Mr. Predictable

Relationships are 50/50 both parties need to put in the same amount of effort to make things work. You don't have to surrender to her every need and want nor should you have to be attached to a leash! To make her like you more, treat her with the same respect that you want in return.

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[AndrewInCali]

Fuck the games and just be real, then what you have between you will be real. Then you can find someone that actually likes YOU for being you. Damn the mind fucks.

[hunter7754]

stop with the fucking mind games and just put it straight

Do you like me or not? If not, then fuck off

I fucking hate girls that act like a tease or try to play hard to get..

[begood20000]

@boogiebuddy01 Wasn't that an episode of Seinfeld

[slayer94ism]

@hunter7754 tell me about it dude SHEESH women i like challenges but teasing is fucked up

[thestrugglewithin]

@thestrugglewithin

Cont 2

The value of anything in life lies int he 'getting' of it, not in the 'got'.

Once the chase is over with, excitement dies.

Ever had 'buyers remorse'?

Ever FINALLY *got* something only to feel that it wasnt exactly what you expected?

Not to imply that you should be constantly messing with things like 'playing hard to get'. Develop yourself to be the kind of guy that lives a life that automatically fulfills these things - life doesnt revolve around women.

[thestrugglewithin]

@thestrugglewithin

Cont.

Its validating for her to perceive that she has WON (earned; requiring effort aka CHASE!) the desire of a guy who she perceives is of value.

Think about it - if you felt that you had EARNED (won) the desire of a woman who you felt was the bees knees, you would be crazy about her.

Take that same woman, and ask yourself how would it feel to have 'got' her so easily?

You'd feel that former girl, is of more value than the latter girl.

[thestrugglewithin]

Problem:

The advice given here (make a date and cancel), implies GAME PLAYING.

You can engage in that, but the only girls that will reciprocate are going to be the girls that PLAY GAMES. Good luck with that mess.

The UNDERLYING MESSAGE she is trying to say here is that you need to be the kind of guy that is an INDIVIDUAL, that has his OWN LIFE. Not some wuss that waits on her hand and foot; that wreaks desperation.

[elpibegustavo]

@AndrewInCali this advice is really gay, it sounds like you failed a lot. it sounds like u're desperate. she's not saying "be fake" , the chase is a really fun game to play if you know how to do it. And i use the word "game" but it's not really game. How boring would it be if you just knew she liked you? that's gay and desperate bro

[superhealthy100]

2 nd example//.. playboy model is in town..alll the guys are fussing over her saying how beautiful she is ..like she hasnt heard that before. i walk in covered in mud from elk hunting...teh guys who were working so hard introduce me.. on hearing she is a playboy model i reply "lucky for u it is elk season not bunny season" ..straight away she announced i am going with him..and no not dumb..she had a masters degree in law,but a sshe says gets paid 6 digits to be a bimbo.

[superhealthy100]

REALITY IS MATING AND MATE SELECTION IS BIOLOGICALLY DRIVEN...Woss's get in relationshipos then get treated like dirt.. Example of personal non woss pickup..paddling my ski up the river and a hot blonde in a bikini is doing a breaching display like a whale.As i get close she smiles and ask's if there are sharks in the river..answer far more chance of being eaten by a passing kayaker. smile...staright away sucess

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[aSliverofsanity]

@jms8220 True, true