Goth Talk: dealing with bullies

A mostly-sober me explaining some ways you can deal with bullies.

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[BubblegumMurder]

I love your vocabulary :D

"Oh God I wish you'd get Lou Gehrig's disease and burn in a pit of fire"

Where do you come up with that? It's so cool and quirky ^_^

[BatcaveDilemma]

@BubblegumMurder

Wishing Lou Gehrig's on people they hate is something a friend of mine does and it cracks me up.

[0Th3CastOut0]

You become a harder target and won't be bullied as much.

[0Th3CastOut0]

I was bullied a lot in elementary school, physically as well as verbally, it only stopped when I took a stand for myself like a year after it began, you have a right to defend yourself and even if you lose you gain more respect for trying than cowering, didn't have a problem again until middle school, did the same thing, I agree with her views on how to stop getting bullied but the peaceful approach cant always be taken, but you should always have confidence in yourself, if you accept yourself

[StyleShawn]

@SpiceAndWolfz500

Go and tell someone. I know It's hard but you need to talk becose i was bullied last year and i went and see my teacher and talk to her and she phoned the guy's parent's and he never even talked to me anymore and never bullied anyone else so really, you need to tell someone, if they beat you up, take them to court and they'll shut there mouths.

[TheMrsbenzedrine]

just the other day I got suspended because I blew up on some assholes making "emo" jokes. when I got home and the principle called, my mom bitched him out and said she's removing me from the school. My advice would be is to tell your parents that they're bothering you. they help more than anyone else.

[MrRockCandys]

Well today 'twas my first dy of high school and I got bullied already. Want to know the reason y? Walking past the boys toilets the called me a f....$ng pig and I'm in yr 7 and there like in yr 10 so idk will some1 plz help me?

[vivegermaniamagna]

@MadCupcake38 I was a premie too! The weird thing is I'm super tall and when I wear heels I get strange looks because I'm bout 6'2" in them and am taller than everybody in school. But nevertheless, I think it's because people are jealous of you because they could never put themselves out there and express themselves the way we do. Even if they aren't goth, they need their friends surrounding them to be able to do anything.

[StyleShawn]

@SolidVermillion

Thanks.. I really thank you for your advice :)

[SolidVermillion]

@StyleShawn Why be scared? Do you feel attractive or proud that way? I have a lot of black clothing, skulls, light gore, etc. I'm not goth, however I do feel beautiful looking darker. Everyone says, "Oh, you should let your hair go blonde again," and in grade six, I was called "emo" for wearing a wristband. >.>

I always just say I'm more comfortable this way. It's no concern of there's. If you get bullied, I don't suggest ignoring your feelings, or fighting back, just reply politely

[StyleShawn]

Ok so next year, im going in to college and im goth and im scared to be bullied...Becose first my brother don't accept me the way i am and he always tell me that next year i will get bully and maybe beated up. Can someone help me ?

[MadCupcake38]

Comments they don't bother me as much. I am happy with who I am. To anyone reading this, no matter what anyone else thinks, you are beautiful and have something to contribute to the world. Bullies are just ignorant and have nothing better to do and someday they way they treated people will come back to bite them on the ass

Stay strong and I'm always able to chat to any of you about issues like this. You can message me if you want to chat :D