boundary issues

recently, i've been experiencing boundary issues like a bitch. Not it the sense that I let people walk all over me, I really don't. I stand up for myself just fine, but in the sense that my need for privacy and seperateness has been completely eradicated to the point where I frustrate and alienate a lot of individuals. Have you ever met someone, online, and connected with them so quickly literally six hours into talking to them it was like you were best friends with them and had known them your whole life? this has happened to me, not once, not even twice but dozens upon dozens of times. It's left me in this vulrenable position of sharing very initmiate details with total strangers and either eliciticing an empathetic response or being told to fuck off, it depends on who. They say this is based in some kind of fear of rejection or aloneness but that's not really what's going on, What has happened is my need for a serpate identity has completely vanished. I don't care. I want to drown in the sea of oneness. I literrally have no more walls and no boundries at all. Not issues-they're just not there.

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[Fireinthedawn]

13. individual scores extremely high on all intelligence test (not just IQ) and emotional intelligence test (not just EQ) -is gifted in BOTH departments

[Fireinthedawn]

12. Individual ABHORS Imposed structure and routine-any structure one will accept is self created and nonauthoritarian in nature. Does better in chaos than highly structured enviroments. The complete opposite of AS.

[Fireinthedawn]

7. individual feels that the world is emotionally timid-As a "run to" in a world that's inclined to "Run away"

8. Individual heavily relates to finctional characters-To such an extent that it's almost as if he knows them personally.

9. Individual has few if any secrets-is an open book.

10. Individual has a deep rooted need to expose their emotional underworld to the public.

11. individuals "emotional clock" seems to move at least 50% faster than everyones around them.

[Fireinthedawn]

4. individual is gifted in mathmatics, and technology, but not to such an extent as to be impatient or lack social functioning: prefers people over machines.

5. Individual although discriminate about social bonding forms relationships with other individuals at rates that cause some or most others to feel the breaks should be pressed. Gets to know people at alarming speed.

6, Individual is secure enough to alienate people who don't "Get it"

[Fireinthedawn]

if there is a psychological term for this condition I don't know it. Sympthoms:

1. Indiviudal apparentally has NO fear of abandonment nor rejection.

2. Individual reaches out-a little too much, in emotional distress.

3. Individual is empathetic to such an extreme that when others describe their problems one will sometimes alienate the complaining party by advocating extreme solutions where other individuals feel moderate to conservative solutions are the proper ones

[Fireinthedawn]

@mcwillis2831

The hallmarks of aspies seem to be that they "don't like people-they prefer machines" also they are very analytical and left brained. What if My Left brain is just hyperactive and my right brain is normal to elevated as well?

[iNinjaPenquin]

I honestly cannot help you. The only thing i can relate to is the confusion of what you feel and the frustration of labeling the condition. I admire you.. you're amazing.

[Fireinthedawn]

@mcwillis2831

it either event it's not either condition. I'm mechanically and mathmatically gifted, there's no genetic cause for what I have. Maybe I got diagnosed with AS because the way I relate to my family (the people I depend on) is somewhat autistic to them. If I need help with something I NEED HELP WITH SOMETHINg and Can be quite beligerent about getting it-they sometimes feel as if they're just a means to an end to me .nothing could be further from the truth.

[Fireinthedawn]

@mcwillis2831

I just had needs as a child that most children didn't have-my diet, my handwriting, etc. But people traditonally place what seems more accurate on the OPPOSITE end of the spectrum. because autism IS a spectrum, and as high functioning as AS is it's STILL on the opposite side-It seems WIlliam's syndrome would be closer to the truth.

[Fireinthedawn]

@mcwillis2831

as I was the one that had long felt my mother should leave my father for the way he treated her and all of us. I was the one that the MINUTE I found out my best female friend was being abused by the guy she was staying with shelled out hundreds of dollars to put her on a bus back to her family who was hopefully better to her. I was the one that heavily related to characters in books and movies and pop culture. I don't know HOW i got diagnosed with AS.