3 Types of Sistas BM should date (if they want a functional relationship)

An excerpt from the Tariq Nasheed's MackLessons Radio Show.
www.macklessonsradio.com

Its sounds damning to westernized sistas but I generally find it to be sound advice. What's your take?

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[brownhornet22]

Black women collectively will never admit to being wrong about anything. I, as a black man, can concede that we black men account for at least 50% of the problems between BM and BW. And most BM I know will agree, a lot of us BM need to get our shit together. But BW will never admit that they are part of the problem as well, and like an alcoholic who won't admit he's an alcoholic, nothing gets done in the way of improving the situation. BW need to come off their damn high horse for once.

[Khemistry101]

@brownhornet22

They will...after its too late.

[hammondb333]

did he say black female mother?

[Khemistry101]

@hammondb333

Yep.

[BruhMan09]

@Lashid4u

No offense Lashid4u but you do have a video called "Thug Appeal"? Talking about the "appeal" that thugs, badboys, criminals, and other delinquents have on many (not all) sistas. This could be one of several reasons why a lot of black men will try and fit into the negative stereotypes. There are brothas who aren't the stereotypes but are not "appealing" to many (not all) sistas. This is why Tariq is telling brothas (who aren't the stereotype) what type of sistas to deal with

[SLICENSLASH]

@Lashid4u, honestly sistah I get real tired of women saying A REAL MAN can accept& work with any black women regardless of how deprived, dysfunctional, or sketchy,etc her background is.

I'm tired of women challenging Men's manhood based on his willingness &ability 2deal with her issues.

We dont challenge female's womanhood by saying she's Not A REAL WOMAN if she Can't deal with men's unemployment, drug use, incarceration, abusive behavior,a/o lack or parenting. We tell them just the opposite.

[sadelover100]

@sadelover100 Correction not "you can't" but its inhumane and non logical to hold the mistake of a child against an adult who's ready, wlling and able to turn the page and make a positive contribution to society...that's pure wickedness and systematic genocide

They killed one Malcom X who escaped Mental Colonial imprisonment...Now they target our babies in Public schools to be certain that threat NEVER exist again

[sadelover100]

@impatientwithdesire We don't have the Political or Economic Power to imprison and miseducate ourselves..you can't hold someone to a mistake made as a kid..system of no second chances

"Power creates Class and Functions to serve under the system...Everyone can't be Criminal class..so buffer Classes are created to give ILLUSIONS of Democracy and Freedom.. but the sole purpose of Every Class is to SERVE the system of White Supremacy"....loose quote from Dr. Amos Wilsons SELF HATRED discuss

[sadelover100]

@impatientwithdesire Non black communities promote Homosexuality and Hate..they abuse and severely limit their women...in regards to who they can date, love and Marry.or else she will be cut off, ostracized and Bank accounts frozen,

If you're refereing to White men, you are completely delusional and a liar. They are the essence of Insecurity, Fear, Abuse of Power and Global destruction...

[Tygabone]

The negative energy and stereotypes on this page make me want to be anything other then black - how did we go from black is beautiful to black people aint shit in a couple of generations - We watch far too much TV

[JGvisions]

when this cat said the second type of black women to date which was women raised by non-black women, he was so on point. Culture and Social upbringing is very important and plays a major role in shaping a person, period! Its our culture that is damaging us and is inimical to our survival. change the culture and you change the BS.

[impatientwithdesire]

Blaming black women or blaming white men does NOT answer the question of WHY black men continue to go to jail, sell drugs, kill each other, become thugs, run out on their children, abuse their women as publicly as possible and do nothing to better their communities.

Nonblack men would be ASHAMED to have ANY ONE OF THOSE under their belt at the rate black menhave..but black men are soooo proud of themselves and their lack of taking responsibility.

When will yall man up?!

[impatientwithdesire]

So yall sit around saying black women are supposed to act like nonblack women-be prissy and quiet and submissive. BUT WHAT YALL DONT SHARE IS THE FACT THAT NONBLACK MEN BRING THINGS TO THE TABLE THAT WOULD DESERVE THAT BEHAVIOR FROM THEIR WOMEN!

ALL women like bad boys-but what other men realize by 25 is that being a bad boy wont make his woman happy forever and therefore he gets his ass into work and school so he can help! he is unselfish!

How many bm think like that?

[impatientwithdesire]

Thats one thing i notice about black communities in comparison to nonblack communities.

Nonblack men are EXPECTED to be manly, take care of their communities, respect women, raise their children, get educated, work, get great careers.

Now....explain to me where are BLACK MEN expected to do these things?

Yall blame bw for yall being thugs..tellme-how can a grown ass man say someone else forced him to be something he doesnt want to be?

How can any woman make you a thug if you dont want to be?

[impatientwithdesire]

If everyone has work to do then why is their always an emphasis on what bw need todo? arent bm part of the everyone?

Where are the rules on bm taking care of their children?

The horrible attitudes that bw have to put up with?

The lack of community care from black men?

The lack of black menrepresenting black beauty like nonblack men represent their women?

Where ARE THOSE RULES?

Bm are ALWAYS judging bw on what they do wrong and NEVER uplifting bw but yall NEVER talk about what YALL need to do!

[BruhMan09]

@impatientwithdesire

He's talking about black women not what black men need to do. Yes, we know black men are not perfect but we always hear about black men's flaws 24/7. Black women are never really called for their bad actions/behavior. Everyone has some work to do