Physical Attraction & Testosterone - Episode #16

http://TheFourFactorsBook.com | Some people know instantly how attracted they are to someone and this level of physical attraction won't change much over time. In contrast, other people can have his/her level of physical attraction change wildly over time. This video discusses this phenomena and the role of testosterone in our level of physical attraction to our partners.

Category:

Education

Tags:

• physical attraction
• testosterone
• dating
• relationships
• sex
• visual
• relationship advice

[dj6230]

WTF?

I might start high on attracted then go way below bottom as time goes.

I always ALWAYS see every flaw in a woman as time goes by.

Fucking pisses me off, never manage to settle with one for more than a week.

I can see that your line for woman is true tho, as they just wont let me go, if its because of the 'hard to get' concept or not I dont know.

I know for certain that your graph is not true for everyone.

[TheFourFactors]

@dj6230 I don't think it's uncommon for your attraction to a woman to go down. Perhaps there are factors that dampen it down like you're not interested in them anymore or don't want a relationship with them, but they do or you were more interested in some physical intimacy one night, but not more... Thanks for commenting.

[Tutilost]

Good vid. I'm a mid-age male. Always noticed that chicks, young & old (20s - 60s) were attracted to me. In my teens-20s was bold/good confidence level with babes, work , etc. Then, for some damn reason, I became shy/feelings of unworthyness w/beautiful chicks, work promotions, etc. Recently took T-test, low (175), doc puzzled, all normal except T. Replacement T working well, bolder, happier, hornier, haha...must be careful w/babes at work...sex harassment thing. T may've been low since 30s. Thx

[TheFourFactors]

@Tutilost Glad the video helped. Thanks for the comment!

[wacoinferno]

@TheFourFactors today is 01/26/2010 and today i begin testosterone shots. it is now 10;45 here i'll take my first shot @ 3;00 oclock. how long will the shot last and how long will it take befor i start to feel anything. . cause right now i have a level of testosterone of 241 and iam 4 months away from being 50 my wife is 32. .the last few years i have had no energy at all i like to sleep a lot and i a grouch or so says my wife. but my sex drive is good. will i not feel as tired all the time?

[TheFourFactors]

@wacoinferno Hi... Thanks for the comment. To be clear, I'm not a medical doctor and am not an expert on testosterone shots. You should direct all questions in that area to your physician.

I am interested in how your physical attraction is for you wife. E.g. when you first met her was your testosterone low? And how was your physical attraction for your wife? Were you immediately physically attracted to her, or did it take time for you to become physically attracted to her?

Best, Ron

[TheFourFactors]

Thanks for your post. Glad you like the video. Good that you know which group you fall into so you can act accordingly.

[NCBCSPRINGRETREAT]

Fascinating, fascinating. Every person seems to be different here. For me at least, it takes me quite some time to realize if I'm attracted to someone; in any way. I get to know them in group settings, and an interest grows over time as I see who they are. Great video!! ^^

[TheFourFactors]

Thanks!

[NorthCentralMass]

haha i know, I find this video and topic very interesting though