• SS 344: Kira Royale and Mike – A Café Swingset Interview - Duration: 53 minutes.

    • 2 weeks ago
    Kira Royale and Mike joined us in 2018 for our trip to paradise, and when Dylan Thomas put the call out for interviews, they physically jumped at the opportunity. They discuss swinger spaces and wh...
  • SS 343: Total Desire Recall 2, Part 2! - Duration: 59 minutes.

    • 3 weeks ago
    JV Altharas, and Shara Bono once again join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas to continue discussing the debauchery and delight that was… Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018.
  • SS 342: Polyamorous Authors and Representation, with Kevin Patterson and Alana Phelan - Duration: 1 hour, 7 minutes.

    • 1 month ago
    Authors of the new Paperback, For Hire: Operator, Alana Phelan and Kevin Patterson, join Dylan Thomas, Cooper S. Beckett, and Ginger Bentham to talk about being polyamorous authors and writing with...
  • SS 341: Total Desire Recall 2 - Duration: 57 minutes.

    • 1 month ago
    Tristan Taormino, JV Altharas, and Shara Bono join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas in reveling in the debauchery and delight that was… Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018.
  • SS 340: Tay, Jay, Lara and Patrick – A Café Swingset Interview - Duration: 57 minutes.

    • 1 month ago
    Life on the Swingset takes Desire 2018 was a rousing and rejuvenating success. During the trip, Dylan put out a call: Would you like to be interviewed? If so, bug me! Patrick, Lara, Jay, and Tay an...
  • SS 339: Just the Three of Us – A Café Swingset Chat - Duration: 1 hour, 22 minutes.

    • 1 month ago
    Uneven, difficult, unique, surprising, evolving, exceptional. These are all words that describe Cooper’s, Dylan’s, and Ginger’s lives on the Swingset. Tonight they turn down the lights, sit across...
  • SS 338: My Dinner With Swingset in Paradise – A Dinnercast - Duration: 1 hour, 53 minutes.

    • 2 months ago
    Join Cooper S. Beckett, Ginger Bentham, and Dylan Thomas, and Ophilia Tesla, The Professor, and Antonia Thomas, as they chat for nearly two hours over dinner at Sahlo, a restaurant at Desire Rivier...
  • SS 337: Relationship Struggles: Emotional Black Holes - Duration: 53 minutes.

    • 2 months ago
    Relationships are often worth the effort. People are worth the effort… until they’re not. Tonight, Bex Caputo and Lunabelle join Dylan Thomas and Ginger Bentham to discuss when the people we like s...
  • SS 335: Blowjobs² - Duration: 54 minutes.

    • 3 months ago
    Who doesn’t love talking about blow-jobs? Bex Caputo from the Dildorks Podcast rejoins Dylan Thomas, Cooper S. Beckett, and Ginger Bentham to continue on for a whole new episode, doing a deeper div...
  • SS 334: Gettin’ Some While on the Road! - Duration: 53 minutes.

    • 3 months ago
    One of the difficulties of being in a community like non-monogamy is that your people are spread all over the country and the world. Often we travel to travel to see them, and sometimes when travel...
  • SS 333: Giving and Receiving Amazing Blowjobs - Duration: 47 minutes.

    • 4 months ago
    Tonight Bex Caputo from The Dildorks podcast joins Cooper S. Beckett, Dylan Thomas, and Ginger Bentham to talk about giving and receiving amazing blowjobs. The crew offers tips, tricks, recount per...
  • SS 332: Revisiting Soft Swap & Full Swap – Styles of Swinging - Duration: 1 hour, 2 minutes.

    • 5 months ago
    Fin and Emma from the Normalizing Non-Monogamy podcast join Cooper, Dylan, Chris, and Lola to revisit Soft Swap vs. Full Swap and connect on why there’s still a useful distinction to make… and why ...
  • SS 331: Swinging and Polyamory when Broke AF - Duration: 1 hour, 12 minutes.

    • 5 months ago
    A lot of the people are pretty broke, though most are willing to add the caveat of privilege being able to basic niceties and even engage in a little treat every once in a while. Some of the trappi...
  • SS 330: Gang Bang the Mailbag 37 – Pet Play, Wallflowers, Canadian Clubs - Duration: 1 hour, 28 minutes.

    • 6 months ago
    Tonight’s Gang Bang the Mailbag is the crew’s 37th, and they’re doing it in force! Cooper S. Beckett, Dylan Thomas, Ginger Bentham, Dirty Lola, Mister Pent, and Dr. Liz Powell get together to answe...
  • SS 329: The Importance of Play, with Angelique Luna, Live at Poly Dallas Millennium! - Duration: 1 hour, 5 minutes.

    • 6 months ago
    Cooper S. Beckett and Dylan Thomas travel to Dallas for PolyDallas Millennium! There, they join with Angelique Luna (of the Living a Sex Positive Life podcast) to discuss the importance of play, es...
  • SS 328: Getting Back on the Horse - Duration: 55 minutes.

