Broken Vows Free vs. Forced Marriages by Khalid Latif

Aa'ishah(RA) reported that a girl came to her and said, "My father married me to his brother's son in order to raise his social standing, and I did not want this marriage [I was forced into it]." ?Aa'ishah(RA) said, "Sit here until the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) comes. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) came and she told him about the girl. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) sent for her father, then he gave the girl the choice of what to do. She said, "O Messenger of Allaah, I have accepted what my father did, but I wanted to prove something to other women." (Reported by al-Nisaa'i, 3217).

Narrated Abu Huraira:

The Prophet said, "A matron should not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission." The people asked, "O Allah's Apostle! How can we know her permission?" He said, "Her silence (indicates her permission)." Volume 7, Book 62, Number 67.

Volume 7, Book 62, Number 69:


Narrated Khansa bint Khidam Al-Ansariya: that her father gave her in marriage when she was a matron and she disliked that marriage. So she went to Allah's Apostle and he declared that marriage invalid. Volume 7, Book 62, Number 69.

Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as having said: "A woman without a husband (or divorced or a widow) must not be married until she is consulted, and a virgin must not be married until her permission is sought. They asked the Prophet of Allah (may peace be upon him): How her (virgin's) consent can be solicited? He (the Holy Prophet) said: That she keeps silence. (Translation of Sahih Muslim, The Book of Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah), Book 008, Number 3303)"

Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas: "A virgin came to the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) and mentioned that her father had married her against her will, so the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) allowed her to exercise her choice. (Translation of Sunan Abu-Dawud, Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah), Book 11, Number 2091)"

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[MahyarAkbar]

Only at 6 seconds so far, weird to see 5-1 dislikes ... lol

[ByChoiceMuslim]

@MahyarAkbar there is some guy with 11 accounts disliking all my videos. So far 6 for this video, 5 more to go.

[cr564]

This is a great video. Thank you for the video. Jazakallah khairan katsiran

[GalatasarayuA75]

+1 brother

[fandanstan]

I love the message, but I don't like the way he speaks. It's like nails on a chalkboard lol

[ThePatientMuslim]

MashAllah this is very nice lecture, because too many of us Muslims do things like bringing the marriage only available for those whom are from the same "culture". Even though we're Muslims and believe in Allah, culture is nothing when we compare it to what Islam has brought. InshAllah we would bring more goodness and make good things easy, as well as bringing the bad things, as hard thing to do. Aamen.

[ThePatientMuslim]

@ByChoiceMuslim It is very sad that some people take it as their "work" to do such thing as dislike the YouTube videos. Like it would really mean anything, as the truth will truly prevail over the falsehood. Even when some of the people, sadly have very childish ways of "making their voice heard". Assalaamun Alaikum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatuh, JazakAllah Khair. May Allah give you strength and safeguard you from the evilness of the wicked ones. Aamen.

[yassouid]

@ByChoiceMuslim May Allah(swt) forgive him or her.

[hudazeta]

Great !!!!

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[Mach2411]

Great video...ignore the dislikers lol

[mjustm3]

@ByChoiceMuslim

I really like these videos

jazakAllah

[MsBlahblah29]

@ByChoiceMuslim

block the accounts, it is possible! :)