Uploader Comments (glamazini)
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i noticed a commenter say she wanted to know the why. i sometimes want to know the why too. i think that's because the what didn't hurt me as much as the why would you do that to me if you love me.
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Preach it sister!
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This so so very true aI don't want an apology with a disclaimer just say I'm sorry so we can move on.
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LOL @ Nobody cares about your explanation. YES! This is excellent for the holidays and the tensions that can come up when we get around family and unresolved issues. Good one!
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Great video! : )
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Amen to this video.
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You are Right!
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I was just talking to my husband about this one after the topic of Forgiveness came up on Chris Fabry Live. Many made the point that an explanation takes away from an apology, like its an excuse! From my vantage point we are all human and fail, so I don't care so much about the sorry, I mostly want the "why". My husband didn't care for either, he just wants the "how do we prevent this form happening again"? My feeling is that the reason tells me if I am dealing with a "good person" or a fool:)
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TRUTH!!! Thanks for sharing!
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"ears hanging off & everything..." Ha, ha!
Thanks for that free therapy!!! Good point about intent versus reasons. People will explain all day to avoid a simple "I'm sorry".....Some people seem to be allergic to apologizing...LOL
vonnababy2 2 months ago
@vonnababy2 :: YES! Why are you spending 95% of the time explaining and then I get a 5% barely "maybe I may've done something" 1/2 "apology". Please stop.
glamazini 2 months ago
This video is very helpful. Thanks for the number at the end. I'm not suicidal but I can use someone to talk to. Thanks again.
syberdeeva 2 months ago
@syberdeeva :: You're welcome.
glamazini 2 months ago
"I'm sorry I had shot you, but this is what you had did, and why I had shot you." LOL. You are so right! Marriage taught me this one. Just say sorry. Justification is not an apology. When an apology is followed with a "but...", it's often a justification.
lanicert 2 months ago
@lanicert :: That is a whole nother video! Marriage will burn the chaff off of you or else you won't survive! If you want to learn how messy you are get married. Help Jesus.
glamazini 2 months ago