    • 6 months ago
    In an episode recorded September 22nd, 2017, Dr. Liz Powell, Dylan Thomas, and Mike Joseph get together to talk about getting back on the horse after loss, or anything else that may have taken them...
  • SS 265: Bi Invisibility & The Closet - Duration: 1 hour, 9 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    It’s no secret that in the pantheon of the LGBT spectrum, bisexual people are looked down upon, told they don’t really exist, avoided in dating life. Bisexuals also often feel less pressure to come...
  • SS 283: Ethical Unicorn Hunting in Swinging & Polyamory – Life on the Swingset - Duration: 1 hour, 29 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    While many people enter into non-monogamy when already “coupled,” there are some ways that folks approach this transition that can make folks like me feel more like prey than people. While there’s ...
  • SS 276: Our Finest Sexy Hours, #EXPLANABRAG - Duration: 1 hour, 16 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    Used to be, we’d talk pretty endlessly about our sexual activity on this podcast, to the point where our MOST NEGATIVE REVIEW EVER called us out for it. But that’s ages ago, and it’s been quite a w...
  • SS 275: The Myths of Sex & Porn Addiction with Dr. David Ley - Duration: 1 hour, 25 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    It seems to happen like clockwork. Someone cheats, or gets caught in some sort of sex scandal. They have to make amends, show that they’re working to fix “the problem” so they can return to their n...
  • SS 284: The Non-Monogamy Renaissance with Andre Shakti - Duration: 58 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    Non-monogamy is riding a wave. Recently CNN had a positive article about the fact that more and more young people are choosing some flavor non-monogamy over traditional relationship forms. Awarenes...
  • SS 285: Keeping it Sexy in Unsexy Times - Duration: 1 hour, 10 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    We’ve all had the experience of life getting in the way of our sexy. Sometimes life pounds us with things that try to compel us to STAY DOWN. Tonight, Ginger Bentham returns and joins Mike Joseph, ...
  • SS 288: Masturbation – Our Touching Origins! - Duration: 1 hour, 11 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    For many of us, masturbation is one of the first things to go when we’re depressed. Tonight we’re going to explore the flipside of our full throttled self love. The hows the whys the whens, on this...
  • SS 289: Gang Bang the Mailbag 32 – “My Wife and I” - Duration: 1 hour, 12 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    SS 289: Gang Bang the Mailbag 32 – “My Wife and I” 0

    Eighteen episodes is the longest we’ve ever gone without a ...
  • SS 290: Gang Bang the Mailbag 33 – My Wife and I, the Sequel - Duration: 1 hour, 23 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    We’re Gang Banging the Mailbag once again, it is in fact our 33rd time! Today, Dirty Lola, Cooper S. Beckett, Dr. Liz Powell, and Dylan Thomas answer your listener questions!

