Oh somebody. Okay The money woman god bless. I ain't see you now Thanks for the sunday sermon today best sermon ever I'm one of your new coaches. Hey god bless. Congratulations on being a new coach I hope you make your profile on my mentor dot life to start getting some clients We have some some coaches showing out last month got booked make one coach got booked over 18 times or something like that One melissa god bless your part in a life. Thanks for everything you do. You are appreciated and god bless Okay, your chat yesterday inspired me to create my own daily devotional do that do that It's a blessing. Tony. What's the name of your message this morning? It's called I can't lie about this So if you just click on my name on here, it'll take you to my page you click videos and select newest It'll be the one I posted. I think it's called. I can't lie about this Okay, wave it black queen. Hey god bless y'all. So we finished we finished. Thank y'all so much for being here and Make sure that you set your notification bell from when I go live. Hopefully they send a notification They say they haven't been so, you know, hopefully they fixed that Jaina, I'm sorry. I miss you. Let me grab this real quick while I'm building my coaching brand here in Asia Planned to take your coaching certification program and be listed on my mentor dot life platform and have my own website too Hey, that's a blessing My mentor is really built so that you don't need your own website unless you just want to have it But it's actually built to where you can blog on there. You have your bio on there You have your calendar on there. You could be booked on there and the payment comes directly to you So to take the certification course, make sure you use the coupon code my mentor And that'll give you a blessing during this situation we in And then you'll see me on my mentor dot life Dr. Elaine, I hope they fixed those notifications. I don't know what's going on with the youtube notifications Hey god bless you. Oh lord I'm trying to go and Nishitra Popped in here with a blessing. Bless you. Bless you. Bless you. Ms. Ford. Thank you, bro Tony for all you do Live with boyfriend for years. He begged me for three years to marry knowing I didn't want kids After three years of marriage Begged me for four years to have a baby. So we tried for three years Put him out when baby was seven months found out he was cheating while pregnant. Wow Wow, I tell you what The lesson from that is trust your intuition Trust your intuition because it was a boyfriend It was for four years that y'all were together. He was still your boyfriend You didn't want to marry him. It was a reason you didn't want to marry him You let him kept pushing kept pushing He sold you on himself got you where he wanted you got that baby in you Then you then you found out he was cheating The lesson from that is Listen to your intuition because you're gonna know within the first year That is wrong She loved Hey god bless. I got to answer her question because she blessed me earlier today Poco J. God bless you for that sticker down there. I see it Do I need a culture session to navigate how to talk to a man about what happened Since everything can be seen on google It puts me in a different light with guys. See me as too strong or damaged um a culture session would not hurt you just to Get it off your chest and to you know go back and forth about it About the whole situation with your situation though is is A guy won't look at it from what I read from your comment earlier about losing one of your Children um a guy won't look at that the same. You know, that's not it's nothing against you and He will see you as strong But a lot of men have lost somebody they love and so he'll understand that strength And it won't intimidate the middle inspire him So I wouldn't think too much in it But just for healing in general coaching will be beneficial But hey, thank y'all. God bless you. Hey now y'all see what share said 10 steps to self-love on tonygasconacademy.com is free So as you go to tonygasacademy.com, it's a free course on there called 10 steps to self-love Everybody need to take that everybody need to take that. That's why I made it free because I want everybody to be able to Take that because that's the first 10 steps That you need so that's on tonygasconacademy.com. God bless you We'll talk soon. Hey, I'm glad you did that waving black queen. I got to go y'all have me all