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Celine Dion - This Time

THOSE WHO HAVE A VOICE MUST SPEAK FOR THE VOICELESS!!!
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.•°*˜҈.•°*˜҈ ~Fatima

1 - AN ABUSE REALATIONSHIP OFTEN REPEATS A CIRLE INCLUDING THE FOLLOWING STAGES:

* Abuse: The abuser sexually, physically, financially or emotionally victimizes his partner.
* Guilt: The abuser may often feel guilt. This could be because of possible ramifications he/she may fear facing and not merely guilt over his/her actions.
* Rationalization: The abuser will rationalize his/her actions, and in doing so may end up blaming the victim as an excuse for why he was abusive.
* Normalcy: The abuser wants to remain in the relationship, and may apologize, ignore past behavior and/or claim to have changed.
* Fantasy and planning: The abuser starts fantasizing about hurting his victim and planning how to actualize his plans.
* Set-up: The abuser creates a situation where he can justify harming his victim.

2- RECOGNIZIN ABUSE:
If two or more of the following conditions are true, you should seek professional assistance to ascertain if the relationship is abusive:
* you think that being in a relationship means having no desires of your own.
* You are sometimes frightened by your partner's behavior or attitudes.
* Your partner constantly criticizes your behavior.
* Your partner calls you humiliating nicknames.
* Your partner makes constant accusations against you.
* Your partner prevents you from seeing family friends freely.
* Your partner threatens you.
* Your partner forces you to have sexual relations with him.
* Your partner hits you or throws things at you.
* Your partner is jealous and says that you belong to him.
* Your partner controls your money and gives you only a limited amount.

3 - REASONS OF STAYING IN THE RELATIONSHIP:
It is important to remember that it is not the victim's fault for being in an abusive relationship. Abuse can happen to anyone. Some reasons you may be in an abusive relationship include:
* you believe your partner when he repeatedly apologizes and claims to change.
* You feel dependent on him.
* You are scared of loneliness without him.
* You fear that your partner will hurt you if you leave.
* You are afraid you won't be able to provide for yourself financially.
* You are scared of revealing this secret.
* You don't believe anyone can help you.

4 - WHO CAN BECOME A VICTIM:
Anybody can become a victim of relationship abuse. There is no specific gender, intelligence level, class or race that is immune from abuse.
It is the abuser's fault, not the victim's.
PLEASE visit the website below for more information about relationship abuse!!

http://helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effect...

http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/relationships/abuse.html

http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/tc/domestic-violence-teen-relationship-abuse

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abuse

http://ezinearticles.com/?Emotional-Abuse-in-a-Relationship&id=1683910

http://www.stanford.edu/group/svab/relationships.shtml

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  • that was really cool .....thumbs up

  • @drnorris56

    COOL? TELL ME, HOW IS IT COOL TO GET BEATEN BY THE PEOPLE YOU CARE THE MOST?

    DID YOU EVEN BOTHER TO WATCH THE VIDEO? NO YOU DIDN’T!!!

    WHAT A SHAME!!!

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  • Fatima ! What a hearbreaking video. But so much full of hope for the better days to come. I hope your days are full of hope ;D

  • The sad truth but its real...thanxxx for standing up against all abuse Fattum!!!~Hailab~!!!

  • @ELSOLDEMEXICO7 podrías aclarar tu comentario no entendí, amistosamente.Xime

  • This Is So  Very Sad But Unfortunately So Very True----I Can Relate To This.

    Everyone Should Watch----We Should All Be Vigilant and Care For Each Other.

    Thanks For Sharing Such A Moving Video.

    God Bless All.

  • Esta es la realidad de muchas personas. Buen video para poner en alerta a quienes creen que no están siendo abusados psíquica o físicamente.

  • Violence and abuse is a terrible thing no mater what form. Thank you dear Fatima for your genuine concern to help those whom are in need. Lady♥Q *****

  • ⋱ ⋮ ⋰

    ⋯ ♥ ⋯

    ⋰ ⋮ ⋱

    ♥ Your Sunshine Loving Smile is Addictive ♥

    ♥ Lets us all spread more Love ♥

    ♥ and make this World a happier Place ♥

    ♥ And put a Sunshine Smile on every ones Face ♥

    ☮**❤** Loving You **❤**☮

  • Que lindo vídeo!

  • STOP the violence.

    Nobody has the right to harm another human being.

    You have to sing it, shout it strong.

    Thanks you.

    Thanks Xime for to sharing.

  • Dear Fatima, THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Thank you for touching this subject so sensitively.

    Thank you for caring !

    Thank you for speaking for the voiceless.!

    (shared the video in Facebook)

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