Ordinary Black Men vs. the Single Mom

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[wlkgbrft1]

If you are a man who is waiting till marriage to have sex then you can complain about single moms. If you have ever had sex with any woman you are not married to, then you are half the problem of the plague of single mothers.

[ghost2101]

@wlkgbrft1

i never got anyone pregnant so im not part of the problem AT ALL!!!

[nagone11]

Stay the fuck away from the single moms out here today. Stay the fuck away, they are pretty inferior mates for the man on the move going somewhere. Just look at why they are in that position? Bad choices, questionable value system, and no respect for the father figure. Stay the fuck away, it only gets worse as time goes on. Look out for yourselves guys get your priorities straight, fuck these useless babes. Shoot for the stars guys in all things, women, school, jobs, ect. Don't settle for B.S. !

[BobbyL5757]

@ashleyjordynn If you really cared about your child you would have picked a man who wants to be a FATHER. Children need BOTH parents and no amount of feminist bullshit will change that.

[ashleyjordynn]

I have to remind myself that this is also YOUR opinion and its based off of your experiences. You do not speak for all of our situations or circumstances, just your own. I am not offended at the video b/c everyone has an opinion but I have never been in those situations. I've never taken my kid out on dates or any of the other things you brought up....

[ashleyjordynn]

@BobbyL5757 And she probably makes more money because as of 2009 black women earned 66% of all bachelors degrees awarded to African Americans and 72% of all masters degrees in the same category. This is found on the national center for ed statistics if you want to know where my sources are from. So with that being said, how much money do YOU have and where the hell do YOU stand? Whether I have a kid or not if he isnt doing shit I dont want him anyway.

[ashleyjordynn]

@BobbyL5757 Where is your research that supports this claim??? Do you have data, facts, or stats? No you don't. You can only speak for yourself and your experiences. This video only addresses some men and not all men and it isn't an absolute truth or fact. Now I make MY OWN money b/c I want to and not b/c I need a savior or a provider for my child. By the way 11.2% of corporate officers are women so who is handing out jobs?..... RIGHT men!

[ashleyjordynn]

@BobbyL5757 Wedlock means nothing!!!! At the end of the day if he isnt ready he isnt ready whether married or not. Everyone and anyone can walk away so do not put the fault on us for choosing to be the one parent who stays and raises OUR kids. It takes two to create a life not ONE. Marriage does not secure a father!!! My older brother and I have different dads b/c my mom was married and my bro's dad walked out so your claim has absolutely no value.

[ashleyjordynn]

When I want to go out I have a responsible sitter on call that I PAY for because I am an adult and thats what adults do. My child is well behaved b/c she has a MOTHER raising her and not a black woman with a kid (there is a difference!). So questioning our values, calling us losers, bad choices, petty is foolishness. When I date a man I am not asking for a savior I am seeking a partner on equal footing not someone who can pull me up and carry me.

[ashleyjordynn]

I am single black mother. I have been alone with my child since I was six months preg with her. YES my kid comes first always however, I have never been on welfare (no food stamps, WIC, Medicaid etc). I had her in my third year of undergrad, I have my masters now, a career (teacher), and a house. Some of the comments on here are pretty offensive. I have never asked anybody to provide for me and mine and I do not need or require a savior.... Its only complicated if you allow it to be.....

[Nylonstrings777]

Women who made bad choices...Yes. Fooled by men who act like really Nice or gentelmen..NO. These young women are not attracted to these men, they are attracted to men who are thugs and bad boys. I like you commentary. Great.