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Uploaded by on Mar 15, 2011

Just some ideas about what perpetrators see and look for in the people they rape/abuse/molest etc. My thoughts. Very triggering material for some

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  • perfect victim... but in my heart of hearts there is a person who would delight in someone who found me so irresistable that they forced themselves on me. does that make me so messed up? is that just ego? neediness? I hate that. need is weakness.

  • i love you!<3 But you keep macking me CRY!:(<3<3<3<3<3

  • thanks for this, your such a beautiful and strong person <3

  • As usual, your insight moves me to tears. Yes. I feel similarly. Been there more than once. I think you have identified some key issues here. It's so hard to process these truths. Anyway... You are heard, precious one. Xoxox!

  • You described me, spot on,xxx

  • Totally know what you mean, and if it werent a difficult topic then there would be something wrong and anything rape/abuse/molest is wrong and needs to be stopped :) xx

  • A few hours have passed since I first watched this painful video. It drugged up an area that I ask for your or other viewers feedback. You know my history of being an incest (by mother) survivor who also was anorexic-bulimic. Negatively, this has left scars on me. Positively, it has made me ultra-compassionate toward any other like sufferers. MY QUESTION,,, should a man or woman who knows they have the possibility of harming their child thru ED or predator issues NOT have children???

  • Yes, I agree Pixie. The possibility of being re-victimized is always just around the corner. Perhaps to the extent that it is familiar a person subconsciously falls into the situation only because it IS familiar.,, (comfortable?) But at the same time, I think there must be a sense of rebellion against it happening again. Thus there is always a certain uneasiness in relationships. Like,,, I want to be healthy, help my un-healthy, conflict. Is it like that? x0x - Tom

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