You might be able to actually help with a problem. What would you do if you were a Cappy with a 10th house Mars in Virgo conjunct retro Pluto and retro Uranus, squaring a 2nd house Venus conjunct Mercury in Sag? To make things even worse, I have Saturn in Pisces, 4th hs squaring my first hs Moon. Yes, it looks ugly. Love is the big hairy monster that every now and then comes to destroy everything. I think you could name those squares Grendel. Relocation might give me a marginal chance or...
you were a bartender from age 15 - 24, wow. it must be venus in the seventh that makes you good at dealing with the public in general. And what is bartending?, is that a sixth house activity? Or a combination of both the sixth and seventh house?
So wow, basically upon first meeting and establishing a rapport, you never scare the person away, however, after the relationship starts, is ur martian and saturnian influence sort of scaring away the other person away?
That is true but it would be superficial and only take me maybe a day at the most before my real personality shows itself. In this way that Libra stuff is a problem.... that I solve by not concealing the rest of my nature from first contact.
If you were to strike up a conversation with someone on the street, Id imagine that they would perceive you as someone who is friendly and sociable. And I guess with your venus in the seventh house, you have no trouble starting a relationship of some sort with that person.
Yeah, sort of. But I have a ton of Capricorn so lots of fear. Thing is my desire for relationship trumps all.
Also, when I say reveal your personality, I mean reveal YOUR personality. If you aren't the type to approach someone then you are not. It is the "coy" thing that is so UN compelling. That and the expectation someone is supposed to come dig up your personality... :)
You might be able to actually help with a problem. What would you do if you were a Cappy with a 10th house Mars in Virgo conjunct retro Pluto and retro Uranus, squaring a 2nd house Venus conjunct Mercury in Sag? To make things even worse, I have Saturn in Pisces, 4th hs squaring my first hs Moon. Yes, it looks ugly. Love is the big hairy monster that every now and then comes to destroy everything. I think you could name those squares Grendel. Relocation might give me a marginal chance or...
jannevellamo 11 months ago
It is Capricorn too - you run the show - you are in charge
ElsaElsacom 2 years ago
you were a bartender from age 15 - 24, wow. it must be venus in the seventh that makes you good at dealing with the public in general. And what is bartending?, is that a sixth house activity? Or a combination of both the sixth and seventh house?
AntiATIfan 2 years ago
No, I reveal right away - if I am not to their liking, I'd just as soon know, not waste my time.
ElsaElsacom 2 years ago
So wow, basically upon first meeting and establishing a rapport, you never scare the person away, however, after the relationship starts, is ur martian and saturnian influence sort of scaring away the other person away?
AntiATIfan 2 years ago
Yes and very heavily Saturnian and Mars-y aggressive. And big mouthed! None of this is "nice" and veneer-ish
ElsaElsacom 2 years ago
Is your real personality, in the day to day operations of ur intimate relationship, the 8th house?
AntiATIfan 2 years ago
That is true but it would be superficial and only take me maybe a day at the most before my real personality shows itself. In this way that Libra stuff is a problem.... that I solve by not concealing the rest of my nature from first contact.
ElsaElsacom 2 years ago
If you were to strike up a conversation with someone on the street, Id imagine that they would perceive you as someone who is friendly and sociable. And I guess with your venus in the seventh house, you have no trouble starting a relationship of some sort with that person.
AntiATIfan 2 years ago
Yeah, sort of. But I have a ton of Capricorn so lots of fear. Thing is my desire for relationship trumps all.
Also, when I say reveal your personality, I mean reveal YOUR personality. If you aren't the type to approach someone then you are not. It is the "coy" thing that is so UN compelling. That and the expectation someone is supposed to come dig up your personality... :)
ElsaElsacom 2 years ago