Painful Sex - Should It Still Hurt?

I lost my virginity over a year ago, but every time we have sex it feels like losing my virginity all over again. Should it still be hurting? Is this normal?

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[donaldthescotishtwin]

sex is ment to be a joyfull thing for a woman not a painfull thing unless it goes to far and fast

[deLaughing1]

As usual, these video responses are awesome! You two give such dead-on right feedback to all those people out there who think they are the ONLY not-normal freaks in the world. Believe me, as someone who fields sexual/relationship questions regularly, everyone has something they think or do which could be considered by SOME as 'weird'...ask these two, you'll be well-informed and it'll put that smile back on your face...like, right after you 'did it'! Thanks

[maypakialam]

@AmandaRayne123 I finally realized that God is indeed a MALE because:

1.) If God is a female, she would never inflict women with painful intercourse. Her empathy towards women's feelings will always prevail.

2.) It is known in history that men treat women as property. So if God inflicts a woman with vaginismus, thick hymen or dry vagina, then her vagina is God's property to control the population.

Prime Vaginismus = nun's vagina or celibacy. I'm now an enlightened man.

[AmandaRayne123]

lube doesnt' do anything for pain. it makes it a bit

easier to get it in there but it still hurts

[Cselestyna]

Okay I'm kind of disappointed in this response. there were some good things mentioned, but what about Vaginismus and Vulvodynia? these are two hugely un-talked about issues and it's so upsetting that it's just looked over, it's such an important part of female sexual issues and not enough people know about it, females included.

[Cselestyna]

it feels like he's yelling at me.

[maypakialam]

@fingerboy18 She's really not meant to have an intercourse. Her mind is consenting to it but her vagina does not. Her vagina belongs to God.

1 out of 1,000 women have Vaginismus, which means that 1 out of 1,000 women is special in the eyes of God.

[fingerboy18]

@maypakialam She never really masturbated before, which is another reason why it may hurt so much. It's more likely a psychological issue. The brain can subconsciously do things to our bodies. When we put our fingers in our eyes to put contacts in, do we have much control over them shutting? No, it just happens. She needs to become more comfortable with her body. I would never penetrate her if it hurts her and we both have consent when we have sexual relations.

[maypakialam]

@fingerboy18 She may have limited or lack of masturbation skills. Vaginal masturbation teaches women how to use their vagina. If she doesn't know how to use it, then God owns it.

Type the keywords "Fingering/Stretching previous to sex yahoo answers" on Google.

Vaginismus may be the strongest evidence that God exist. Some higher power can manipulate a woman's body for population control. Penetrating an unwilling vagina is rape.

[yobiwolrd07]

@peymaania

SMH WOW THANK GOD MEDICINE HAS IMPROVED

[fingerboy18]

@maypakialam I don't believe in god, nor is this an appropriate explanation. We have had intercourse previously and it might be a matter of frequency of trial for her vagina to accommodate sex.

[maypakialam]

@fingerboy18 She may have Primary Vaginismus. It is an involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles. Penetration becomes impossible and painful for her. Her vagina became an instrument of God's population control. Primary Vaginismus = nun's vagina or celibacy.

There are two forms of God's natural birth control:

1.) Primary Vaginismus

2.) Having a Thick Hymen

Sex is not for everyone. Some are unfit for sex. God OWNS her vagina to control the population.