How to Be Beyoncé to Get BETTER Men! TonyaTko Speaks!

After reading a letter from a young lady I had to make an empassioned video response urging all young ladies to evoke their inner Beyoncé and think WWBD (What Would Beyoncé Do?!)... Never again get misused!

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[sycjoe]

If that person thought you had paws for 8 1/2 feet then they should have seen my size 10's. lol I haven't had anyone talk about my feet because I usually let it known that my feet are big and they wouldn't like it up their ass. Good video. :)

[TonyaTko]

LMAO! You made me laugh so hard with that last part! Totally unexpected hahaha

-Tko

[aldininika]

im gonna dress up as you today!!!! Your Awesome!!!! ILY

[TonyaTko]

And what pray tell shall you wear Aldi?

-Tko

[1DjRadeoConscyous]

what do you use to die your hair??? I always thought it was bad for your hair to die your hair; but I never really knew for sure; but I like alot how your scarf matches your hair exactly.

[TonyaTko]

Dying is VERY bad for your hair and making it lighter is the WORST. But Im glad that I only have an inch of hair otherwise I definitely wouldnt risk it. I condition it almost daily though.... And thank you. I'm glad you like the color.

-Tko

[cynthiasoka]

i am perfect just the way i am!!

[Avalita07]

"give them your virginity after they buy you a pack of FRIES!!!"" LOL LOL LOL I wanna be your friend girl..you tell it like it is!!!

[misztoosaszy]

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[glittermeaway]

You are a beautiful woman Tonya. And have a very positive and magnetic attitude . I love your videos.

[msparke1]

girl i am happy you are here to teach me thank you girl.

[TremendouslyTanya]

Respond to this video... TonyTKO you're a beautiful woman. Continue to encourage women 

[TremendouslyTanya]

@PANTY2TITE

You are a very bitter and ugly person.

[Emptymoon1]

I so love you, girl, you are fabulous!!!

[imckbe]

I love you. Would you marry us? Have to ask.

My father would ask me when I was crushing on someone.."can you accept them as is? Or do you need to fix them?" Then I knew if I truly loved them or not. A lot of women go into a relationship thinking that their love will change him. This is hurtful.

[justonevoicecan27]

Hi Tonya, Im a 27 year old female, I just started watching your videos this week, and you are so straightforward and insightful...your videos are very helpful :)

[taoofgravity]

It's only a bandaid for a bullet wound if that's the only way we deal with the hurt someone else left behind. Everything you said is on point but we still have to confront that hurt, pain, negative self talk and where it came from and why we believe it before we try to add positive selftalk on top of it. I ended up with control issues that I did not realize I had. I went to take all of that outer self down and it left me unbelievably sensitive for a few years. You can't run from it. :)

[taoofgravity]

The only thing about the costume is that we still need to deal with and confront those issues before/during this "pumping up" of the self phase. I say this from experience. While my outer self wasn't about glamor, beauty, and flash, it was a natural defense mechanism to a rough childhood. People hate, but it works. Once I saw the bad and undesirable traits in there as I got older I had to take it all down to deal with ME. So what you're saying about the "costume" or adopted attitude is true but