Aspie or autistic sex: sexuality & intimacy

I want to know if there are other aspies who are hyper-sensitive to touch and how this affects intimacy.

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[freedomfriestastebad]

true aspies understand that sex is a waste of time and does not invent anything.

[miasansom]

@freedomfriestastebad it invented a few remarkable daughters in my case. Yours is a comment of opinion and not fact.

[ThePoletka]

I dont think you are an aspie , for sure ther is smthg wrong but its not an autism

[miasansom]

@ThePoletka thank you very much for your diagnosis. What are your determining factors, and are they more accurate than a professional's? Also, there is nothing "wrong" with me or anyone else who has any degree of autism.

[miasansom]

Here is the comment that was deleted by the author but that I still recieved in my inbox. User now blocked:

"1941 is the right period for you - as aged as your petty and decreped ideology nazi reptile"

user: djfmitv

[miasansom]

If the comment was not intended for this video, then someone should let me know, and I will correct it.

[MyEventHorizon2012]

@Luka2234 I may not have sympathy in "the moment" of an event, but after process time I do have sympathy and empathy. Just because it is delayed, does not mean I HAVE NONE. I also have total recall of the feeling of sympathy in moments I am lacking it. People on the spectrum get criminally abused traumatically EVERY DAY by non autistics in ways you can not even dream. @guard175 Overall I am a very loving caring person, I agree I would do more on the street than the average person too

[intricatic]

What is sexuality? I seem to have forgotten over the past ten years. =P

I have always had issues with intimacy. Sensitivity to touch can twist itself into non-sensation sometimes, and I've never been able to express what this means or how it happens, properly - I always end up sounding strange. I tend to shy away from intimacy, honestly. That's for my own emotional stability more than anything else, though.

[USERNAMEKLEMPTOR]

@guard175 that sucks same here :(

[TheSuhreeuhlTube]

@miasansom :)

[guard175]

@Luka2234 You have NEVER known anyone on the spectrum, have you.

We have trouble guessing what others feel, but that doesn't mean we don't care!

Saying that Autistics have no sympathy is like saying that a deaf person wouldn't care about someone getting shot behind their back because they don't hear the gun.

If I saw someone shot on the street, I would probably do more to help than you would!

[guard175]

My experience (I am male) is basically that I enjoy the physical closeness, touching and psychological intimacy more than the act itself. Every time I have ever had sex, I have always been left disappointed. I want it, but I don't enjoy it... :-( I just wish I could enjoy it as much as others do.

[Luka2234]

@TheWolfMan1941 Spot on! They also have no capacity for sympathy, hence all the school shootings and senseless violence against innocent people.

[Luka2234]

@freedomfriestastebad it invents more tard kids to mess up society.