What do you do if you are interested in someone who already has a girlfriend/boyfriend?

A viewer wants to know how he should handle this situation: He likes this girl, but she already has a boyfriend! Still, they are good friends, but he wants more. Whatever you do, don't play second fiddle to her boyfriend. She might be playing some sick game. She has this guy who she is seeing but has you waiting in the wings. Don't give her the satisfaction! You are no one's second choice! Don't be so available. Be her friend but don't be around all the time. Make plans with other people. At some point, she might wake up and smell the roses and realize you are the one for her, not this clown she's seeing. But until that happens, meet other people. And who knows, you might meet someone else who is more compatible with you.

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[mariedubuque]

prettid1--I think they will break up soon enough.

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XxDr--Whatever you do, don't wait around for her. Consider her only a friend, and if something else develops down the road, ok, but don't count on it. You are her go-to guy when she breaks up with her boyfriend. You don't want to be that! You've got to be her number one. So until that happens, keep a little distance.

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Danielle--You've got to take a step back here. Let the rough girl have him. You don't need to be competing with anyone, you are better than that. And if he sees you are distancing yourself a little, he will wonder why, and probably choose you!

[mariedubuque]

@lilmamarockstar27--It sounds like he is just trying to string you along. He's a player. I would stay away. Or at least distance yourself, Then he will wonder what happened to you!

[mariedubuque]

Clackbelt, don't do anything until she breaks up with this guy. Until then, talk to her as a friend, and see if there is any chemsitry there.

[mariedubuque]

@kthnx--He could be he is just a friendly guy. Or, deep down he could really like you!  but he has a girlfriend, so try to talk to him and be friendly back. He could break up with her at some point. Or he could just become a really good friend.

[HorseCraziGrl]

Don't be second banana!

[MinecraftBuddy2]

F*cking screw u!!! I ain't listening to u

[MinecraftBuddy2]

Screw u

[MaximaJ31]

So what if u told them u liked them and was pretty much ready and shit but somelse comes in and scopes her away that I kinda had the feeling of it happening oready and she knws ur there to and u still like, like her and just dont hurts all the time for u to see them.... Fuck life

[lolzabubbles]

Wow! You know lots about that!!! Thanks!

[kumar123854]

i bet your fancied some boy and they had a boyfrined and they dumped you !

[foxgymnast16]

@Xdrizzzzy lol he obviously doesn't like you hahaha sukkaa

[Xdrizzzzy]

I like this guy but he likes me too but he has a gf .... Any advice ... (their dating for a year now)

[cconnor123456789]

i like a girl realy bad but she has gott a boyfriend and i got a hug from her and is that sigh that she likes me or not i super love her plzz reply thxx

[inuyashagirlforever1]

what if hehugs me tells me he loves me a lot (in a friend way) and has a gf