Divining your relationship problems yourself

Nick Dutch ( http://www.nickdutch.co.uk ) acts as a professional tarot reader for a living. A tarot reading is an entertainment service that has the therapeutic benefit of a conversation (and can be good fun too!).

Nck Dutch also provides you with the access to occult / new age / magickal books and tarot cards ( http://www.bespoke-group.com/books/ ).

Nick Dutch also composes mind altering meditation recordings believed by some people to be useful in learning the "psychic arts" ( http://www.songcastmusic.com/profiles/BrainWaveMeditation )




Most of my inquiries are about relationships.
Often the problem in the relationships can be difficult to see, especially if you are in the middle of the relationship yourself and experiencing presuppositions, assumptions and other perceptual and cognitive issues that are affected by emotional issues associated with the relationship and its history.
Scientists know that we humans don't just think with our intellect and our intellect is guided by our emotions, so a conversation or maybe self developmental exercise be it written or verbal, may be useful.

Take a pen and paper and start to make notes:

1)Look at what you need to find out about the relationship.

2)Then work out why you need to find that out.

3)What emotional issue would it deal with and what would be the result of you finding that out?

4)What trigger issue has made you want to look for the solution?

Once you have got a good handle on the cause of your need to delve into this aspect of the relationship, you then need to think about what the discovery would lead you to find out?

1)How many answers are there to the question? Be honest!

2)What would each answer mean?

3)Are there some answers that you don't want to reach out of fear for what it means to the future?

Now look at the evidence:

1)Pen down the things that you have said and that your partner has said. Not everything! Just the things that are relevant to the situation at hand.

Now look at action.

1)What have you actually done?

2)What has your partner actually done?

Now comes the hardest bit.

1)Write down as many separate conclusions as you can as to what this means.

2)Then think about which ones are the most believable.

3)Then check this out with a friend or advisor to make sure that you are thinking about this in the right manner.

This should be a good way to help you get clarity about your relationship issues.

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Principled thinking would also be useful even to a tarot reader. Consider the principals given by Dr. Peter Breggin at the end of his podcasts, protect freedom, take responsibility at all times, express gratitude for your gifts and opportunities, and become a source of love.

[WiccanAlex]

such excellent advice Nick...blessings )O(