    Also, Dylan wants to ...
  • SS 291: Planning an Orgy – The Dynamics of Group Sex - Duration: 1 hour, 10 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    In traditional one on one sex, you pretty much know who you’ll be engaging with, but when that complexity deepens to three, four, five or more (which is where we switch to the term orgy) there are ...
  • SS 292: Building Our Sexy Community in the Most Pleasurable Place on Earth - Duration: 1 hour, 14 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    Over the last five years, the Swingset has seen first hand the glorious moments and difficulties of building our own community on our trips to the most pleasurable place on earth at Desire Resort i...
  • SS 287: Why In The Butt? The Joy of Anal Sex - Duration: 1 hour, 8 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    We talk about butts bunches. Many of us enjoy putting things in our butts. Some of us wish we enjoyed it. What we don’t often get into is the whys of butt play, how to make it better, how to explor...
  • SS 282: Playing with Disability w/ Andrew Gurza - Duration: 1 hour, 10 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    When we talk about privilege, it’s usually a matter of race and class, and boils down to us not seeing or not even knowing to look for the issues that others face. Andrew Gurza, our guest tonight, ...
  • SS 263: Let’s Get Sexting – Dirty Talk and Naked Pics - Duration: 1 hour, 30 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    We all send dirty comments, dirty pictures, full on sext-travaganzas with our partners, playmates, friends straddling the edge of naughty. Tonight we’re joined by the Swinging MILF herself, Sally S...
  • SS 260: Double Penetration and Other Varsity Sexual Moves - Duration: 1 hour, 11 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    There are few acts in the pantheon of sexuality that carry with them so much intrigue, coveting, and fear, as double penetration, and its more advanced siblings double vaginal and double anal. For ...
  • SS 264: Couples’ Privilege & the Notion of the Third - Duration: 1 hour, 21 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    As couples, so often we’re looking for the third. The unicorn usually. They’re rare, seemingly unobtainable, but when we find them it’s just so magical. Except that we’re often boxing that unicorn ...
  • SS 267: Swingset Takes Over Desire - Duration: 1 hour, 36 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    Life on the Swingset hosts its fifth annual trip to Desire Resort & Spa in Cancún, right in the heart of the Riviera Maya. Cooper, Dylan, Dr. Liz, Lyndzi, and Mr. Pent sit under the thatched roof a...
  • SS 296: Dick Pics and Dating Profiles with Cunning Minx - Duration: 1 hour, 29 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    When setting up your dating profile, be it monogamous, poly, or swinger, if you’re considering putting a big close up of your dick front and center, you MAY want to reconsider. Tonight the Cunning ...
  • SS 297: Pursuing Threesomes - Duration: 1 hour, 30 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    Dirty Lola, Cooper S. Beckett, and Dr. Liz Powell get together to discuss threesomes, the bests, the worsts, and the firsts
  • SS 278: From Dildos to Playrooms – Accessorizing Our Sexy Lives - Duration: 1 hour, 20 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    You’re all sexy and sophisticated human beings, You understand your sexuality and you enjoy both giving and receiving pleasure. Once you’ve figured all that out about yourself, where do you go? Wha...
  • SS 280: Sharing & Oversharing: Putting Our Sex Lives on Stage with Lucas Brooks & Kinky Jean - Duration: 1 hour, 21 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    After seven years of podcasting, it’s rather shocking to us how much we put of our lives out into the ether. A podcast can be very much like a living document in that way. What compels us to share ...
  • SS 279: The Allure of Paradise – The Swingset at Desire Resort - Duration: 1 hour, 44 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    Tonight we celebrate two things, first, our 7th anniversary as a podcast, and second our first takeover of Desire Resort last November. It’s no secret that there’s been some…stuff…happening in the ...
  • SS 281: Finding and Being Community Role Models with Kevin Patterson - Duration: 1 hour, 38 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
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    There is a sort of order from chaos that happens when like minded people discover others like themselves. Individuals become clusters, clusters become groups, and with groups come unavoidable growi...
  • SS 295: Mortality - Duration: 1 hour, 11 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    Most of us, especially when young, hope that death will never come, or at least not for a really really long time, and that can mean being unprepared when it does. Difficulties with visitation, inh...
  • SS 294: Game Changers: When Awesome People Upset our Carefully Planned Lives - Duration: 1 hour, 21 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    Non-monogamy definitely ups the ante on BUSY, which causes many of us to try to organize and plan our lives as carefully as possible. We say things like “I’m not going to date anyone new right now,...
  • SS 286: Making Porn: The Sexy, the Silly, & The Mundane, with Kate Sinclaire - Duration: 1 hour, 6 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    We’ve talked a lot about porn, often in high falutin ways about its importance (cuz it is important), its ability to change the world (cuz it has that), its danger of extinction (oh my the politics...
  • SS 272: Beyond Kinsey – Sliding Across the Sexuality Spectrum - Duration: 1 hour, 28 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    One of the main reasons that so many of us leave monogamous relationships is the realization that we or our partners may not be as hetero as we thought. Non-monogamy can provide an exceptional oppo...
  • SS 273: Cybersecurity for our Naughty Bits, aka: Bring on 2017 - Duration: 1 hour, 13 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    We’ve been overdue for for a rapprochement with one of our favorite past topics: Privacy and Security in Swinging & Polyamory.The team of Mister Pent and Dylan Thomas put together information about...
  • SS 293: Long Distance Relationships & Keeping it Sexy - Duration: 1 hour, 20 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    We have a habit here of finding people fascinating on social media and at conferences, and so often they seem to live so very far away… like many members of the Swingset. Mike Joseph, Cooper S. Bec...
  • SS 258: Gang Bang The Mailbag 29 – Post-Pregnancy Swinging, Grower vs. Shower - Duration: 1 hour, 3 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    Ginger takes the cords of the mailbag and sits down with Dylan and a LIVE STUDIO AUDIENCE as they answer listener questions for the 29th Gang Bang the Mailbag! The Swinger Doc also sits down for an...
  • SS 277: On Gender, Feminism & Non-Monogamy with Dedeker Winston - Duration: 1 hour, 16 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    It’s no secret that women may have dramatically different experiences entering into the non-monogamous world than men, whether it’s exploring dating on OkCupid, charting a path through swinger part...
  • SS 271: Gang Bang The Mailbag 31 - Duration: 1 hour, 14 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    Welcome to Gang Bang The Mailbag TRIPLE X (plus 1)! We’re recording tonight with a live (and muted) studio audience! As always, questions have been edited for content and clarity. As usual, answer...
  • SS 298: Putting Ourselves Out There In Sex & Relationships - Duration: 1 hour, 10 minutes.

    • 7 months ago
    It is always risky, telling people what you’re into, what you want, that you like them, but as we’ve found out it’s often essential in getting anywhere in non-monogamy and in life. Tonight Dirty Lo...
  • SS 259: Polyamorous as a Person of Color, with Mike Joseph - Duration: 16 seconds.

    • 7 months ago
    While we’re pretty good on the Swingset at talking about our experiences in polyamory and swinging, We have limits to our shared experience, so we reached out and asked Mike Joseph to join the Swin...
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