 I can do it this way. This is how everybody else does it. You should do it that way too. And you have to kind of like you mentioned, be an independent thinker and kind of the skill you need to grasp hold of that is to be strong and resolute in the face of continued opposition and to not let many people's voices get in your way. Like you mentioned, you're hearing so much opposition and naturally in these situations, you might think, gosh, if everybody's saying this thing, they must be right because there's this popular saying and there's a million memes about it. If it's a few people saying something, it's a few people saying something. If it's everybody saying that then the issue lies with you. The problem is when you're autistic and you experience the world differently, there's a nuance to that situation and it could very legitimately be the case. Everybody else is saying one thing and you're saying another and you're actually the one person in the right because