I am Gay, But I Don't Want My Daughter To Be Gay

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I am a Lesbian woman. I came out to my children about years ago. They flipped out. It took awhile for them to deal with the fact that their mother is gay. I couldn't understand why they had a problem accepting me because a lot of our family is gay. ( fast forward) I came the other day and my daughter wanted me to meet one of her friends. So I walked into her room and I seen an "obvious lesbian" sitting in the chair. I almost hit the floor. I was confused, my daughter was the number one person protesting about me being gay. I just stood there and stared at this girl. When her company left I ask her what was the deal with the girl. She told me the girl liked her, I said to her but your not gay? right?. She said that her and the girl have been in a relationship for about a month. ( shocked again) I had a long talk with her and talked about the discrimination she will experience and etc, etc..

To be honest I don't like it at all, I'm confused and a little angry over her choice to be gay, but I know I Know you are saying I'm gay. I just don't understand why I have a problem with it. Please some advice with this. Also, I told her don't tell her siblings about this...

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[XxXsaoirse1997XxX]

@MrDeadsea000 She couldve only found out that she was gay after she had her daughter with a man, Different people find out at different stages who they are :)

[xNickieMonroex]

@MrDeadsea000 She might have adopted, or like gotten.... inserted or whatever. There are many ways.

[recoverycln]

I think the point of saying that the message the daughter should be recieving from her mother is how to be who she is in the society. that point was very well stated.

[MrDeadsea000]

How did she have a daughter ?

[gyqz]

How can any parent ( gay or straight) demand their child to stay in the closet? EVERYBODY knows that lying about your true self hurts and damages! As a gay mother you should know that coming out and showing the true you only empowers and makes you take on the world! Staying hidden makes you non-existent....

[peppermone1]

exactly y does it have to b all of this shame on you stuff?! really her mother is doing that because she apparently went through something drastic possibly concerning her emotions so she justs wants things to go over a little smoother for her daughter

[MrSanchez306]

@ChristopherAngelies She just don't want her daughter to go through what she did, I would accept my son or daughter for who they are but would like for them to be straight.

[ChristopherAngelies]

Wiat wiat wiat

, You gay but Want to assure your kid is streight ? Thats what this about

thats pretty hypocryticle aint it ?WTF

[gainpro]

@bulldogkid180 i hate how people incorrectly use the word "homophobic". it's suppose to state a fear, when in reality, it is not fear they are trying to point out, but more of a hateful prejudice of gay people..... or like me a political disagreement. but ironically your trying to make "homophobic" people look ignorant, when truthfully your just furthering the people against you to look more like they're in the right. good job, your a gay person, how do you feel?

[LACraig621]

AREN`T YOU BEING A HYPOCRITE ALSO WHEN YOU JUDGE THIS LADY FOR JUDGING HER DAUGHTER. GAYS ARE JUST TOTALLY CONFUSED.