You Were ( a love song for a baby born still) .wmv

In my work as a bereavement support nurse, I was honored to spend time with families whose child was born still, or died shortly after birth. Many of these families sought comfort in music. However, there were few songs that addressed a loss of a child you have never held alive, or perhaps will never touch at all.
With my friends, I wrote a song using the words, thoughts and ideas expressed to me by these families. In creating this song we hope to give some comfort or validation to those who have loved and lost a baby in this way.
For support you may find many resources on this page http://www.sidscenter.org/Bereavement/index.html

Category:

Music

Tags:

• stillbirth
• stillborn
• miscarriage
• loss
• infant loss
• bereavement
• sorrow
• hope
• fetal death
• SADS
• sids resource center
• first candle

[ourkatbob]

This is the hardest thing you will ever do, but you can do it. You will for your 3 year old, and for his parents. Please reach out and find support. No one needs to do this alone.

[ourkatbob]

I am so sorry for your loss. You can find supportive and informative resources at sidscenter. org ( look for the bereavement tab)

[Jaylasmommi11]

For my baby girl Jayla Rae born sleeping January 22, 2011 at 32 weeks and 5 days gestation. i miss you my precious child i wish i could hold you just one more time. save me a spot in heaven.

[HallieDanielle0811]

my twin brother died when he was first born.. even though i wish he was here i've got a great grandmother in heaven to take care of him.|: <3

[darkangelification26]

its hard for all of us who have lost our little angels , i lost two little twin angels that died a week after birth , i think about them day and night and cant get my head around why god had to take two such innocent angels. but i guess now there in a safer place . they didnt have to go through all this shit on earth and went straight to heaven so thank you god for taking there pain away. they will never be forgotten<3

[camptownTX]

FOR MY SWEET ANGEL BABY RIGO JR. BORN PREMATURE AT 20 WEEKS OLD ON AUG 2, 2011. HE LIVED FOR 20 MIN. I DONT KNOW HOW TO DO IT, ITS SO HARD FOR ME. HE WAS MY FIRST CHILD.. MOMMY LOVES U :'(

[SuperMay35]

in loving memory of my baby boy so was burn still 29 12 2004.we miss you so much.

[axkk12]

''As I gaze at these stars in the cold black sky.

You could be just a speck to the universal eye.

But if you look into my heart, you're as big as the sun.

How can we have finished when we've only just begun.''

-I can really relate to this, every night I look out the window at the stars, choose the brightest one and think it's my baby alex. :(

[smile2cute1]

This song hits home as we lost our son at full term May 10/11 to go and fly with angels. My heart bleeds each day as we miss him so much. Fly Julien Zachary.

[36korn]

my son Christopher was born may 16th 1987 and died the same time ,the pain has and always be here in my heart .....

[MattyandAlhanasMommy]

This song hit's home really hard. My husband and I just lost our daughter who was full term and born stillborn Feb 25th, 2011..things have been extremely hard. when i think i am being strong for our 3 yr old son, i find myself holding him and crying . we will never get threw this..no parent should ever have to out live their kids. I miss my daughter, we got to hold her and have her in the room with us, while we were in the hospital, but it was really hard.