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Women - How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - How To Get A Guy To Fall In Love With You





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Uploaded on Mar 17, 2009

http://reunitedrelationships.com - how to get a man to fall in love with you. It's not what you think. And, it even works if you want to get your boyfriend back.

Michael Griswold, Relationship Expert, teaches relationship advice for woman in this video. A break up can be a devastating time to go through. Many ask, how do I get my ex back? or how do I make them love me again? When you understand relationship dynamics and what men want, this can be easier than we initially thought.

Whether you are trying to get him to commit to you, or if you just want your ex husband or boyfriend back in your arms, watch this video and then visit -

to get more relationship advice to save your relationship or take your relationship to the next level.

Hey, my name is Michael Griswold. I do relationship consulting at ReunitedRelationships.com, and with my personal coaching, I've come across some women who have had a similar difficulty. So I've titled this "How to Get Any Man to Fall in Love With You, to Cherish You, and to Adore You." I've just got a quick tip for you to allow that to happen.

So I'm going to talk to you about this in a way that is general and then give some tips on how to customize this for you whether you are in a relationship, married, or single. It's the same idea and it's just a matter of integrating it into what works best for you personally. The idea is women love to be adored, right? If you're a woman, you love to be adored, be pursued, and cherished—to be wanted, in a word.

The way to get a man to do that is a two-step process. One, you get the man to respect you. Then you tell him that you respect him because a fundamental difference between men and women is that women want to be adored. They want to be pursued. They want to be fought for. Men want to be admired for pursuing, for fighting for, for winning. You see, the fundamental thing that a man wants from a woman is respect, to know that she's proud of him. There are countless examples of this in movies and in folklore and songs that show this very same idea.

You can have a relationship that has a lot of passion without having any respect. This is what happens when women get into relationships that are damaging. She'll find a guy who's really attracted to her and passionate, but he doesn't respect her. He doesn't respect you, perhaps. And without a man's respect, your relationship doesn't have a really good chance of being very healthy because then it's just passion, and if a relationship is built on passion, it's kind of like building a diet on chocolate cake.

Yeah, it's great every once in a while; it's great to look forward to; it's great to anticipate; and it's great to desire those things. However, we wouldn't want to eat chocolate cake three times a day. So the tip is this: Earn a man's respect and then tell him that you respect him. What do I mean by that? First, you earn a man's respect by one, respecting yourself. This comes in all sorts of forms, and you'll want to personalize this for your own life so that it can be genuine.

Perhaps this can be as simple as not being physical early on or just setting appropriate boundaries, boundaries that you stick to and that are your convictions. As a man, I can tell you that a man loves a woman with convictions personally because we find it challenging, but also because it's very attractive.

So develop your convictions and your boundaries, and then once you've earned his respect—and you'll know when you do—then being able to say things to him like, "Baby, I'm so proud of you" or "There's not another man who I want to call mine" or "I noticed these difficult things that have been going on in business or personally or whatever and you make me very proud to call you my boyfriend/my husband because of the way that you handle them."

Men have very fragile egos, as you probably know, and the one he looks to most in order to repair that is you. He's not going to look to his buddies to repair his ego very much. He's not going to be vulnerable enough with them. So, if you can earn a man's respect and then tell him through words like "I'm proud of you" and "You've done a good job" and "Wow, you've shown great courage" then you'll find that this man will never want anyone else.

Rather than you telling him that you love him when he's challenged or that you support him or any of those things—those are the things that you would want to hear. But what a man wants to hear is: "I'm proud of you. You're amazing. I can't believe the courage or the resolve that you've used." I hope that helps, and that's it. Talk to you later.




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