The Source of Self-Confidence and Intelligence - The Path To Great Success Chapter 9 Part II

Each person's life is full of interesting stories ....we only need to pay attention to these stories and give them energy to happen again...with more wonderful details.

The people, events, and experiences I hold high in my mind are the power and influences which shape my decisions and actions.

Some people gain self-confidence by visualizing the results they want - vividly, regularly, and clearly.

Some people maintain their self-confidence by training hard and practice a lot.

Some does it by saving money and investing it intelligently.

Some people choose to spend excessively and lead an expensive life.

Some people choose the wrong means - which are expensive, health-damaging, or spiritually-downgrading.

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When we have decided to do something such as achieving certain goals and producing certain results, we must take relevant actions. In order to do so we must have confidence - we must be able to actually take THE actions and do it until we get the results we want.

But when there is something holding us back - causing our hesitation and fears - we have problems to solve. If we take actions then someone say something that causes us to want to give up, we have a confidence problem.

Whenever our self-confidence is having a problem we need to know how to solve the problem. In order to solve this problem - and get our self-confidence to support our decision to take actions and pursue certain goals - we must know the causes.

Not knowing the causes (why our self-confidence can not work) can lead us to take wrong actions. When we do not handle the right causes, our self-confidence will still have a problem. It may become strong and active for a while and will soon fade into the background.

Knowing our sources of self-confidence help us protect our self-confidence. And we need strong and reliable self-confidence to pursue our goals. In addition, we do not want to keep this "confidence problem" and make other people take advantage on us.

If you do not know how to maintain your self-confidence, some people may say they have a remedy. But in many cases, this remedy do not last - it does not produce the solution we need. In a short time, our self-confidence begins to have some problem again.

Knowing our sources of self-confidence and self-esteem prevent us from making personal mistakes. You do not need to have the sources of self-confidence the way other people want. Your sources of self-confidence is your choices - it is your life.

The true sources of self-confidence are something and someone which we can always turn to, think of, feel about, and make us strong, confident, and want to do our best.

The faked ones will not help us this way - and you may have to spend a lot of money and attention to keep them paying attention to you.

It does not matter what make you become confident and strong - as long as it is acceptable, it is good enough. But if you can have the sources of self-confidence which are wonderful and appreciable, that is great.

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[turbokitty222]

I love to read like this because Im a slow reader ! Do the y make books like this this is better than audio books ,the option to read along side of an audio would be great also Thank you richtawee2007

[TedDGPoulos]

THE MOST FUNDAMENTAL QUESTION OF ALL:

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What is the underlying law of nature.

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As the way of all things, what effect do you suppose its question, knowledge, understanding and application by billions of persons will have on the state of global economics, science, the humanities, education, government and business?

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The underlying law of nature is the most important subject any person can investigate and learn about, can proceed to understand, and can then come to personally apply in life.

[anon94707]

quite possibly the most honest and accurate feel for self confidence I've seen. I think it's realistic to align yourself with beliefs and values that work for you. Awesome, thank you!