Sex, Religion, and Guilt... Where Will It End?

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Here's a story about a religious man who really loves his girlfriend, but is having great difficulty forgiving for her past sexual activity. Should he forgive her or leave her? You decide...

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[LoverOfTruth07]

Hello everyone! I just wanted to clarify that Catholic teaching aknowledges the fact that we are sexual beings as very good! The fact that Dan and Jennifer stated that religion deems sex and sexuality to be dirty and evil only demonstrates a lack of understanding of Catholic teaching. I'd reccomend reading Christopher West's book "The Good news about Sex and marriage" It gives the whys behind what appears to be the 'rules' of Catholic teaching.

[DanAndJenn]

We are not talking about religion in general - only the fundamentalists who seem to believe that ignorance is power and use it to control their followers.

[TheMathGuy]

Only too true! I was brought up in a religiously fundamentalist environment and was plagued with guilt over masturbation and pornography, even though what I was doing wasn't harming anyone else. This concept of "virginity" and the idea that having sex "spoils" someone is arcane and outdated!

[RationalSchema]

Then there are a ton of Christians not following those teachings.

[Oaklandgirlpitlover1]

@JackBlair2 Well, first of all, I don't get penetrated. I'm the penetrator. LOL! But seriously, we live in a country full of religions and beliefs that try to inhibit you, and take away all of your creativity that God blessed you with from day one. In exchange for conforming to unnesescary uniformity. Guilt is not something God desighned us to feel. When it comes to sex, we humans are the only animal species that trips on it. While all other animals think nothing of it. Its natural.

[JackBlair2]

@Oaklandgirlpitlover1 But at what point should guilt kick in? OK, so you have sex now and then. No prob. You have sex a few times a week. OK.

Then you're triple penetrated four times a day for a month straight.

Does guilt ever kick in legitimately? I'd think you'd at least feel a LITTLE guilty for not using your time more wisely. Unless you're getting paid for all that work, which is ok, it shows a strong work ethic.

[JackBlair2]

There is a point where feeling guilt is unavoidable, especially if you're an insatiable cock slut.

[SexySageSexy]

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[Oaklandgirlpitlover1]

@fdzwes WHAT!? ^_^

[Oaklandgirlpitlover1]

@RationalSchema NOPE!!!!!! I sure as hell don't!

[Oaklandgirlpitlover1]

@TheMathGuy I agree with you. Especially that last sentence. The verry Idea that sex is dirty, and it spoils or "DEFILES" (the word they really love to use) someone, it is FUCKIN' STUPID!

[fdzwes]

The end of the complete removal of Sexual fear/repression is rampant venereal disease, rape, and death and these two losers know that. They will not address the horrible effects sexual determinism has on a young man suffering from Same Sex Attraction (Being told you will remain gay for the rest of your life and enjoy it) or if a man hears "no" but thinks it's part of the game. True these two provide a necessary service, but people would be better served seeking competent Christian counseling.