|How the videos on the Gerlach channel are organized|
|Were you traumatized as a child? How do you know?|
A veteran family therapist describes common effects of parental neglect, abandonment, and abuse
|Nine essentials most parents aren't teaching their kids. (Are YOU?)|
Ineffective parenting is epidemic in America because parents and teachers are unaware of 9 essential topics
|Are you a "Grown Wounded Child" (GWC)?|
Ineffective parenting promotes six psychological wounds in young kids. Do you have these wounds? Do your parents? Does your mate?
|Is the [wounds + unawareness] cycle harming you and your kids?|
A summary of the toxic unseen cycle of [wounds + ignorance] that passes down the generations
|Are you an EFFECTIVE parent? Were your parents effective?|
A veteran family therapist defines "effective" parenting, and summarizes 12 often-overlooked criteria for judging parental effectiveness.
|7 self-improvement lessons every adult (you) should study|
Parental ignorance promotes psychologically-wounded kids. This video summarizes vital topics that every family adult and supporter needs to study
|Have you promoted yourself to EQUAL yet?|
Many shame-based (wounded) people put their needs last, instead of EQUAL. Are you such a person?
|How to communicate effectively with kids - part 1 of 3|
A veteran family therapist suggests guidelines for communicating successfully with pre-teens - 1 of 3
|How to communicate effectively with kids - part 2 of 3|
A veteran family therapist suggests guidelines for communicating successfully with pre-teens - 2 of 3
|What typical kids of divorced parents need help with|
Minor kids of divorced parents have special adjustment needs they need informed help to fill - on TOP of their many normal developmental needs
|How to communicate effectvely with teens - part 3 of 3|
Unique factors to keep in mind in communicating with typical adolescents
|The truth about "pathological liars"|
Compulsively dishonest people are psychologically wounded, and deserve compasion, not scorn. Change your terminology!
|Do you know how to manage relationship "triangles"?|
Persecutor - Victim - Rescuer "triangles" stress all social groups. This video shows what causes them and how to manage them.
|Goals and requisites for EFFECTIVE child discipline|
A veteran family therapist proposes 6 goals and 6 requisites for EFFECTIVE child discipline
|Options for parenting "difficult" kids effectively|
Suggestions from a veteran family therapist to parents of "difficult" children
|An introduction to "family therapy"|
A veteran therapist outlines the goals and process of "family therapy"
|The REAL causes of "Parent Alienation Syndrome" (PAS)|
A veteran family therapist describes two little-known roots of excessive hostility between divorced parents.
|A different way to avoid and reduce personal "stress"|
"Stress" is caused by many personality "subselves" causing thougjts and feelings at once. Harmonize your subselves to reduce your stress!
|Are you "enabling" yourself or someone else?|
Avoid "enabling" harmful kids or adults!
|How to reduce the 3 REAL causes of "stress"|
Three core causes of daily and chronic stress, and how to reduce two of them
|Were you taught to be *empathic*? Can you develop your empathy now?|
What every adult caring for young kids needs to know about teaching them how to empathize with other people
|The Bomb in the Brain Part 1 - The True Roots of Human Violence|
A summary of research on the effects of "adverse childhood experiences" ("ACE's" = "child abuse")
|What you need to know about "power struggles" ("arguing")|
A veteran family therapist explores "power struggles," (e.g. with a willful child) and ways to avoid and stop them
|Are you getting enough friendly physical contact?|
What are you teaching your kids about healthy hugging, kissing, and caressing?
|Can you name the 4 stages of learning a skill?|
Learn how to judge where you are in the process of learning any skill - like preparing your kids for successful independent livinmg.
|Have you praised the people you appreciate recently?|
An invitation to verbally appreciate the kids and adults (and strangers) in your life
|Three keys to improving your Self control|
An effective way to avoid over-reacting to kids and adults
|The truth about "laziness"|
Do you feel a child is "lazy"? If so, learn the truth from this video by a family therapist
|An effectve way to reduce excessive procrastination|
Excessive procrastination can signifricantly reduce parental effectiveness.