For Jen's class Pt. 2

Pt. 2

Category:

Education

Tags:

• trans
• girl
• transsexual
• transgendered
• transition
• mtf
• ftm

[beksaczarna]

please tell any guy you sleep with that you used to physically be a male. i know it's hard but it's very important that you do.

[icecoldbath]

why?

[EtherealKingdom]

That was really informative! I'd previosuly ignored reading stuff on surgery because it was yuck, but I listened to this and now I know. Thanks...

What's the NHS?

[icecoldbath]

Naional Health Service. Its the thing that the British have - its 100% free healthcare. It pays for Hormones and SRS.

[meganblah]

What about bi guys?

[icecoldbath]

few and far between, but i do look for them.

[Chaosdude7111]

You are a straight girl now, attracted to straight males, and yet before transition, you were attracted to female partners? How did your orientation change with transition? Was it hormonal?

[frnkcap]

i like to see in swim ware

[Lunaxekiese]

Like a saying goes, Everything falls at its appropriate weight. Meaning you can hide who you are. A flower petal can not fall at the same speed as a feather. Im not saying you are not a woman. YOU COMPLETELY ARE. So am I. But we are different from other women.

[Lunaxekiese]

BTW im not telling you tell the guy for his good but for your well being...You are a transsexual and being raised as a male is a huge part of your life and will always be, non transsexual women have not been raised as boys there for making us different kinds of women. It might seem appealing now not to say anything but trust me you are not happy until you share your full self. Nothing good can come from hiding, youll be hiding in plain sight.

[Lunaxekiese]

The same thing that happened in the gay community needs to happen here. We need to come out from everywhere. We need to stand strong, we need to fight. All these women after SRS go and hide and live "normal" lives and what does that leave the community with people that just started, people that escort. By doing this we give the world only a small view into who we are. What Trannygirl13 said in one of her videos of what she thinks about srs and why she isnt gettign it is a great point of view.

[Lunaxekiese]

Being a transsexual doesnt mean having a penis. Its will always be part of you because no other women have gone through the same things that trans women have gone through...not because they never got the chance but because it was never even an option. THe best thing to do is to love yourself completely....i think its time for us transwomen to change our views about our community and ourselves. I think its time for change. Transsexual are beautiful people. We are not freaks.

[Lunaxekiese]

you will have the same problems that you had before surgery.... it will just be internal. Youll still feel self concious about your body because mostlikely you wont have bigger hips to make up for your shoulders. youll still wonder if people are looking at you because they know or because you are pretty. If you decide not to tell your boyfriend or husband, youll feel like you arent sharing yourself with him completely. You will always be a transsexual. no matter what you do or dont.

[Christadarling]

too tell a potential partner? Yes. Please tell them. They deserve to know that. However if I were straight I dont know if would tell someone who is simply a sexual partner post transition

[Christadarling]

Adoption is always popular. And i know many MANY biological women who can pee standing up.

[rybpo7]

Because it's honest. Because it's fair. Wait until you are comfortable and he knows YOU as the lovely woman you are, but it's not fair to not say anything. What happens when he meets your kind friend Ted and it comes out that you used to have a male body? How do you think he would feel?