my friend brought up a problem for me a few nights ago ...
ever since ive been feeling empty ... emo ...
and the problem goes something like this ...
90% of all friendship are there because we work together ... we go to school together ... or some other activities that put us together on a daily basis ...
once this activity stops ... 95% of all those will discontinue contact with each other ...
the 5% left become really good friends that call each other out and stay ...
but then even the best of friends would separate if people move too far appart ... let say "Paul has to move to England to work and Jenn stays in Canada to work"
you can work at it and try to keep all your friends ... but ask yourself ... how many of your friends ... would you talk about your life with and not just a person you know ... even if you knew them since kindergarden ... how many of them are you comfortable spending large amounts of time with ...
So my question is ... to prevent the lost of friends ... even just the really good friends ... what would you do ???
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