Long-distance relationships

A video for a subscriber about long-distance relationships... tips and advice!

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[Kaster04]

whats some of the clues in a long distance relationship, that might tell a person. the other person is cheating?

[daruna]

@Kaster04 Well, let me first say that even the best "signs" of cheating cannot prove anything. They can only give you a general idea. Ultimately, to know for sure, you have to ask the person, and then trust (or not trust) what they say. Barring that the only way to know is a lie detector test (which is not cheap).

As for clues that a person is cheating:

If they grow distant, make constant excuses, start talking about other people (or seeing other people, or open relationships).

[Jayspoon]

I know I'm gonna sound like a jerk, but w/e Why are people asking you for dating advice if your so Emo about yourself? What would you know about Relationships if you cant even obtain one? Dont say things about yourself negatively and then resume the topic...just stop it! lol

[daruna]

Jayspoon, you're right, you did sound like a jerk. To answer your question, heard the saying "those who can, do, those who can't teach"?

I'm terrible at getting a relationship because gay culture is different from straight culture, and it's harder for me to find gay guys since I'm in Texas, the lone star of the bible belt.

I give good advice about heterosexual relationships. The fact I can't seem to START one (which usually require meeting someone) doesn't mean I'm clueless at how it works.

[Jayspoon]

I never heard of that saying but it just sounds illogical to me, How can you teach something you never practiced? And Texas is HUGE! I'm pretty sure there are plenty of Gay males there...what other reason could you have

[daruna]

Hey, that's not a saying I came up with, just one I know. Texas is HUGE, so, take the "plenty" and spread it out over Texas and... well not so many "out" guys in my area.

Besides, I said that this video is about relationships in general. Anyone can take this advice, and if they do, they'll be more likely to succeed. You don't have to be in a relationship to know how to make one work. If it counts for anything I have had an LDR before. Additionally, I am who I am. If I'm Emo, so what?

[Fluteboy9473]

Btw, were only 13, do you think that's too young?

[Fluteboy9473]

I live in new jersey and I'm trying to start a long distance relationship with this girl in California, we only met once before, so I'm not sure what to do. We email each other straight for a few hours a day, does that mean she likes me? And, I feel afraid that she's going to reject me because I've always liked her so much, plz help!

[zhanlen]

Thanks for the video, you give useful advises :o)

[nabreakdance]

love your vids man!