@clavo420 You have a point about some people's attitude, but the guy should have moved on unless he just enjoyed hurting people like she said. I could have beat a woman I was with for lying to me, saying crazy things that would hurt me for years, for cheating on me and then saying I was wrong to accuse her of it when I caught her, etc., but I didn't. I left her. She married a guy less than 3 months later who she knew she can control, force him to hit her on cue and then rob him by divorce.
@happycat2010 Alleged abuse victims do a lot wrong. 1. If they stay, it's their fault. I've been in the situation and as much as I wanted to stay, I knew it wasn't probably going to get better. I almost let her convince me to marry her, but I tested her true commitment and it wasn't true in the end. Abusers love the game and hate themselves and others. You can't change them, you have to go, just like you eventually did.
@happycat2010 Let's not forget women victimize men as much as well (every 15 seconds). School and tv teaches us it's only women and tells men to man up and put up with it.
@clavo420 It's assholes like you that need to be behind bars because it's assholes like you that are abusive. Karma is a bitch and it hunts for people like you . So if you hear a knock on your door don't answer it.
@clavo420 It's assholes like you that need to be behind bars because it's assholes like you that are abusive. Karma is a bitch and it hunts for people like you.
@happycat2010 See? It's this attitude you're displaying right now that get's you beat up. I don't know you personally that's right, but i can tell you haven't changed from the mouthy bitch that forced her man to take action.
@clavo420 I oughta give you a good ass whipping...you need it. You don't know my situation. All it takes is some nasty , cowardly bastard and they will abuse anyone. This guy was nasty to everyone it wasn't just me. I kind of get the feeling you are the same way.
@happycat2010 Wrong again, just because your cries for attention bring on ass whippings, doesn't mean they're stil not your fault. You want attention but don't know the proper way of going about it, so you end up doing or saying somthing stupid and end up getting slapped around for it.
@clavo420 Abuse victims aren't doing ANYTHING wrong. They are abused by someone who most of the time has a past history of abuse OR who has other underlying issues. I was a victim 11 years ago. It is not because of what I was doing, it seemed like I could not do enough to please the S.O.B. I am fortunate that I was wise and had the courage to tell someone and I was able to safely escape. The marriage did not last long at all. Now I am living a good life. I want to help other victims.
@clavo420 You have a point about some people's attitude, but the guy should have moved on unless he just enjoyed hurting people like she said. I could have beat a woman I was with for lying to me, saying crazy things that would hurt me for years, for cheating on me and then saying I was wrong to accuse her of it when I caught her, etc., but I didn't. I left her. She married a guy less than 3 months later who she knew she can control, force him to hit her on cue and then rob him by divorce.
MadeByEduNotLaziness 6 months ago
@happycat2010 Alleged abuse victims do a lot wrong. 1. If they stay, it's their fault. I've been in the situation and as much as I wanted to stay, I knew it wasn't probably going to get better. I almost let her convince me to marry her, but I tested her true commitment and it wasn't true in the end. Abusers love the game and hate themselves and others. You can't change them, you have to go, just like you eventually did.
MadeByEduNotLaziness 6 months ago
@Miikaika25 ...And women don't ever do this? They do it as much as men and it's worse because there's no enforcement when a women does it.
MadeByEduNotLaziness 6 months ago
@happycat2010 Let's not forget women victimize men as much as well (every 15 seconds). School and tv teaches us it's only women and tells men to man up and put up with it.
MadeByEduNotLaziness 6 months ago
@clavo420 It's assholes like you that need to be behind bars because it's assholes like you that are abusive. Karma is a bitch and it hunts for people like you . So if you hear a knock on your door don't answer it.
happycat2010 7 months ago
@clavo420 It's assholes like you that need to be behind bars because it's assholes like you that are abusive. Karma is a bitch and it hunts for people like you.
happycat2010 7 months ago
@happycat2010 See? It's this attitude you're displaying right now that get's you beat up. I don't know you personally that's right, but i can tell you haven't changed from the mouthy bitch that forced her man to take action.
clavo420 7 months ago
@clavo420 I oughta give you a good ass whipping...you need it. You don't know my situation. All it takes is some nasty , cowardly bastard and they will abuse anyone. This guy was nasty to everyone it wasn't just me. I kind of get the feeling you are the same way.
happycat2010 7 months ago
@happycat2010 Wrong again, just because your cries for attention bring on ass whippings, doesn't mean they're stil not your fault. You want attention but don't know the proper way of going about it, so you end up doing or saying somthing stupid and end up getting slapped around for it.
clavo420 7 months ago
@clavo420 Abuse victims aren't doing ANYTHING wrong. They are abused by someone who most of the time has a past history of abuse OR who has other underlying issues. I was a victim 11 years ago. It is not because of what I was doing, it seemed like I could not do enough to please the S.O.B. I am fortunate that I was wise and had the courage to tell someone and I was able to safely escape. The marriage did not last long at all. Now I am living a good life. I want to help other victims.
happycat2010 8 months ago